Thursday, December 31, 2009

I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?

im 15...and a female...i live in new york and my boyfriend lives in floridaI was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
Just keep faith in you, in your boyfriend , and in your relationship.I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
leave his *** and have a long distace relationship with me


no? ok. anyway, just email him and if needed talk a little dirty on the phone or IM with him
iM SORRY,





thats all I can say, for me they never work but hey Im gay
Honestly, I don't really know how a teenager's long distance affair would turn out. I haven't been a teenager since...well since I was a teenager. In this day and age with email and cell phones, you can communicate a lot quicker, but seeing each other is expensive and a little much to expect. I would probably say keep your options for a new love open. You're young and in time, even though you may not forget him, you'll move on.
Yes I do...don't even think about it. It will not work out to your benefit. It just goes against human nature, and you are far too young to be sitting home waiting for someone who may or may not come back...probably will not come back.
You're only fifteen? Keep him in Florida and stay in New York. Get a cell phone plan with LOTS of free minutes. And snail mail still works.





LOL, it's apparent I'm a parent.
Long distance relationships can be successful but they require a lot of trust, understanding, and maturity. It's very challenging to be involved with someone who is hours away and not able to be by your side when you need him. Both parties have to be in agreement about how the relationship is going to progress i.e phone calls, exclusivity, visits, etc. Don't assume that you are exclusive if this has not been discussed. Once you and he are on the same page there are little things you can do to stay connected. Talk to each other daily, arrange movie dates ( you both rent the same movie and watch it together), make sure you talk to each other about what you are doing in your life,even the mundane things. Relationships require work and patience and long distance relationships even moreso.
Easy. Long distance relationships can work if you want them to.





You really need to only focus on the task at hand. If you are serious about each other, then only focus on each other and your relationship.





You're really only seperated for possible, a short time. Then you'll be together.





If this seperation is job/school related, just focus on that, and then after, focus on each other through the phone, email, planning to see each other, etc.





They work if you want them to.
Keep in touch by letter writing and emails. Do not be afraid to date others. You are young and should think carefully about a commitment with someone long distance
there is no advice..THEY don't work, especially at your age, he will find a new flavor of the week soon and you will too.

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