Thursday, December 31, 2009

Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work & success stories?

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I met on facebook.. we go on webcam together and talk on the phone.. he graduates from high school in 2 years and I graduate in 3 years.. we are very very willing to wait 3 years for each other because I am going to university where he is. We are deeply in love with each other, and believe fate brought us together.. I think we are soulmates.. I was wondering if anyone had GOOD advice? Or experience of something similar..?Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
You want advice.





Ok, I was in a long distant relationship for 4 years.. When i met him on a chatroom called Habbo he was leaving school i had one year to go, i was 15 him 16.





Fast forward a few months, we would always argue so i told him to leave he did.





Then he came back, we met for the first time 2 years ago and tbbh i was shocked.. he wasnt the guy i thought he was, he looked different, acted different, and just wasnt the guy i loved..





Long distance is hard, and in my case not worth it.





We both said we would wait but after like another 10 visits i realised he wasnt what i wanted.. he was controlling in real, abusive and pretty heartless.





So my advice,





Get a boyfriend near you.Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
well my situation is vastly different, married many years, husband works overseas 5 yrs now, it has been very hard and lonely, arguements started. I have kept in the bible and in church regularly. God is seeing us through everything, nobody is filing for divorce so it must be a strong love, I try to make Jesus the center of my life. with God all things are possible, so do not cast God aside! focus on spiritual things.
I was in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. The last year we lived together which ended the relationship for good. My advice to you is to take your time getting to know him, because it is hard when someone is miles away. Do not put all your hopes into this one guy, because it may not work out like you want it to. Im just saying to be aware and make sure he and you know that a relationship takes work especially when you both are in college and around new people. Make sure he will work on staying with you.

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