Long distance relationships, i need advice.?

i just got into a long dis relationship %26amp; me and my gf are meeting tomorrow for the first time.


ive been in long distance relationships before and well, they didnt last. they hurt more than gave me happiness.


what im asking is,


im starting to get scared. im starting to have doubts. dont get me wrong, im happy im seeing her tomorrow!


its just that were 2hrs apart and im not sure if itll work.


i dont know what to do..


:/


help plz.Long distance relationships, i need advice.?
Firstly I'd like to say that any relationship can work, if you truly want it to.





Me and my boyfriend live 100 miles apart through the week, but spend every second of the weekend together. Although it;s only two days in 5, it's better than nothing knowing that I have him. He means the world to me, and as they say, absence makes the heart grow stronger.





He is marine, and because of this, he will be going away for 3 to 6 months at a time. We both know hat the key to make this a success is patience. Whenever we feel down, we know that in a certain nummber of days we will be reunited and that means more than anything.





He has had past long distance relationships whilst being in the marines. I mean, he was married and she F****d behind his back for god's sake. But she wasn't worth it. Long distance relationships dont always work. But you dont know if this one will until you try it. The truth is everybody is different. So long as this girl and yourself feel enough love to keep the passion lit and the relationship going until you next see each other, things will be fine. You've got to see the light at the end of the tunnel.





I hope this works out for you,


best wishes!Long distance relationships, i need advice.?
Can I just say this





My husband and I lived 100 miles apart, and met when we were both 18





We saw each other only at weekends





and the journey to see each other involved a bus and a train journey





and in these days took about 4 hours





That was in 1974, and am pleased to say we've been together ever since





We married in 1977, 32 years ago





So go for it, long distance relationships can, and do work for lots of people
2 hours isn't too far, if you both have a car and meet up half way or make it a weekend trip to hang out it could be very exciting.


Week days you'd have time to yourself but give you the chance to write her, call her, have your own life, and enjoy your time together on the weekends.





It will take time and effort, but if you guys are both determined to work it out, it will work out. But of course, eventually you or she will have to move. But don't let that hold you back. Just enjoy till it comes to that point.
Oh, my. I know exactly where you are. See, I met someone in 2005 online, and began ';dating'; in 2006. April to be exact. Anyway, we're meeting for the first time in 3 years next week. I just hope you have proof she is who she says she is. (From my own experience we went on webcam, on msn and saw each other, made signs from pictures etc). However, don't have doubts. I began to have them but I talked to my boyfriend about. Everyone has a bad experience at one point. And I'm glad you are happy you're seeing her tomorrow! But however, I'm two hours apart from my boyfriend as well. But in the meantime, just gather up your positive thoughts about it. What could go wrong? How could you fix it? Just be yourself: If someone really loves you, they'll accept you the way you are. Do what you can to have a good time, it should be rather easy. Get to know her even more. Best of luck to you! Be careful.
It's scary, but it doesn't hurt to try. My bf and I were in a long distance relationship for years. He joined the military, and I was going to college. It's hard because you don't get to see each other very often, and when you do get it's great. You just have to be willing to try, and put a great deal of trust into each other. Two hours apart is not very long distance though. There are many ways to see someone 2 hours away, train, bus, car, etc. Try being on opposite coasts of the U.S.!
I'm in a long distance relationship right now, and what i find that works the best is to always have trust in the other person. If you guys don't trust each other it will never work. Other then that, if you guys talk, and really care for each other it should work. Just take it one step at a time, it's not always going to work for everyone.
My girlfriend and I have been 1,300 miles apart for almost 6 months. If you're both committed to making it work than it will work out. If it doesn't than it doesn't. It's up to you and her to decide if your relationship is worth the hassle of dealing with the long distance junk.
I've been in a LD relationship for over 2 years, I go to school in TX and he lives in CA and I mean it sucks not being able to see each other very often but I mean in the long run it will be worth it!!
long distance relationships usally dont work at all take my advise








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relax. it can work if u both really want it too, just don't be so pessimistic about it all the time. be happy and look forward to it and, if u both put in the effort than yes, it can work. good luck x
stay calm, jus rite letters, and have lots of phone calls, and see her once and awile, or jus dump her and find some one in town.
listen. long distance relationships work if youve known the girl for a long time, and have been dating for a long time. but if its just someone u just met, it will never work. your doubts are correct.
Just relax and try and stay calm. Think positive things. Hope for the best but expect the worse. Good luck
if you love her then it will last if you dont then its basically just a waste of time.
you should chill and let it flow. Honestly if you can't being 2 hours away from your GF then you need to find a girl who lives in town