My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and have been together for a year and a half, but have been very close for the last three and a half years, i have been attracted to him from the very beginning. both of us are in college now, and although visiting during school breaks have been very easy for us because i fly free, im not sure whether we should stay together. recently while talking, he told me that he would be unable to move in with me until he graduates college in 3 years, and unfortunately moving to be with him is out of the question (he lives in california and i live in new orleans on a full scholarship) i love him deeply and i can't imagine having a connection like this with anybody else, but i am so lonely at school without him and miss having a boyfriend around to be with me. as much as i would like to think i can wait another 3 years of college without him, i worry that this isn't fair to either of us, and that eventually he or i will find someone else that is closer, therefore a less stressful relationship. should i stick it out for 3 years or is it time to move on?Long Distance Relationship...Advice?
i was in a simialr relationship as you are a few years ago...... it depends on how much you two are willing to stick it out with one another. ive been with my husband for 6 years and the first year i dint even know how he looked..... and i was determined for it to work...we were....and though we didnt know where it would take us our love and fighting for the other kept us together...... it would be less stressful if you two took a hiatus for three years but like you said tou guys may find someone else......you are in school and dont pass up and education for ANY guy.....do you hear me???? understand me when i tell you this, love dosent always come back to you when you let it go....thats bs and dont you ever believe that...you can continue to talk on the phone and flying to see one another and if it works it does but when it dosent you'll know....you will come to a mutaul agreement therfore it will make it a little easier in the both of you...... it will hurt even if it ever gets to that point but dont think about that now, go to school, enjoy life and enjoy him. dont move on until you both know thats it right and its okay.....but dont any promises, that will hold you back in a later relationship if one at all because you will always think of that while you are with that other person.......its so hard for me to tell you what to do ina situation like this because its so hard to know what the future beholds.......if you want im anytime not to be in ur business and be nosey or to influence you to do otherwise....i just know 100 percent what you are going through because i have been through that myself......i wish you the best of luck hum....Long Distance Relationship...Advice?
in my opinion it depends on how long uve been together and how much u care about each other. if the 2 of u have known each other for a while and really do care about each other and love each other then i would wait but if uve only known each other for a while and dont really share the same connection then i would say date some1 closer to u and see what happens
I think you should stick it out for the remaining years. If you guys are deeply in love, that is. If you are, you can wait, and once you can finally be together it'll be all the more sweeter.
hey...well if u really want her...well stick with it..but dude..theres more people out there(anywhere) that is perfect for anymore...
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