Long distance relationship advice needed?

My fiance and I have currently in a long distance relationship for the last 5 months and have been going out for 2 years. We used to see each other everyday when he was at home but now it's more like twice a month if I'm lucky. I know that sounds a lot for some of you guys that see your other half less if your in a long distance r'ship but this is starting to kill me inside. It's literally breaking my heart. I was able to spend a long weekend with him there and I was ok when I came home last night but today I'm destroyed. I feel like crying I feel so lost and what makes it worse is that I know if he was here he would just hug me and make me feel better but I know that can't happen.





This is so bizarre as well as at the start he was like this and I was the strong one telling him we'll get through it, now the roles have reversed and I'm the one who feels she can't do this.





I love him so much though, is there any way I can feel better. It's so stupid I'm see him in 10 days but it feels like an eternity. Any advice?Long distance relationship advice needed?
First of all, congrats. I mean congrats that you love someone so much that it does break your heart when you're not with them. Think about it. The tragedy would be not missing him.


Now, to ease the pain. You may want to ask him now to be the strong one for you...if you haven't already done that. Ask him to be supportive of your feelings during the absence. Sure you've done it, but video conference, phone, text, email... Any other way of communicating with him can help.


On another note. Something related, but will keep your mind occupied. Find a hobby or interest that will make the relationship grow. If he likes to eat, take up a cooking class... If he likes you fit, go to the gym. If he likes sports, learn about the sport he's interested in. Then when you're together you can benefit from your new efforts. Now at the same time don't forget yourself. Make sure you're growing as well. Hang in there! Bless your heart...Long distance relationship advice needed?
Young and unexpereinced (my girlfriend and I never see each other) but tell him how you feel, just talk and look forward to that everyday, it'll keep you going, I hate it when I'm stuck and cant talk, but I guess at what she's going to say, or just share my feelings as much as possible. It's tough but worth it, especially for you since you get to marry. Good luck.
hmm... Not to be mean or anything but, my experience with long distance never worked out because, you'll soon worry more and more when they don't call you and when they do you'll get really happy and then one fine day happens that they'll tell you that they can't do this anymore. I mean I hope that it doesn't happen with you but, that's what happend with me.
long distance relationship is so hard.some it works ,some doesn't,but if u have trust to each other then that relationship will be last forever.you should alwys think positive and pray for that.it will helps u a lot
umm well you could try using web cam chat everynight when u can you should call him often and hopefully he is loyal and if you know that then everything should work out.
some situations can't be helped but tolerate for the time being. Clarify the reasons why the two of you are apart, can these reasons be changed in the future, If the two of you really want and meant to stay together, work out the details, Make a solid plan, like in six months from now, set a goal, if the situation cant change and both sides wont give way... Pray that you'll both be strong and faithful, you decided to love him, prove it by being strong for him... and vice versa. Work it out.


Use the net, the phone, the cel, letters, emails everything you can think of.
well it usually doesnt always work out for having a long distance relationship. but if u keep trying to have u guys meeting more often it will be easier . just i dont kno how far distance there is between u to and what is seperating u two, but if u and him both promise to stay true to each other then each time u two meet it will feel like hes the best thing in the world. just hang on if u want and hope for the best tht he is trying to.
My fiancee and I have a long distance relationship. We have been together for almost 5 years now. Last year I moved closer to him. We are now only 2.5 hours away from one another now. We see each other for one week out of a month. We have 3 days that we have same days off. My advice to you is if you really love this man, tell him how you feel and try to find a way so that either one of you, both of you relocate so you can be together. My fiancee is looking for work here that will allow him to be home every night. Quality time is worth a little financial compromise.