Thursday, December 31, 2009

Long Distance Relationship Advice Please?

I've been seeing the same man for about a year and a half. He recently moved about 9 hours away from where I'm located, and I'll be lucky if I see him every 6 weeks or so. I'm afraid I am more willing to make it work than he is (which probably should answer my question on its own...) but I care about him a lot, and have never wanted a relationship to work as much as I do with this one.





I suppose my question is, should I give up and let him go? Long distance relationships don't usually work out very well, and I'm afraid I'm in a situation of damned if you do, damned if you don't. Should I end things now, or wait and see what happens?Long Distance Relationship Advice Please?
long distance dont work wellLong Distance Relationship Advice Please?
If you both really love each other, there will be a way for you both to be together forever...


one will have to move to be closer to each other...
9 hours.......


do what your heart tells you to do


considering the situation


the odds are against satisfactory results
not all long distance relationship will fail, just like short distance will fail too. that depends on how the two of you will work it out to make it a fruitful one in the future. if you really like this man and found that he is doing well to retain the relationship intact between the two of you, why not just wait for the result? who knows he will be your future.
It depends. If the move is permanent then it will be hard. I think you are right and it sounds like you have answered your own question which is a hard thing to accept. But remember, whilst you may feel about this man at the moment, in 1 years time, you may be head over heals in love with someone else. This has happened to me before so I do sympathise but now I ma with someone else who I love dearly. Good luck with whatever you decide.
well there is always hope you may get lucky and something may happen, he comes back or asks you to move out with him, but i would give it some time just to see what happens but if it keeps up that its just not looking like its going to work than its time to cut ties.
That's up to you. It takes a lot of work from BOTH parties to make a long distance relationship work. If you're giving more effort than he is, then it will probably not be worth it. You'll start to get irritated and start to feel unappreciated. I would sit down and talk with him and see how he feels about it. If he sounds unsure, then maybe it's best to end things now on good terms.
  • eye makeup remover
  • body cream
  • No comments:

    Post a Comment