Thursday, December 31, 2009

Long distance relationship advice?

I need some advice on keeping my long distance relationship alive.Long distance relationship advice?
Don't listen to the people who say it won't work. They're just bitter their cheesy relationships didn't work out.





Constant communication is so important. As it allows you two to feel closer. Knowing what is going on in each other's life every day helps to avoid feeling ';out of the loop'; and it builds trust (something very hard to keep in a l/d relationship sometimes). When my boyfriend and I were apart (1,500 miles) we talked on the phone as much as we could. We would call the other person every single morning and wake them up for work, call on lunch breaks, after work and talk literally until we went to bed that night. We also arranged to spend a few days together at least once a month, by flying out to see each other.





We were friends online for over 5 years and we have been dating for over 1.5 years. We are currently living together and happier than ever.





They CAN work out. With a lot of effort on both parts.Long distance relationship advice?
Lots of phone calls (my LD gf and I both have Vonage = no charge!), texts, IMs, the occasional card and/or letter, and as many visits as you can afford!
its not going to work..
Hunn..It don't work. sorry.
I had the mother of all long distance relationships. It lasted nearly 1.5 years! And no he didn't cheat on me. But only because he was gay and didn't want to act out on his homosexual tendencies. Yeah...but maybe we were more friends than anything anyway. We were happy with just talking. We were really close because we were totally dedicated to emailing each other and using Skype. We made lots of time to do all that and talk to each other about everything (except, as it turned out, for the whole gay thing. lol). Try not to get jealous about little things. Just stay open and very communicative with each other.
long distance relationships are hard.


im not saying they're impossible.


but you both have to be very commited for them to work.





just pick a time once or twice a week where you can IM or maybe talk on the phone. keep in touch always.


and keep the relationship growing.


talk as often as you can, and get to know eachother as best as you can.





hope i helped...


and i hope everything goes well for you two!
really there are two essential things you need


1) lots of love and trust


2) dedication


Just make sure you have enough trust to not get jealous, and make sure you guys talk on the phone and see each other on occasions, just keep the love alive. If you two truly love each other, it will work out. If not, it wasn't meant to be. I hope this helped.
I'm Stacksosaurus' boyfriend, so I can vouch for the accuracy of her statements :)
call eachother often





make sure you have full trust in eachother because that first seed of doubt will seriously kill a relationship





try webcams.





chat online often.
dude, foget about it, unless you wanna become an over jealous psycho piece of s#!t, forget about it. they dont work.
OKay, it depends on how long the distance is going to be and how often you are going to get to see each other..





i went away to school and my boyfriend and i made it work for about 3 months but then i decided to come home. ALSO my brother and his girlfriend are doing it and its only for about 8 months.





So i think as long as you get to see each other on a weekly or every other weekly basis it won't be too bad if its for a forever period of time but if its for a short period of time, just keep faith.





Also, presents, letters and care packages are awesome.
First things first..DO NOT listen to ANYONE who says that long distance relationships don't work. I live thousands of miles away from my boyfriend (he lives in Europe and I live in the US). He comes to the US for 5 months every year, and I go there for 3..but that means we are apart for 4 months at a time (right now...)





What you should do is download Skype for your computers. On skype, you can talk to each other for free when you are on the computer (which will help to keep phone bills down), and it also has games that you can play with each other (like battleships, bowling..etc etc.) I always love playing the games with my boyfriend, because it makes us laugh and have fun together, even though we can't be with each other.





I hope this helped.. :) Good luck. I wish you the best.
Just text alot and keep contact all the time...DONT LIE!


or all trust will be gone...


and suprise them once in awhile by going to see them!


thats always cute!
send romantic e mails





mail her a card





Send her a gift or flowers





Schedule a trip together..maybe you can both meet 1/2 way..





then theres the phone sex....?
well just have fun like on the internet and on the phone thats about the only thing I can say sorry for no help haha
long distance relationships do not work! it just ends in alot of heartache and sorrow! give up now before its years down the line tht you are waiting still for this person! ive been there and done it! trust me its just not worth it! (unless the person tht you are in a relationship with loves you enough to move near you anytime soon! i'd lose this person)!
Long distance relationship have some fun, and if you like it keep it with net or phone... you'll be first when is finished


Long distance relationship don't worm your bad !!

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