there is this guy that i like. a lot. and he seems to like me too. a lot. it all started last summer when we were on the same soccer team, we went to the same school, but never really noticed eachother before that. anyway, in september he moved four states away, becuase of family complications. but we still keep in touch. my friends all tell me that i'm crazy and that i need to move on. but i can't! its not like i'm going around and moping or anything. its just that we talk on the phone about once a week, and we write letters. and i don't date other guys becuase i'm just not interested (especially since the last three guys have been... unique...) but so far it seems to work out great! we're not bf %26amp; gf, we're both free to see other people, but we both dont want to. everybody thinks i'm stupid, but i think what i'm doing is ok. what do you guys think?Advice on long distance relationships?
long distance relationships don't work out most of the time but there are some that do. If you are happy with the way things are going keep doing it and stop listening to your friends there not the ones walking in your shoesAdvice on long distance relationships?
I understand how you feel. I can still remember the sadness I felt when my childhood girlfriend moved away. My heart was crushed and no one in the whole world seemed to understand what I was going through. So believe me when I tell you that I feel your pain. However, there is an old saying, ';Time heels all wounds.'; If my childhood sweetheart had not moved I doubt very seriously we would be together. That is just the way life is. People change. Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go. My advice for you is, that no matter how sad or lonely you may feel right now it is not the end of the world. You are a bright, intelligent young lady and you have your whole life ahead you. It's okay for you and your friend to keep in touch but don't be afraid to go out and date and meet other people. Believe it or not, very few people ever wind up marrying there high school sweetheart. You will be okay. I will be praying for you.
I think what you're doing is fine. I commend you for keeping up a long distance relationship because they are HARD and not a lot of people can do it. I, too, am in a long distance relationship. It was quite difficult at first but after meeting guys in my hometown I'm more convinced that the long distance one is the one for me.
Don't let what others say or think get in the way of your happiness. If you are happy and are fine with not being able to see him often then you have the right to do what you want. Once things settle down and you are older and more capable, you can turn the long distance into a short distance thing. For now just ignore what others have to say. They are just jealous that you have found happiness in something they probably can't maintain.
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