Relationship / Long distance advice?

I live in a little town where I just met this girl that I really really like a lot. We've talked about dating but there are several problems..


1) I'm moving to the city 2 hours away in 3 weeks


2) We are not really sure about a long distance relationship


3) Shes never been in a real relationship before and she doesnt really want her first to be a long distance one.





What do I do? I really like her but on the other hand we have these problems. Do I do the long distance? or do I cut everything right now? Do I just keep hanging out with her until I leave (which will make it harder to leave)?Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long-distance relationships are hard and the only way for it to work is if both people are committed.





Hangout with her until you leave. Stay friends and make an effort to come see her or have her visit after you move. If you still spend time together visiting, talking on the phone or chatting online, one thing may lead to another. If you are meant to be together things will find a way to work themselves out :)Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long distance relationships don't work. Plus, you just met this girl. Just enjoy the time you have now and then part your ways when you have to move.
WHEN IN DISTANCE LOVE....WE ARE ALL FOUR HAPPY



If you've just met it could be really difficult to maintain that kind of relationship. My man lives 2 hours drive away and it's really difficult. However we have known each other for years, and we've dated once before 3 years ago for about 10 months. Because we have a foundation to work off of it makes it a whole lot easer.





Long distance relationships throw in a whole lot of extra pros and cons you have to consider. In the long run though it takes alot more effort then dating close by. With a new relationship you need to build a connection. I think it's alot easier to maintain an relationship long distance then to build one.





Nobody can really answer the question for you, You have to weigh the situation for yourselves. If she's already having doubts about the distance it will probably be very difficult to make things work.





good luck!