Thursday, December 31, 2009

Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?

Okay Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend we have been together for almost two years now. He has recently moved away two months ago. He came up to visit last month and now in two weeks im going to visit for a week. But my problem is I am sexually frustrated now. I don't know what to do i'm in my mid twenties I have toys and have no problem pleasing myself but its not working. He thinks its funny I don't know what to do. Any advice are there any other things I can do to get my mind off of sex seriously I am going to see him in two weeks but it seems like its taking forever to get here..HELP!!Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
OK, you should start thinking if what you want is a partner or just someone to have sex with. A relation ship is much more than sex... in fcat its making love more than having sex, making love means a real conection. SO move and start working out. Me and my faince live in diferent countries and we deal very well on that. We know eachother very much because we take time to talk about us and what we can do together.Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
Why can't you move there with him. One solution. The only one I can think of.
Unless you cheat on him to satisfy your sexual frustration then you better stick to your toys and you hand.





Try to preoccupy yourself, cleaning house, going out with friends something!!
get a hobby.. i dont know... go jogging or something
Hmmmm...nice problem you have... sounds very temping for me to go to wherever you are and take care of this situation.But, I think i'm going to sit at my desk and offer some advice.. Have you tried reading a book.there are a lot of good book out there. or you can become a spiritual person.. reading and praying, meditating is always fun..
Phone sex, it might sound weird or stupid if you never done it, but it might help.
there are a lot of willing men around. find one in your neighborhood.
Relationships arent about sex its a bonus. To kill time, call him, and think about the things that you are going to do when you see him. Long Distance Relatiohships are hard because you cant see your partner all the time, but you have to be emotionally ready. I am dealing with the same thing, but we talk and talk and talk, and we have become a lot closer, so when we do meet up, it makes it all the more special and worth it.
just hold out. be faithful to him. my fiance (now x) cheated on me and it is very painful.
long distance relationships dont work specifically for that reason.
This is coming from the male perspective: End the relationship and find someone else closer. I know it's a bit harsh, but have you ever heard the term ';Absence makes the heart go wander?'; You're in your mid-20's, not your teens. If he moved away for some reason other than employment (and it better be for a heck of a lot more money), I'd be questioning his reasons for moving and not asking you to come with him if this relationship has any real stability.

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