Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?

Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We met online and have been deeply in love since then, but having said that just recently I've been experiencing a lot of sadness and I don't know why. I just want to know , does anyone have any advice? Is two year's and plus to long to wait to meet someone? I really do love him, so I want to keep it going I just..need some help. Thanks.Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
You call him your boyfriend of 2 years but you have never met in person? That is not a boyfriend, that is just some guy you talk to online.Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
OMG!!! IM THE SAME EXACT WAY!!!!!!


I met my bf over the internet, and we've been dating for two years. I live in Mass, and he lives in Nevada.


I love him with my whole entire soul. i really do. But lately, ive been so moody. Depressed and sad and even angry!


But i have met him in person before. But its been months since ive seen him and its got me kinda down...:'[





Anyway, you should hang on! im sure hes worth it. And when you do see him, it will be soooo worth it! And waiting for someone over the internet for a few years...well, thats how you KNOW youve got the right guy. Think of it as a test. And...maybe ask your mom if you can see him sometime? Youve been going out for two years. Maybe she might consider it? My mom did.:]


And, also, for the sadness....well, im on birthcontrol now, and i think its making me depressed and moody. But for you, maybe you can see your doctor and ask for some medication to help? Im not much of a pill person. But sometimes they can help. If you dont want to do that, try trying to cheer yourself up on your own and with your bfs support. Talk about all the things you want to do when you see him. And continue to remind yourself its not going to be that long until you can be with him.(assuming your in high school..) And honestly, think about how fast those two years have gone by...imagine how fast these following years will go by! You'll be in his arms before you know it!^^ Honestly, you will.


I know it seems like a long time while your in the moment..but seriously, when you look back on it, you'll realise how fast time goes by!


Stay with him. Really. Youve got yourself a good guy. Keep with it. Try getting a mic if you dont have one, and him too. And download skype, so you can talk to him all day for free if you want too! And i know they can be a lot, but just get like a 20 dollar webcam, and him too, if you dont have them already. Being able to see eachother can really help make you feel closer to eachother. (40 dollar webcams come with built in mics, a lot of the times. check the boxes to be sure.)


Hope i helped some. This is what i do with my bf.


Oh, and we both have verizon cell phones, also. So when one of our internets are down, we can call on the phone.(free verizon to verizon calling all day, every day.)


Hope this helps you!!^^


Keep strong. You can do this.
If you love him then there should be no problems to want for him
Well have u even met this person yet? If u havent,it is a bit too long to have not met him. How does he feel about u? Does he love u in return? If the both of u love each other,I wouldnt worry. Just make sure the both of u express each others feelings and make sure u dont let go of him...If it seems like theres silence in this relationship,open up and ask whats bothering. Share yr thoughts and feelings and make sure u both try to see each other as much as u can.. Many long distance relationships dont last that long. You need to be w/the one u love for yr needs and his. Just make sure u dont miss his phone calls nor u miss his. I hope this helps...Keep yr head up and think positive. Good Luck!
If you two have never met in person then you two were never boyfriend and girlfriend, sorry. Try to find a local guy, someone you can actually meet in person.
I didn't see anything in your question indicating you've never met him...so first question is - have you? If you have but have only gotten together face-to-face a few times, you may want to escalate the visits to like a week away to some destination (not necessarily tropical or otherwise...could be just to another state/province neither have been to)





Depending on your age and where you are in your life right now, maybe you two should consider not necessarily moving in - but moving closer?





The other option is to talk to him about how you're feeling and see if he feels the same way. Then find out what he suggests as a solution and talk it through. Communication is the key.





And KUDOS to you for surviving 2 years in a long-distance relationship. I've done that a couple times myself and it's brutally difficult. Anybody who thinks having intimate conversations about personal issues with somebody who you have developed a connection with in such a unique way is NOT a relationship hasn't had this experience.