Long long distance relationships....between countries....any advice...I love her alot but its really hard?

When i travelled to brasil....I met this girl and we became really good friends. We talked all the time when I was there. We dated for a short time..even a little while after I came home. She decided that it was to hard for her, and then we became just good friends. We talk all the time... I love her alot, and she know this....but she wants to remain friends till we can hang out to expierence more of each other. She also says it was hard to break up the first time..that she doesn't want to hurt me or herself again? She is so busy in brasil with school and work? Which she won't finish till dec 2009? Is it worth waiting for her? I will get to see her in december as I am paying her way to see me? Good idea or no? Everything between us seems so right, so much in common and our chemistry is there. Its been a year since I have seen her? I just don't what to do anymore? I always feel lonely...Cause i see other people with there loves ones...Just mine is so far away? Any advice? Thanks!Long long distance relationships....between countries....any advice...I love her alot but its really hard?
She says that she wants to be friends, and you need to respect that as much as it hurts. She has a lot to focus on right now with school and work, and adding a long-distance relationship to that will only cause her more stress. If you truly love her, give her the space she needs to grow. If your love was meant to be, just think how much stronger it will be in the future, when you are both free and, hopefully, in the same place.Long long distance relationships....between countries....any advice...I love her alot but its really hard?
I appreciate your strength and your faith to this love. You are a sweet guy.





we have to put efforts to catch what we want, pay for her flight is a good idea. as well as you visit her / talk to her time to time.





I had a 20 hours flight relationship for 4 years, never had one moment wanted to give up, I do whatever I can do to maintain. If it's true love nothing can prevents you.





try your best and never make yourself regret for something that you have not done.