Thursday, December 31, 2009

Can my long distance relationship ever work? Advice???

I live in Idaho and my boyfriend lives in Wisconsin. I hardly ever have time to call him anymore because I'm always out and doing stuff. When we do talk, though, its like old times and its just feels right. But i don't think that our relationship is going to work out because of the distance and we never see each other or anything. Any advice or aything???Can my long distance relationship ever work? Advice???
If you mean, ';Can I have an exclusive relationship with someone hundreds of miles away?'; the answer is ';No.';


This does not mean you can't be friends, even lovers, if that is what you want. It does mean that neither of you is getting everything you are supposed to get out of a relationship, and should probably see other people too.


Sad to say, but since we are limited to this time/space continuum, proximity is a virtue in one's intimates.


To repeat, however, unless you are married, and committed therefore to an exclusive and (in this country, at least) monogamous relationship, it is actually a good thing, and healthy, to explore a wide range of potential partners.


Monogamy, even serial monogamy, is a game best left to married folks.


Just my .02 Ameribucks.


Cheers.

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