I do not think long distance is the way to go. I have tried long distance with my boyfriend and It really didn't work. A lot of people who are doing long distance now don't usually make it with their relationships. Like think about it, our grandmas and grandpas have been married for over 30 or 40 years, 50 even and I doubt they had long distance.Yes they might of sent letters to their spouse if they went away for a while but they did not base their relationship on computers, text, webcam, e-mail, and msn. People who do relationships like that, or even start long distance usually end it in 5 months or less. Even when people see each other and our near each other, and they do this, you are not physically interacting with each other. You start forgetting how to treat the other, and start looking for other fish in the sea. I think that if people are going to do long distance, they should REALLY think about it. You don't see our grandmas and grandpas having 50 year anniversary's with their online boyfriend or girlfriend. Get a person that can ';read'; you. Body language, laugh, anything. I can read my boyfriend very well. I am really good with body language and I know all his patterns and what action goes with what emotion. When he gets deep into something he starts rubbing his eye, when he plays his guitar and some times starts a song he will do something with his nose, or sleeps with his hand in certain places. When you know your boyfriends body language and all his little things he does, it is much easier to read him if there is something different, or hes happy, stressed, or relaxed. You can't have that online. I say try and leave the long distance relationship and be with some one who you can be with in person.Long-distance relationship advice?
relationship won't work without contact at some point and regularly.long distance is only temporary and someone has to make a sacrifice and move.till then visit as often as possible and make sure the person is worth it.otherwise seek someone in your own area and save yourself the extra problems .
They dont. They really dont. I wouldnt be able to survive it. Noone would.
they dont!
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