Monday, December 28, 2009

Long distance relationship advice help please?

its a long story but ill try to shorten it the best i can...my boyfriend lives in the uk i live in the us...economies have been sucking and weve both been spending all our money to see eachother even if its just for a couple weeks. right now im in university and hes unemployed with no college or license or anything. my mom says im holding him back because hes spending so much time and money trying to see me. im 100% crazy in love with him. so my question is....should i just try to break it off with him so he can focus on himself and try to get into college and get a license...or should i just continue having a long distance relationship. (weve been together over a year now he had to leave u.s. when his visa ran out and cant hes unable to renew it right now)Long distance relationship advice help please?
it's not your fault that he's failing, no offense or anything. That is way to far away to have a relationship though, I know your in love with him and everything, but you really got to focus on yourself and your studies, school should be your number one priority, boys can come later. If you love something you should let it go, and if it comes back to you, then it was meant to be....think about it.Long distance relationship advice help please?
seriously, the love is there and most ppl are not as lucky as you to have found it. i think yal should stay together and make it work as best as u can. but i do think you should ask him what he needs, does he need his space to get his life in order or is he fine with the current situation. its about how you two feel, ask him if he feels like your holding him back... listen to mommy, moms have good advice! but just consider the advice... that's y they give it to you. good luck
Keep in contact through letters email and loads of pictures with heartfelt smiles,finish your education and let him get his you both work hard and it will all pay off I promise.The moment you stop smiling and loss faith in your love you can be guaranteed that it just isn't worth it anymore and will have leave in mutual understanding.But I read what you wrote and I know as strong as both your love is you won't face that fate.Stay strong,both of you,ok?
Hey marie its gary long time no talk if u really love samdont let anything break u two up its not worth losin him true love lasts thru anything and if u make each other happy nothing else matters love u and miss talkin to u
find someone local, why sit around lonely for months at a time? life is too short
Talk it over with him, don't jump to any conclusions without communicating with him. Be as honest as you can, and I'm sure you two will make the best choice


best of luck to ya both
they never work...
you are 100% crazy in love. That's a high percentage. I think if you love him that much, then you should move to UK with him and find a job there. They love american citizen there, im sure you will get a job and school there. Good Luck
Ok So seriously... Its not only your decision... a relationship is a partnership... and if you two love each other so much then doing what ever it takes to be together is what matters most... Yes he should be going to college and getting his life together but he can do that even if you guys are together... Your going to college he can do it too.. It just means you will have to cut back your time together... But in the end it will be worth it because you both will have a good job.. and be able to be together... :) You will be great when your at your lowest there will always be something great to make up for it :)
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I'm in your case and although theren't money problem, I can say it's very hard to keep in touch.. More there is the risk that your boyfriend find another girl in Uk, sorry.. It's sad if you're faithful and not him so ...





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