My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and have been together for a year and a half, but have been very close for the last three and a half years, i have been attracted to him from the very beginning. both of us are in college now, and although visiting during school breaks have been very easy for us because i fly free, im not sure whether we should stay together. recently while talking, he told me that he would be unable to move in with me until he graduates college in 3 years, and unfortunately moving to be with him is out of the question (he lives in california and i live in new orleans on a full scholarship) i love him deeply and i can't imagine having a connection like this with anybody else, but i am so lonely at school without him and miss having a boyfriend around to be with me. as much as i would like to think i can wait another 3 years of college without him, i worry that this isn't fair to either of us, and that eventually he or i will find someone else that is closer, therefore a less stressful relationship. should i stick it out for 3 years or is it time to move on?Long distance relationship advice?
Everyone's a little different. I'm in a long distance relationship right now, also because school keeps us apart. I get a little lonely, but like I always call him everyday and we see each other at least once at month. To me, that's enough, and I feel very content. However, if I were to ever start to feel the way you're feeling, I think I would break it off even if it hurts at first. Waiting three years is a lot for you to handle right now if you're already feeling lonely. I say you should break it off now before your relationship gets worse. Maybe you should even talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
So yeah, over all, I think you should break it off and move on because I think you'd feel better about it later on. Also, you'd feel happier having a guy around there to go out to movies with you and cuddle, etc. Good luck with everything.Long distance relationship advice?
my advice..
if you are willing to wait for eachother do what you can to keep in touch.
BUT HONESTLY,
long distance relationships never work.
its a fact.
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