me and tons of my friends have been in long distance relationships and only one has worked. how long is the distance and how long have yall been together? if it's not that far then youll be ok. but if yall are just starting to date, then i'd call it quits because there will be tons of trust issues. sorry. and good luck!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Im in the centre of a long-distance relationship.please advice me what works to make it work?={?
im in the centre of a long-distance relationship.please advice me what works to make it work?i loves him so much that even him cannot imagine.and he does loves me too.but now,im so torn apart because of this relationship thingy.i miss him so much...and itll be months since i can see him again...Im in the centre of a long-distance relationship.please advice me what works to make it work?={?
me and tons of my friends have been in long distance relationships and only one has worked. how long is the distance and how long have yall been together? if it's not that far then youll be ok. but if yall are just starting to date, then i'd call it quits because there will be tons of trust issues. sorry. and good luck!eye makeup remover cosmetics makeup
me and tons of my friends have been in long distance relationships and only one has worked. how long is the distance and how long have yall been together? if it's not that far then youll be ok. but if yall are just starting to date, then i'd call it quits because there will be tons of trust issues. sorry. and good luck!
Can my long distance relationship ever work? Advice???
I live in Idaho and my boyfriend lives in Wisconsin. I hardly ever have time to call him anymore because I'm always out and doing stuff. When we do talk, though, its like old times and its just feels right. But i don't think that our relationship is going to work out because of the distance and we never see each other or anything. Any advice or aything???Can my long distance relationship ever work? Advice???
If you mean, ';Can I have an exclusive relationship with someone hundreds of miles away?'; the answer is ';No.';
This does not mean you can't be friends, even lovers, if that is what you want. It does mean that neither of you is getting everything you are supposed to get out of a relationship, and should probably see other people too.
Sad to say, but since we are limited to this time/space continuum, proximity is a virtue in one's intimates.
To repeat, however, unless you are married, and committed therefore to an exclusive and (in this country, at least) monogamous relationship, it is actually a good thing, and healthy, to explore a wide range of potential partners.
Monogamy, even serial monogamy, is a game best left to married folks.
Just my .02 Ameribucks.
Cheers.
If you mean, ';Can I have an exclusive relationship with someone hundreds of miles away?'; the answer is ';No.';
This does not mean you can't be friends, even lovers, if that is what you want. It does mean that neither of you is getting everything you are supposed to get out of a relationship, and should probably see other people too.
Sad to say, but since we are limited to this time/space continuum, proximity is a virtue in one's intimates.
To repeat, however, unless you are married, and committed therefore to an exclusive and (in this country, at least) monogamous relationship, it is actually a good thing, and healthy, to explore a wide range of potential partners.
Monogamy, even serial monogamy, is a game best left to married folks.
Just my .02 Ameribucks.
Cheers.
Any advice for a temporary long distance relationship couple?
My guy is leaving to fight in the Israel army for roughly 2 years, and we've decided that we care enough to try and make it work. I was hoping for some advice or bits of wisdom, considering we're kind of young and it'll be both our first long distance relationship. Help?Any advice for a temporary long distance relationship couple?
stay with him no matter what ,he seems like a nice guy if hes goig to war and still wanting to stay with you ,no offense im not trying to be mean .
stay with him no matter what ,he seems like a nice guy if hes goig to war and still wanting to stay with you ,no offense im not trying to be mean .
Can long distance relationships really work? Does anyone have any advice?
This past Thanksgiving, I travelled to Alabama from my home in Virginia to visit family. I came across a beautiful southern belle and almost instantly sparked an interest. My cousin went to school with her and he eventually introduced us and we ended up hanging out a lot throughout my family visit. I fell head over heels for this girl and she lives 10 hours away. Ever since I have gotten home, I have felt miserable and can't get her off my mind. Does anyone have any advice?Can long distance relationships really work? Does anyone have any advice?
They can totally work. I've been in one for 4 years now an we have about 2 or 3 more to go before we can finally move in together. he lives in Germany and i live in California so we have a big distance to overcome but we look at it as a challenge. It takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty from both people so if you and her can do this then you are off to a good start. Call her and ask her if she is willing to be in a LDR and if she is and you both are willing to do the work required then you two can make it work. Webcams would be good so you can see eachother online. There are a lot of things that you can do for eachother to stay connected it just takes a bit of creativity. Email me if you have more questions or you want me to be more specifc. Good luck :)Can long distance relationships really work? Does anyone have any advice?
yes long distance relationships work, but only if you really want it. and can you stay faithful if it starts up? if so go ahead and give it a try. i'm in a long distance relationship and there was a period where i didnt see him for 8 months, and sure we had problems, but what relationship doesnt? if you really think she's worth it, then go for it
I say, yes they can work if you put effort into them. 10 hours away would definitely be hard. But if it is meant to be things will work out. If you have found someone that makes you feel that way, why not give it a try :)
Long distant relationships can work. Keep in touch with her and visit once in a while when you can, but don't call too frequently because you may scare her off. This is a real tricky subject all I can say is keep in touch over the phone or email, and just show you care and are thinking about her. GOOD LUCK
They CAN work, but both people have to be committed. Very very VERY committed!!
Good luck
I met my (American) wife back when she did a semester study abroad in London in 1999. After she went back to the US we had to have a long-distance relationship. It was tough but we made it through, and we recently celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary.
Anything is possible, you just need to be dedicated and committed to each other.
no, mine didn't
however i guess it depends if u 2 really love each other
I have never known it to last.
Too difficult to maintain interests.
They can totally work. I've been in one for 4 years now an we have about 2 or 3 more to go before we can finally move in together. he lives in Germany and i live in California so we have a big distance to overcome but we look at it as a challenge. It takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty from both people so if you and her can do this then you are off to a good start. Call her and ask her if she is willing to be in a LDR and if she is and you both are willing to do the work required then you two can make it work. Webcams would be good so you can see eachother online. There are a lot of things that you can do for eachother to stay connected it just takes a bit of creativity. Email me if you have more questions or you want me to be more specifc. Good luck :)Can long distance relationships really work? Does anyone have any advice?
yes long distance relationships work, but only if you really want it. and can you stay faithful if it starts up? if so go ahead and give it a try. i'm in a long distance relationship and there was a period where i didnt see him for 8 months, and sure we had problems, but what relationship doesnt? if you really think she's worth it, then go for it
I say, yes they can work if you put effort into them. 10 hours away would definitely be hard. But if it is meant to be things will work out. If you have found someone that makes you feel that way, why not give it a try :)
Long distant relationships can work. Keep in touch with her and visit once in a while when you can, but don't call too frequently because you may scare her off. This is a real tricky subject all I can say is keep in touch over the phone or email, and just show you care and are thinking about her. GOOD LUCK
They CAN work, but both people have to be committed. Very very VERY committed!!
Good luck
I met my (American) wife back when she did a semester study abroad in London in 1999. After she went back to the US we had to have a long-distance relationship. It was tough but we made it through, and we recently celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary.
Anything is possible, you just need to be dedicated and committed to each other.
no, mine didn't
however i guess it depends if u 2 really love each other
I have never known it to last.
Too difficult to maintain interests.
Long distance relationships...yes or no? Any advice on how to make it work?
my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now and her job is causing her to move to another state. I think trust is just the biggest issue for me and the fact that im not seeing her as much as i would likeLong distance relationships...yes or no? Any advice on how to make it work?
Two things --- (1) a good foundation for the relationship and (2) trust. Trust is huge because your lives will continue after you move apart ... and you'll need to trust that the respect and love is there.Long distance relationships...yes or no? Any advice on how to make it work?
nope, nope, nope. waste of time.
I am sorry to predict that this is not going to work. To have a relationship you must be in close physical proximity to someone. Phone calls and e-mails do nothing for the long cold lonely nights. Trust is not the issue, human nature is. Eventually, you will both lead seperate lives. Just set her free, man. If she comes back she is yours, if she doesn't she never was.
it depends from the duration of this.if it is for some months its ok.if it is for 5 years?then waiting for what?
yes..ive been with mine more then 3 years and we're still strong and happy..its all about communication and trust..
Two things --- (1) a good foundation for the relationship and (2) trust. Trust is huge because your lives will continue after you move apart ... and you'll need to trust that the respect and love is there.Long distance relationships...yes or no? Any advice on how to make it work?
nope, nope, nope. waste of time.
I am sorry to predict that this is not going to work. To have a relationship you must be in close physical proximity to someone. Phone calls and e-mails do nothing for the long cold lonely nights. Trust is not the issue, human nature is. Eventually, you will both lead seperate lives. Just set her free, man. If she comes back she is yours, if she doesn't she never was.
it depends from the duration of this.if it is for some months its ok.if it is for 5 years?then waiting for what?
yes..ive been with mine more then 3 years and we're still strong and happy..its all about communication and trust..
Relationship / Long distance advice?
I live in a little town where I just met this girl that I really really like a lot. We've talked about dating but there are several problems..
1) I'm moving to the city 2 hours away in 3 weeks
2) We are not really sure about a long distance relationship
3) Shes never been in a real relationship before and she doesnt really want her first to be a long distance one.
What do I do? I really like her but on the other hand we have these problems. Do I do the long distance? or do I cut everything right now? Do I just keep hanging out with her until I leave (which will make it harder to leave)?Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long-distance relationships are hard and the only way for it to work is if both people are committed.
Hangout with her until you leave. Stay friends and make an effort to come see her or have her visit after you move. If you still spend time together visiting, talking on the phone or chatting online, one thing may lead to another. If you are meant to be together things will find a way to work themselves out :)Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long distance relationships don't work. Plus, you just met this girl. Just enjoy the time you have now and then part your ways when you have to move.
WHEN IN DISTANCE LOVE....WE ARE ALL FOUR HAPPY
If you've just met it could be really difficult to maintain that kind of relationship. My man lives 2 hours drive away and it's really difficult. However we have known each other for years, and we've dated once before 3 years ago for about 10 months. Because we have a foundation to work off of it makes it a whole lot easer.
Long distance relationships throw in a whole lot of extra pros and cons you have to consider. In the long run though it takes alot more effort then dating close by. With a new relationship you need to build a connection. I think it's alot easier to maintain an relationship long distance then to build one.
Nobody can really answer the question for you, You have to weigh the situation for yourselves. If she's already having doubts about the distance it will probably be very difficult to make things work.
good luck!
1) I'm moving to the city 2 hours away in 3 weeks
2) We are not really sure about a long distance relationship
3) Shes never been in a real relationship before and she doesnt really want her first to be a long distance one.
What do I do? I really like her but on the other hand we have these problems. Do I do the long distance? or do I cut everything right now? Do I just keep hanging out with her until I leave (which will make it harder to leave)?Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long-distance relationships are hard and the only way for it to work is if both people are committed.
Hangout with her until you leave. Stay friends and make an effort to come see her or have her visit after you move. If you still spend time together visiting, talking on the phone or chatting online, one thing may lead to another. If you are meant to be together things will find a way to work themselves out :)Relationship / Long distance advice?
Long distance relationships don't work. Plus, you just met this girl. Just enjoy the time you have now and then part your ways when you have to move.
WHEN IN DISTANCE LOVE....WE ARE ALL FOUR HAPPY
If you've just met it could be really difficult to maintain that kind of relationship. My man lives 2 hours drive away and it's really difficult. However we have known each other for years, and we've dated once before 3 years ago for about 10 months. Because we have a foundation to work off of it makes it a whole lot easer.
Long distance relationships throw in a whole lot of extra pros and cons you have to consider. In the long run though it takes alot more effort then dating close by. With a new relationship you need to build a connection. I think it's alot easier to maintain an relationship long distance then to build one.
Nobody can really answer the question for you, You have to weigh the situation for yourselves. If she's already having doubts about the distance it will probably be very difficult to make things work.
good luck!
I need long distance relationship advice!?
I have been talking to this girl who lives about 5 hours away from me and she is about to graduate with her Bachelor's degree. She plans on going to school somewhere else to get her Masters which I totally support. The school she is probably going to is about 8 hrs away from me. She is telling me right now that we should think of eachother as only friends now. That she doesnt see it working out between us because of how little we would get to see eachother. I am really heart broken right now. Seriously, the mere thought of not seeing this girl makes my heart miss a beat. I have no clue on what to do about this. She is telling me that there are other girls like her out there, which is bull, and that it is just not the right time. Do I hold on until she is done with school? Or, do I focus on finding something else and run the risk of her changing how she feels? Someone please help me out here. Thank you.I need long distance relationship advice!?
.She's telling you politely to move on.Her future is in her academic career.This will not allow trivial romantic notions. Heed her advice, find smeone elseeye makeup remover cosmetics makeup
.She's telling you politely to move on.Her future is in her academic career.This will not allow trivial romantic notions. Heed her advice, find smeone else
Long distance relationship advice needed?
My fiance and I have currently in a long distance relationship for the last 5 months and have been going out for 2 years. We used to see each other everyday when he was at home but now it's more like twice a month if I'm lucky. I know that sounds a lot for some of you guys that see your other half less if your in a long distance r'ship but this is starting to kill me inside. It's literally breaking my heart. I was able to spend a long weekend with him there and I was ok when I came home last night but today I'm destroyed. I feel like crying I feel so lost and what makes it worse is that I know if he was here he would just hug me and make me feel better but I know that can't happen.
This is so bizarre as well as at the start he was like this and I was the strong one telling him we'll get through it, now the roles have reversed and I'm the one who feels she can't do this.
I love him so much though, is there any way I can feel better. It's so stupid I'm see him in 10 days but it feels like an eternity. Any advice?Long distance relationship advice needed?
First of all, congrats. I mean congrats that you love someone so much that it does break your heart when you're not with them. Think about it. The tragedy would be not missing him.
Now, to ease the pain. You may want to ask him now to be the strong one for you...if you haven't already done that. Ask him to be supportive of your feelings during the absence. Sure you've done it, but video conference, phone, text, email... Any other way of communicating with him can help.
On another note. Something related, but will keep your mind occupied. Find a hobby or interest that will make the relationship grow. If he likes to eat, take up a cooking class... If he likes you fit, go to the gym. If he likes sports, learn about the sport he's interested in. Then when you're together you can benefit from your new efforts. Now at the same time don't forget yourself. Make sure you're growing as well. Hang in there! Bless your heart...Long distance relationship advice needed?
Young and unexpereinced (my girlfriend and I never see each other) but tell him how you feel, just talk and look forward to that everyday, it'll keep you going, I hate it when I'm stuck and cant talk, but I guess at what she's going to say, or just share my feelings as much as possible. It's tough but worth it, especially for you since you get to marry. Good luck.
hmm... Not to be mean or anything but, my experience with long distance never worked out because, you'll soon worry more and more when they don't call you and when they do you'll get really happy and then one fine day happens that they'll tell you that they can't do this anymore. I mean I hope that it doesn't happen with you but, that's what happend with me.
long distance relationship is so hard.some it works ,some doesn't,but if u have trust to each other then that relationship will be last forever.you should alwys think positive and pray for that.it will helps u a lot
umm well you could try using web cam chat everynight when u can you should call him often and hopefully he is loyal and if you know that then everything should work out.
some situations can't be helped but tolerate for the time being. Clarify the reasons why the two of you are apart, can these reasons be changed in the future, If the two of you really want and meant to stay together, work out the details, Make a solid plan, like in six months from now, set a goal, if the situation cant change and both sides wont give way... Pray that you'll both be strong and faithful, you decided to love him, prove it by being strong for him... and vice versa. Work it out.
Use the net, the phone, the cel, letters, emails everything you can think of.
well it usually doesnt always work out for having a long distance relationship. but if u keep trying to have u guys meeting more often it will be easier . just i dont kno how far distance there is between u to and what is seperating u two, but if u and him both promise to stay true to each other then each time u two meet it will feel like hes the best thing in the world. just hang on if u want and hope for the best tht he is trying to.
My fiancee and I have a long distance relationship. We have been together for almost 5 years now. Last year I moved closer to him. We are now only 2.5 hours away from one another now. We see each other for one week out of a month. We have 3 days that we have same days off. My advice to you is if you really love this man, tell him how you feel and try to find a way so that either one of you, both of you relocate so you can be together. My fiancee is looking for work here that will allow him to be home every night. Quality time is worth a little financial compromise.
This is so bizarre as well as at the start he was like this and I was the strong one telling him we'll get through it, now the roles have reversed and I'm the one who feels she can't do this.
I love him so much though, is there any way I can feel better. It's so stupid I'm see him in 10 days but it feels like an eternity. Any advice?Long distance relationship advice needed?
First of all, congrats. I mean congrats that you love someone so much that it does break your heart when you're not with them. Think about it. The tragedy would be not missing him.
Now, to ease the pain. You may want to ask him now to be the strong one for you...if you haven't already done that. Ask him to be supportive of your feelings during the absence. Sure you've done it, but video conference, phone, text, email... Any other way of communicating with him can help.
On another note. Something related, but will keep your mind occupied. Find a hobby or interest that will make the relationship grow. If he likes to eat, take up a cooking class... If he likes you fit, go to the gym. If he likes sports, learn about the sport he's interested in. Then when you're together you can benefit from your new efforts. Now at the same time don't forget yourself. Make sure you're growing as well. Hang in there! Bless your heart...Long distance relationship advice needed?
Young and unexpereinced (my girlfriend and I never see each other) but tell him how you feel, just talk and look forward to that everyday, it'll keep you going, I hate it when I'm stuck and cant talk, but I guess at what she's going to say, or just share my feelings as much as possible. It's tough but worth it, especially for you since you get to marry. Good luck.
hmm... Not to be mean or anything but, my experience with long distance never worked out because, you'll soon worry more and more when they don't call you and when they do you'll get really happy and then one fine day happens that they'll tell you that they can't do this anymore. I mean I hope that it doesn't happen with you but, that's what happend with me.
long distance relationship is so hard.some it works ,some doesn't,but if u have trust to each other then that relationship will be last forever.you should alwys think positive and pray for that.it will helps u a lot
umm well you could try using web cam chat everynight when u can you should call him often and hopefully he is loyal and if you know that then everything should work out.
some situations can't be helped but tolerate for the time being. Clarify the reasons why the two of you are apart, can these reasons be changed in the future, If the two of you really want and meant to stay together, work out the details, Make a solid plan, like in six months from now, set a goal, if the situation cant change and both sides wont give way... Pray that you'll both be strong and faithful, you decided to love him, prove it by being strong for him... and vice versa. Work it out.
Use the net, the phone, the cel, letters, emails everything you can think of.
well it usually doesnt always work out for having a long distance relationship. but if u keep trying to have u guys meeting more often it will be easier . just i dont kno how far distance there is between u to and what is seperating u two, but if u and him both promise to stay true to each other then each time u two meet it will feel like hes the best thing in the world. just hang on if u want and hope for the best tht he is trying to.
My fiancee and I have a long distance relationship. We have been together for almost 5 years now. Last year I moved closer to him. We are now only 2.5 hours away from one another now. We see each other for one week out of a month. We have 3 days that we have same days off. My advice to you is if you really love this man, tell him how you feel and try to find a way so that either one of you, both of you relocate so you can be together. My fiancee is looking for work here that will allow him to be home every night. Quality time is worth a little financial compromise.
Long distance relationship advice?
My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and have been together for a year and a half, but have been very close for the last three and a half years, i have been attracted to him from the very beginning. both of us are in college now, and although visiting during school breaks have been very easy for us because i fly free, im not sure whether we should stay together. recently while talking, he told me that he would be unable to move in with me until he graduates college in 3 years, and unfortunately moving to be with him is out of the question (he lives in california and i live in new orleans on a full scholarship) i love him deeply and i can't imagine having a connection like this with anybody else, but i am so lonely at school without him and miss having a boyfriend around to be with me. as much as i would like to think i can wait another 3 years of college without him, i worry that this isn't fair to either of us, and that eventually he or i will find someone else that is closer, therefore a less stressful relationship. should i stick it out for 3 years or is it time to move on?Long distance relationship advice?
Everyone's a little different. I'm in a long distance relationship right now, also because school keeps us apart. I get a little lonely, but like I always call him everyday and we see each other at least once at month. To me, that's enough, and I feel very content. However, if I were to ever start to feel the way you're feeling, I think I would break it off even if it hurts at first. Waiting three years is a lot for you to handle right now if you're already feeling lonely. I say you should break it off now before your relationship gets worse. Maybe you should even talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
So yeah, over all, I think you should break it off and move on because I think you'd feel better about it later on. Also, you'd feel happier having a guy around there to go out to movies with you and cuddle, etc. Good luck with everything.Long distance relationship advice?
my advice..
if you are willing to wait for eachother do what you can to keep in touch.
BUT HONESTLY,
long distance relationships never work.
its a fact.
hey u answered one of my qestions.. i want to talk to you in private.. email me at eagertolearn07@yahoo.com
Everyone's a little different. I'm in a long distance relationship right now, also because school keeps us apart. I get a little lonely, but like I always call him everyday and we see each other at least once at month. To me, that's enough, and I feel very content. However, if I were to ever start to feel the way you're feeling, I think I would break it off even if it hurts at first. Waiting three years is a lot for you to handle right now if you're already feeling lonely. I say you should break it off now before your relationship gets worse. Maybe you should even talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
So yeah, over all, I think you should break it off and move on because I think you'd feel better about it later on. Also, you'd feel happier having a guy around there to go out to movies with you and cuddle, etc. Good luck with everything.Long distance relationship advice?
my advice..
if you are willing to wait for eachother do what you can to keep in touch.
BUT HONESTLY,
long distance relationships never work.
its a fact.
hey u answered one of my qestions.. i want to talk to you in private.. email me at eagertolearn07@yahoo.com
Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work & success stories?
I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I met on facebook.. we go on webcam together and talk on the phone.. he graduates from high school in 2 years and I graduate in 3 years.. we are very very willing to wait 3 years for each other because I am going to university where he is. We are deeply in love with each other, and believe fate brought us together.. I think we are soulmates.. I was wondering if anyone had GOOD advice? Or experience of something similar..? Please only good storiesLong distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
Why is it women always want long distance relationships to work? They don't. It isn't romantic to tie yourself down to an absent boyfriend, it's silly. Sure, the odd relationship works out that way, but it's unusual, unlikely, and unnecessary.Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and he graduates this next year, and I graduate in two years, I love him with all of my heart. We get to talk on the computer and on the phone, but we have seen eachother sparingly in our year together. He is going to go to college in my town, so we will see each other soon. We have such similar situations!! :D
Why is it women always want long distance relationships to work? They don't. It isn't romantic to tie yourself down to an absent boyfriend, it's silly. Sure, the odd relationship works out that way, but it's unusual, unlikely, and unnecessary.Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and he graduates this next year, and I graduate in two years, I love him with all of my heart. We get to talk on the computer and on the phone, but we have seen eachother sparingly in our year together. He is going to go to college in my town, so we will see each other soon. We have such similar situations!! :D
Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
well it started almost 5 years ago. I met an Indian boy online.. I've met many people online before and I only ever talked to them a few times.. but something was different about this guy.. we talked everyday for months and one day he told me he thought he was falling in love with me.. My reaction: I was angry.. (sound weird?) well I believed what everyone has always said about online dating.. that's its for weirdos and nerds which neither of us are... I told him it was impossible for him to have feelings for someone he's never met... but he insisted he was being honest.... well I wasn't the nicest person to him for a while.. it took me a LONG TIME to feel like I could trust him.. and then one day I realized I loved him too... now everyday my love grows stronger and stronger... never once has he doubted his love for me but I'm not as strong of a person as he is... anyway to make a very long story short.. My boyfriend and I are stuck... like I said earlier its been 5 years and I've not met him yet... i feel like we can't grow and move on as a couple.. i haven't even touched him or kissed him... seems so weird because I feel like I have in some ways... anyway many things hold us back from each other.. his job is very time consuming and requires a lot from him... and I'm working two jobs and neither of us have time for one another.. and i miss him so much.. I miss my best friend.... i can't tell u all the times I felt like I'd have a emotional break down... most of the time I feel like I can't go on... i'm so frustrated not having him here.... he hopes his job will give him enough experience to make it in another country like America.. he's very intelligent i know he can go far... but there's just so much stopping us from getting to each other..we wish we could meet right now.. but financially I can't go there and he can't come here right now.. plus his family is really depending on him..I love him very much has ANYONE OUT THERE EVER DEALT WITH THIS!? what do I do? how do I go on each day without him? How long were u separated from your loved one? Please I need some help... i feel like no one understands what I'm going through... thanks ~M.K.Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
I suppose you meet the guy. You can find a job in India( at least in a call center) to travel India.
If you know this guy for 5 years, it's worth visiting India ans seeing him for a while.Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
girlfriendddddddddddddddddddd,
do you know the culture of india? most of them believe we americans are easy. a lot of them watch.... r u ready for this one? baywatch and think that all females r like the girls r on baywatch. do you know that women r on the bottom in their culture? not like american women being 2nd to men but like dog poo on the bottom of your shoe 2nd place. if u were to marry this guy and his mother didn't like u, she could kill u or throw acid on you and get away with it. they still have the caste system; too long to explain it here. some of them believe that dating an american is okay, but to marry is a disgrace. it's okay for the male to mess around with a female, and it is not considered as cheating because we are not indian and we americans are easy hoes. i thought that the indians in america were different than the ones in india because they adopted our diversified culture. i must say that i was shocked when i learned that they have their secret society. they r nice to us because they need our business in order to suceed. to marry one of us is a different story. i learned this when i was watching reality tv last week i saw a case on court tv. it broke my heart. i have done business with indians for a long time, whether it's getting my eyebrows threaded, buying food from their groceries, restaurants or gas at their gas stations. the case is about a girl named sparkle rai. google the case and read as many articles as you can about it. i have always thought of them as beautiful people. their dark skin. hale, the only thing that makes them different from blacks is their straight black hair. put a hat on some of them and u can't tell them from a black person. turns out the girl was killed because of an honor killing. the murder went unsolved for 6yrs and probably would have never been solved until a girl got arrested and wanted to make a deal. turns out the case was bigger than anyone could imagine. the girl who watched the killing thought it was about drugs. when it was all said and done, it wasn't about drugs, it was about a contract killing. i always see the indians with each other and they never intermingle with other colors, and if they do its with white people, so maybe if you r white then u r right. any other color? there are a lot of cultures that believe in honor killings. to do it in their country while sick, there is nothing that we can do about it, but to bring it to our country? behavior of a socio/psychopath. A culture of people that at one time i would have dated, but now that i know their secret, i feel a quiet anger about them. no it's not all of them, but who do you trust? i don't have time to decipher so i have declined to give to their business. so the question that i have for you is this: 5years and no physical contact? come on... no matter how poor u r u cannot tell me that u couldn't save money to go see this guy within 5 years. it's as if you r dating someone in prison. how do you know he is not married? please don't tell me that he speaks to you on the computer constantly and wouldn't have time to see or be with someone else. his wife or girlfriend may not speak english. india is a 3rd world or underdeveloped country. most indians yearn to come to america. they will do anything to get here. he could be talking to you and many other girls for that matter. do i know how you feel? yes i do. i went on vacation to the DR and met someone. i had no intentions of meeting anyone, but i did. great guy, someone that i would date. inteligent, talented, speaks 5 languages, not stuck on stupid. he says i love u so easily. could it be bullshet? absoulutely. could it be true? possibility. all i know is that the only time i have heard i luv u from my now x's is when they r dying to get back with me, so i am looking at this relationship that i have gotten in as a breath of fresh air. he is originally from haiti, but works in the DR. could he be using me to become an american citizen? absolutely and maybe not. some of my friends think that i am a fool, but hey, it's my life. all that i am saying is to keep an open mind about things. why don't u take a surprise trip to india? go to http://www.skyauction.com/
they have sooo many great deals. click on the part that says auctions closing soon. you may get lucky and get a trip to india round trip for $400.00 noone can stop you from loving or being a fool for love. no matter what anyone says you are going to do what u want to do. just don't go into something with eyes wide shut. do you have his address? i plan on going to asia sometime next year. i am either going with a group or by myself, not sure yet. i am in the military. most of my friends who love to travel r either broke or cheapskates. if u want to do a road trip to india and have noone to go with, i don't know u, but i'll go. my plans r to go more east of india. thailand, vietnam, %26amp;cambodia. can't tell u exactly when i can go next year. not sure if i have to go to iraq or not. good luck whatever u decide.
also sign into the website below it is mandatory for military %26amp; highly reccomended for civillians.
http://www.travel.state.gov/ look under international travel for us citizens. then click on registration with embassies. check out whatever else may interest you on that page especially Emergency assistance to americans abroad and Tips for traveling abroad . also go to http://www.indianembassy.org/newsite/def鈥?/a>
once there go to embassy. under embassy click on embassy staff. print that page and put it in a safe place. also do the same thing for the consular section click on consular staff and print %26amp; put in safe place for that just in case of an emergency
good luck at whatever u decide
Jeez. And I thought I had it tough. 1477 miles seems like nothing compared to you.
i had a silimlair situation with a persian guy... somethings you just have to let go... think about it. this seems great now but when you meet him %26amp; when you're finally together, will it still be so great? the mystery is gone.... anyway. i did not meet my guy because as hard as it was, i had to let it go. I was lonely and that's the only reason i was so stuck to him emotionally. But if you don't let this go, you'll miss out on the guys that are around you physically. don't spend anymore time on this, seriously. live your life
Its really sad I can undstd Ur agnoy n Pain
Actually even I had been away 4m my girl 4a year due to same reasons but God had mercy on us n she got a transfer 2 India
But I knw it was really frustrating 4me each day I used 2 just sit in 4rnt of my comp waitin 4her we used 2 really fight bad smtimes due 2 dis reasons
den 1 day a cousin of mine advised me to look up 4sm job opportunity 4 us either me to go down 2 Australia or 4her in India I did my fair share of research n finally found a job 4her (my prob was I was self-employed n she undstood it)
Hope dis works 4U too
God Bless n Take Care
I suppose you meet the guy. You can find a job in India( at least in a call center) to travel India.
If you know this guy for 5 years, it's worth visiting India ans seeing him for a while.Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
girlfriendddddddddddddddddddd,
do you know the culture of india? most of them believe we americans are easy. a lot of them watch.... r u ready for this one? baywatch and think that all females r like the girls r on baywatch. do you know that women r on the bottom in their culture? not like american women being 2nd to men but like dog poo on the bottom of your shoe 2nd place. if u were to marry this guy and his mother didn't like u, she could kill u or throw acid on you and get away with it. they still have the caste system; too long to explain it here. some of them believe that dating an american is okay, but to marry is a disgrace. it's okay for the male to mess around with a female, and it is not considered as cheating because we are not indian and we americans are easy hoes. i thought that the indians in america were different than the ones in india because they adopted our diversified culture. i must say that i was shocked when i learned that they have their secret society. they r nice to us because they need our business in order to suceed. to marry one of us is a different story. i learned this when i was watching reality tv last week i saw a case on court tv. it broke my heart. i have done business with indians for a long time, whether it's getting my eyebrows threaded, buying food from their groceries, restaurants or gas at their gas stations. the case is about a girl named sparkle rai. google the case and read as many articles as you can about it. i have always thought of them as beautiful people. their dark skin. hale, the only thing that makes them different from blacks is their straight black hair. put a hat on some of them and u can't tell them from a black person. turns out the girl was killed because of an honor killing. the murder went unsolved for 6yrs and probably would have never been solved until a girl got arrested and wanted to make a deal. turns out the case was bigger than anyone could imagine. the girl who watched the killing thought it was about drugs. when it was all said and done, it wasn't about drugs, it was about a contract killing. i always see the indians with each other and they never intermingle with other colors, and if they do its with white people, so maybe if you r white then u r right. any other color? there are a lot of cultures that believe in honor killings. to do it in their country while sick, there is nothing that we can do about it, but to bring it to our country? behavior of a socio/psychopath. A culture of people that at one time i would have dated, but now that i know their secret, i feel a quiet anger about them. no it's not all of them, but who do you trust? i don't have time to decipher so i have declined to give to their business. so the question that i have for you is this: 5years and no physical contact? come on... no matter how poor u r u cannot tell me that u couldn't save money to go see this guy within 5 years. it's as if you r dating someone in prison. how do you know he is not married? please don't tell me that he speaks to you on the computer constantly and wouldn't have time to see or be with someone else. his wife or girlfriend may not speak english. india is a 3rd world or underdeveloped country. most indians yearn to come to america. they will do anything to get here. he could be talking to you and many other girls for that matter. do i know how you feel? yes i do. i went on vacation to the DR and met someone. i had no intentions of meeting anyone, but i did. great guy, someone that i would date. inteligent, talented, speaks 5 languages, not stuck on stupid. he says i love u so easily. could it be bullshet? absoulutely. could it be true? possibility. all i know is that the only time i have heard i luv u from my now x's is when they r dying to get back with me, so i am looking at this relationship that i have gotten in as a breath of fresh air. he is originally from haiti, but works in the DR. could he be using me to become an american citizen? absolutely and maybe not. some of my friends think that i am a fool, but hey, it's my life. all that i am saying is to keep an open mind about things. why don't u take a surprise trip to india? go to http://www.skyauction.com/
they have sooo many great deals. click on the part that says auctions closing soon. you may get lucky and get a trip to india round trip for $400.00 noone can stop you from loving or being a fool for love. no matter what anyone says you are going to do what u want to do. just don't go into something with eyes wide shut. do you have his address? i plan on going to asia sometime next year. i am either going with a group or by myself, not sure yet. i am in the military. most of my friends who love to travel r either broke or cheapskates. if u want to do a road trip to india and have noone to go with, i don't know u, but i'll go. my plans r to go more east of india. thailand, vietnam, %26amp;cambodia. can't tell u exactly when i can go next year. not sure if i have to go to iraq or not. good luck whatever u decide.
also sign into the website below it is mandatory for military %26amp; highly reccomended for civillians.
http://www.travel.state.gov/ look under international travel for us citizens. then click on registration with embassies. check out whatever else may interest you on that page especially Emergency assistance to americans abroad and Tips for traveling abroad . also go to http://www.indianembassy.org/newsite/def鈥?/a>
once there go to embassy. under embassy click on embassy staff. print that page and put it in a safe place. also do the same thing for the consular section click on consular staff and print %26amp; put in safe place for that just in case of an emergency
good luck at whatever u decide
Jeez. And I thought I had it tough. 1477 miles seems like nothing compared to you.
i had a silimlair situation with a persian guy... somethings you just have to let go... think about it. this seems great now but when you meet him %26amp; when you're finally together, will it still be so great? the mystery is gone.... anyway. i did not meet my guy because as hard as it was, i had to let it go. I was lonely and that's the only reason i was so stuck to him emotionally. But if you don't let this go, you'll miss out on the guys that are around you physically. don't spend anymore time on this, seriously. live your life
Its really sad I can undstd Ur agnoy n Pain
Actually even I had been away 4m my girl 4a year due to same reasons but God had mercy on us n she got a transfer 2 India
But I knw it was really frustrating 4me each day I used 2 just sit in 4rnt of my comp waitin 4her we used 2 really fight bad smtimes due 2 dis reasons
den 1 day a cousin of mine advised me to look up 4sm job opportunity 4 us either me to go down 2 Australia or 4her in India I did my fair share of research n finally found a job 4her (my prob was I was self-employed n she undstood it)
Hope dis works 4U too
God Bless n Take Care
Long Distance Relationship...Advice?
My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and have been together for a year and a half, but have been very close for the last three and a half years, i have been attracted to him from the very beginning. both of us are in college now, and although visiting during school breaks have been very easy for us because i fly free, im not sure whether we should stay together. recently while talking, he told me that he would be unable to move in with me until he graduates college in 3 years, and unfortunately moving to be with him is out of the question (he lives in california and i live in new orleans on a full scholarship) i love him deeply and i can't imagine having a connection like this with anybody else, but i am so lonely at school without him and miss having a boyfriend around to be with me. as much as i would like to think i can wait another 3 years of college without him, i worry that this isn't fair to either of us, and that eventually he or i will find someone else that is closer, therefore a less stressful relationship. should i stick it out for 3 years or is it time to move on?Long Distance Relationship...Advice?
try to stick to it, maybe it will work.. if you really love each other, nobody can separate both of you...i've been there and done that also, i am in a long distance relationship now... just TRUST is the main thing on this relationship...
goodluck!!
try to stick to it, maybe it will work.. if you really love each other, nobody can separate both of you...i've been there and done that also, i am in a long distance relationship now... just TRUST is the main thing on this relationship...
goodluck!!
Long distance relationship Advice needed!?
So I need some advice, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and we go to colleges on different sides of the country. We only get to see each other over vacations because we live in the same city. My problem is that his parents are super controlling and have rules like we are only allowed to see each other for 4 hours a day max, he has a cerfew of 11pm, and he isn't allowed to stay over ever, and im just getting frustrated. We are 20 and 21 and I want to be able to go out and not be tied down by his parents rules. For example: I was just thinking about New Years and I mentioned going to my friends party where we would have to spend the night so as not to have to drive back at 1am and the answer is always ';you know i can't'; .. Im getting so annoyed with the situation and I need some advice for what to do!? (p.s. i have tried talking to his parents and no luck.. i feel like their stupid rules are breaking us apart and they don't care)Long distance relationship Advice needed!?
Unfortunately, anything you say to his parents will mean nothing. This is between you and him, and him and his parents. I would suggest explaining it to him. Just tell him that he's a grown man, and these rules are ridiculous. He needs to stick up to his parents. If for nothing else but the 4 hour max thing. Maybe the curfew is a courtesy to his parents, which I might could understand, but the 4 hour max is just too controlling. The only thing you can do is talk to your boyfriend. If you try to talk to his parents, it will probably do more harm than good. I would just tell him that you guys only get to see each other so often, and the rules are really hurting your relationship. It's hard enough to be in a long distance relationship, let alone have those kind of restrictions on the rare occasion you do get to see each other. Honestly, it's your boyfriend's place to put this right, and he needs to. He needs to grow up just a little bit and talk to his parents because that is just ridiculous. I would tell you try and move on, but I'm sure after over 2 years it's not that easy. Me and my fiance had some problems with this when we originally got together. I just told him if he wanted our relationship to progress, then something had to give. So he broke away from his parents. It's not his parents' decision if he can stay at your house. It's his. He has every right to say 'I'm not going to be home tonight, don't wait up.'Long distance relationship Advice needed!?
that is absolutely ridiculous. he needs to tell his parents that he is not a child anymore and not allow them to put such rules on him. im 20 and if my parents did that when i came home from college, i would tell them i was not going to come home until they could acknowledge that i am not a child.
omfg i feel so bad for you...you guys are 20 and 21...adults!! you should be able to do what you want. confront him but not harshly...tell him how you feel.
you are both adults. If you've talked to him about it and you've talked to parents about it...you are obviously not okay with the situation at hand. A relationship needs time when you are physically around each other, and someone here needs to get a hold of their balls and realize they arent 16 anymore.
It's not the parents rules, its why is he still abiding by them? He doesn't live with them anymore. maybe you need to see other people for a while, see what happens then.eye makeup remover cosmetics makeup
Unfortunately, anything you say to his parents will mean nothing. This is between you and him, and him and his parents. I would suggest explaining it to him. Just tell him that he's a grown man, and these rules are ridiculous. He needs to stick up to his parents. If for nothing else but the 4 hour max thing. Maybe the curfew is a courtesy to his parents, which I might could understand, but the 4 hour max is just too controlling. The only thing you can do is talk to your boyfriend. If you try to talk to his parents, it will probably do more harm than good. I would just tell him that you guys only get to see each other so often, and the rules are really hurting your relationship. It's hard enough to be in a long distance relationship, let alone have those kind of restrictions on the rare occasion you do get to see each other. Honestly, it's your boyfriend's place to put this right, and he needs to. He needs to grow up just a little bit and talk to his parents because that is just ridiculous. I would tell you try and move on, but I'm sure after over 2 years it's not that easy. Me and my fiance had some problems with this when we originally got together. I just told him if he wanted our relationship to progress, then something had to give. So he broke away from his parents. It's not his parents' decision if he can stay at your house. It's his. He has every right to say 'I'm not going to be home tonight, don't wait up.'Long distance relationship Advice needed!?
that is absolutely ridiculous. he needs to tell his parents that he is not a child anymore and not allow them to put such rules on him. im 20 and if my parents did that when i came home from college, i would tell them i was not going to come home until they could acknowledge that i am not a child.
omfg i feel so bad for you...you guys are 20 and 21...adults!! you should be able to do what you want. confront him but not harshly...tell him how you feel.
you are both adults. If you've talked to him about it and you've talked to parents about it...you are obviously not okay with the situation at hand. A relationship needs time when you are physically around each other, and someone here needs to get a hold of their balls and realize they arent 16 anymore.
It's not the parents rules, its why is he still abiding by them? He doesn't live with them anymore. maybe you need to see other people for a while, see what happens then.
Long-distance relationship advice?
I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for three months now. We worked in summer stock (theatre) together and were very close friends for almost two months before we even started dating. Now that I am back at school and he is looking for work as an actor, we are long-distance.
When I am with him, I feel positively on top of the world and know that he loves and cares for me very much. When I am not, however, my mind tends to wander. I often wonder - does he miss me as much as I miss him? Does he love me as much as I miss him? He, like most guys, is not one for showing much emotion. Are these concerns that you have ever felt in your relationship? Are they normal? Like I say, they are fleeting and not on my mind all the time ... but when they are I work myself into quite a state of anxiety.
Any thoughts??Long-distance relationship advice?
My husband and I dated long distance all through college..49 years and 9 mo later we are still happily married..so if it is ment to be it will be..to be in love you must trust..Long-distance relationship advice?
LET IT OUT! IT IS GOING TO DRIVE YOU NUTS. It is okay to feel these thing just let time go bye and see what happens. Do not sit a home and wait for his every call or letter, Tex message.................................鈥?br>
Go on with your life has you did in the past and he is for you and you for him he will be faithful and come back for you . I have seen that it takes 6 months or more to get to know a person and long distance is pretty deceiving, but you eventually get to know that person. Just know in 6 months if you still feel the same way it is love and if he does it is love. If not it is lust. There is a difference. I wish you luck and do not go into anxiety attacks over a guy. Please it has not been long enough to know what you like in this person. Give it time. That is all we have. Good luck and God bless.
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just hang in there. your mind will do this, most people's do just don't entertain those thoughts. Just keep the phone calls going and use this time to learn to communicate it will be awsome for you :)
You've said that when the two of you are together you're the one who feels 'on top of the world'. Then, you've gone on to say that you wonder whether or not his misses you; you wonder whether or not he loves you...'. You also say that like most guys he's not one for showing much emotion.
Well, I'm a guy and I wonder whether or not you've been meeting anyone that's truly good enough for you? If this guy isn't showing you (how else will we ever know love if it isn't shown) enough love then he isn't. If you have to wonder about as many things as you're wondering about then I strongly suggest that you reactivate your social life at home (nearby) and have fun. Find someone who knows you're worth loving and demonstrates it with every fiber of his being. Always, always, always make sure that love is reciprocal because in the final analysis that's all we have that's worth anything in this world of ours. Best wishes.
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK
good one. Trust and belief are the only things that is required to control mind wandering. Chastity applies to both the genders. You have a loving person... keeep loving!!!!!!!!
Just ask him in a simple and plain word. Otherwise you will be heart later on. I have this very heartning experience.
In all fairness to him you haven't been together very long and from my experience with my bf it took in a while to really open up (part of it is that he is german and they are not as open to expressing emotion) anyway, when he left back to germany and i was left in california i felt a lot like you do. I was always wondering what he was doing and if he was thinking of me. Just be honest with him and communicate with him. Let him know that wish he could open up to you more and that you want to feel needed. Long distance takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty. A lot of people say they don't work but i can tell you that me and my bf have been together for 4 years now and have only see eachother for about a 1 (if you combines all the little times we see eachother). Good luck and i hope the both of you are willing to make it work :)
it will be very hard but if you both love each other it will all work out...
good luck
sure I can relate..being a military wife, my husband and I get separated a lot sometimes for months or more at a time.. thoughts like that are natural but they can take over if you let them..so try to stay busy, think of this as a time to get to know yourself better, and try to get out and do things no matter how cruddy you feel with him gone.. because then you will actually have something new to tell him other than.. I miss you and I love you a thousand times over...or interrogating him with your wandering mind..when he really hasn't given you any reason for it.
There is a Mexican saying..
Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos.
meaning, long distance love is for dummies... and in my experience, they do not work. good luck
In my opinion no they do not work.
long-distance relationships are never good. They cause tension in the relationship. Questions. Anxiety. Pain. Not worth it. Friends long distance works better.
I agree with beccaroo when she says long distance friendships work much better. Any relationship is hard to maintain and even though we may not want to accept it. Spending physical time with each other, and seeing each other really contributes a lot to it. Now I think you two should just be friends during the course of your time away and if you two decide to leave in the same city or state, then see what happens. Also, It is said that the best relationships are formed from some of the best friendships. It's never too late to be friends. Think of it as starting over and analyzing if this is really what you want....also If this is what God has planned for you then no worries. But only time will tell. good luck and God Bless
When I am with him, I feel positively on top of the world and know that he loves and cares for me very much. When I am not, however, my mind tends to wander. I often wonder - does he miss me as much as I miss him? Does he love me as much as I miss him? He, like most guys, is not one for showing much emotion. Are these concerns that you have ever felt in your relationship? Are they normal? Like I say, they are fleeting and not on my mind all the time ... but when they are I work myself into quite a state of anxiety.
Any thoughts??Long-distance relationship advice?
My husband and I dated long distance all through college..49 years and 9 mo later we are still happily married..so if it is ment to be it will be..to be in love you must trust..Long-distance relationship advice?
LET IT OUT! IT IS GOING TO DRIVE YOU NUTS. It is okay to feel these thing just let time go bye and see what happens. Do not sit a home and wait for his every call or letter, Tex message.................................鈥?br>
Go on with your life has you did in the past and he is for you and you for him he will be faithful and come back for you . I have seen that it takes 6 months or more to get to know a person and long distance is pretty deceiving, but you eventually get to know that person. Just know in 6 months if you still feel the same way it is love and if he does it is love. If not it is lust. There is a difference. I wish you luck and do not go into anxiety attacks over a guy. Please it has not been long enough to know what you like in this person. Give it time. That is all we have. Good luck and God bless.
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just hang in there. your mind will do this, most people's do just don't entertain those thoughts. Just keep the phone calls going and use this time to learn to communicate it will be awsome for you :)
You've said that when the two of you are together you're the one who feels 'on top of the world'. Then, you've gone on to say that you wonder whether or not his misses you; you wonder whether or not he loves you...'. You also say that like most guys he's not one for showing much emotion.
Well, I'm a guy and I wonder whether or not you've been meeting anyone that's truly good enough for you? If this guy isn't showing you (how else will we ever know love if it isn't shown) enough love then he isn't. If you have to wonder about as many things as you're wondering about then I strongly suggest that you reactivate your social life at home (nearby) and have fun. Find someone who knows you're worth loving and demonstrates it with every fiber of his being. Always, always, always make sure that love is reciprocal because in the final analysis that's all we have that's worth anything in this world of ours. Best wishes.
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK
good one. Trust and belief are the only things that is required to control mind wandering. Chastity applies to both the genders. You have a loving person... keeep loving!!!!!!!!
Just ask him in a simple and plain word. Otherwise you will be heart later on. I have this very heartning experience.
In all fairness to him you haven't been together very long and from my experience with my bf it took in a while to really open up (part of it is that he is german and they are not as open to expressing emotion) anyway, when he left back to germany and i was left in california i felt a lot like you do. I was always wondering what he was doing and if he was thinking of me. Just be honest with him and communicate with him. Let him know that wish he could open up to you more and that you want to feel needed. Long distance takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty. A lot of people say they don't work but i can tell you that me and my bf have been together for 4 years now and have only see eachother for about a 1 (if you combines all the little times we see eachother). Good luck and i hope the both of you are willing to make it work :)
it will be very hard but if you both love each other it will all work out...
good luck
sure I can relate..being a military wife, my husband and I get separated a lot sometimes for months or more at a time.. thoughts like that are natural but they can take over if you let them..so try to stay busy, think of this as a time to get to know yourself better, and try to get out and do things no matter how cruddy you feel with him gone.. because then you will actually have something new to tell him other than.. I miss you and I love you a thousand times over...or interrogating him with your wandering mind..when he really hasn't given you any reason for it.
There is a Mexican saying..
Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos.
meaning, long distance love is for dummies... and in my experience, they do not work. good luck
In my opinion no they do not work.
long-distance relationships are never good. They cause tension in the relationship. Questions. Anxiety. Pain. Not worth it. Friends long distance works better.
I agree with beccaroo when she says long distance friendships work much better. Any relationship is hard to maintain and even though we may not want to accept it. Spending physical time with each other, and seeing each other really contributes a lot to it. Now I think you two should just be friends during the course of your time away and if you two decide to leave in the same city or state, then see what happens. Also, It is said that the best relationships are formed from some of the best friendships. It's never too late to be friends. Think of it as starting over and analyzing if this is really what you want....also If this is what God has planned for you then no worries. But only time will tell. good luck and God Bless
Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work & success stories?
I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I met on facebook.. we go on webcam together and talk on the phone.. he graduates from high school in 2 years and I graduate in 3 years.. we are very very willing to wait 3 years for each other because I am going to university where he is. We are deeply in love with each other, and believe fate brought us together.. I think we are soulmates.. I was wondering if anyone had GOOD advice? Or experience of something similar..?Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
You want advice.
Ok, I was in a long distant relationship for 4 years.. When i met him on a chatroom called Habbo he was leaving school i had one year to go, i was 15 him 16.
Fast forward a few months, we would always argue so i told him to leave he did.
Then he came back, we met for the first time 2 years ago and tbbh i was shocked.. he wasnt the guy i thought he was, he looked different, acted different, and just wasnt the guy i loved..
Long distance is hard, and in my case not worth it.
We both said we would wait but after like another 10 visits i realised he wasnt what i wanted.. he was controlling in real, abusive and pretty heartless.
So my advice,
Get a boyfriend near you.Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
well my situation is vastly different, married many years, husband works overseas 5 yrs now, it has been very hard and lonely, arguements started. I have kept in the bible and in church regularly. God is seeing us through everything, nobody is filing for divorce so it must be a strong love, I try to make Jesus the center of my life. with God all things are possible, so do not cast God aside! focus on spiritual things.
I was in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. The last year we lived together which ended the relationship for good. My advice to you is to take your time getting to know him, because it is hard when someone is miles away. Do not put all your hopes into this one guy, because it may not work out like you want it to. Im just saying to be aware and make sure he and you know that a relationship takes work especially when you both are in college and around new people. Make sure he will work on staying with you.
You want advice.
Ok, I was in a long distant relationship for 4 years.. When i met him on a chatroom called Habbo he was leaving school i had one year to go, i was 15 him 16.
Fast forward a few months, we would always argue so i told him to leave he did.
Then he came back, we met for the first time 2 years ago and tbbh i was shocked.. he wasnt the guy i thought he was, he looked different, acted different, and just wasnt the guy i loved..
Long distance is hard, and in my case not worth it.
We both said we would wait but after like another 10 visits i realised he wasnt what i wanted.. he was controlling in real, abusive and pretty heartless.
So my advice,
Get a boyfriend near you.Long distance relationship .. advice to make it work %26amp; success stories?
well my situation is vastly different, married many years, husband works overseas 5 yrs now, it has been very hard and lonely, arguements started. I have kept in the bible and in church regularly. God is seeing us through everything, nobody is filing for divorce so it must be a strong love, I try to make Jesus the center of my life. with God all things are possible, so do not cast God aside! focus on spiritual things.
I was in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. The last year we lived together which ended the relationship for good. My advice to you is to take your time getting to know him, because it is hard when someone is miles away. Do not put all your hopes into this one guy, because it may not work out like you want it to. Im just saying to be aware and make sure he and you know that a relationship takes work especially when you both are in college and around new people. Make sure he will work on staying with you.
Long distance relationship advice please?
SO, I've never thought this about anyone, but the guy I've been dating for a little over a month could quite possibly be my soul mate. We are absolutely perfect for eachother...We have EVERYTHING in common and the funny thing is is that 2 people have told me he reminds them of my dad. Problem is, hes 2 hours a way, we both have full time jobs and we both graduate in a few weeks.
Well, everything has seemed to be perfect for us or so i think...but, i have kind of sensed something a little fishy. He told me about a week and a half ago not to worry that he would be there when i graduate and has talked ab us being together for a long time...but, i feel i must have done something.
i dont know what it was, maybe i was psycho twds him bc i have been a little stressed out taking 19 hrs but he has a very kind heart. only thing is is that he doesnt call me like i think he should. it just seems something is up...like last night i was suppose to get a call from him and he never called...i mean, am i over analyzing this?
ive had abussive relationships in the past and have a hard time trusting people...i shut my phone off at 10 last night so i could get my priorities straight--school. im just scared to death bc i want us to work out so bad and every little thing that goes wrong i dont know what to do so i go into hiding and act like nothings up...ugh..ur thoughts?Long distance relationship advice please?
You both are graduating and working full time. You are taking an overload of classes, approaching graduation and you still feel one or two missed calls is a big deal? That sounds like your baggage speaking. Just schedule a date in any mutual spare time. Text thinking of you messages (please limit to once a day if you don't want to be known as a clingy psycho chick,) and enjoy your busy life. He's busy too.
BTW: 2 hours drive is not a long distance relationship.Long distance relationship advice please?
Well i have had a lot of long distance relationships I think you just need to worry about school and work right now and spend as much time as possiable with him.It sounds like you do love him just be
careful. When you do spend time with him let him know you love him
and let him know your worried mabey you guys can work things out together.
Hes probably not quite sure how he feels after only a month. Maybe hes backing off a bit because of the distance thing or maybe he doesn't feel quite as strongly as you do. After all, a month is not a very long time to be dating someone before you can label them your ';soulmate';.
I am massively curious. You said ';i have kind of sensed something a little fishy'; and ';but, i feel i must have done something';. Really? what did you sense? and what is it you felt you did?
Come on, sweetie. Give us some detail.
Yes, you are over analyzing. Give him a break. Perhaps he was tired or something came up. Why do you expect him to call when you think he should? Doesn't he have a voice or mind of his own? Can't he call when he wants to?
Guys are just a little insensitive or girls are just a little over sensitive..You were waiting for his call while he probably thought you were busy and would call him when you're free..Not much you can do..Tel him to call when he says he's gonna call..and stop worrying so much!
Love distance relationships are hard. I think you should work on praying for another relationships.
If it don't come easy let it go.
u worry for no reasons...all is well n wil b fine between u n ur guy.....good luck....
Try and calm down, first of all. Second of all, I've learned that 1 - you need to talk to him, and 2- the more time you go without talking to him.. the more time you have to go NUTS. Your mind is scrambling and you're thinking a million things. Think about whats important to you.. and how this relationship has been making you feel. Maybe he forgot, fell asleep, got caught up in school - you guys are both really busy right now. Perhaps you have trust issues, and if he does make a little slip up.. it will be a big dramatic thing to you. You have to communicate with him. Communication is key.. its everything. Let him know how you feel.. maybe he doesn't notice he's been slipping. maybe he has to try harder..maybe this maybe that.. the list goes on and on.. just talk to him.
Thats one think you cant trust is a long distance relationship....You probably dont even hang out as much what u know what he does and what does he know what you do... think about it... ur 2 hours away from him u can be doing anything u want all day would he know specially if he doesnt call you.....
maybe he's playing hard to get....
u should maybe just date him but dont talke anything too far untill u get to know him a lil more ofthen...
i got an idea do u listen to WAR OF THE ROSES well make one of ur friends call him and protend they are some red roses ppl and they giving out free roses and ask him who would he like to send em to lol and see if he has u in mind....
Hmm...
Don't worry, I'm in the same situation, but I've gotten over it. And yes, it really is a trust issue. Both of you are in love, and you need to ask yourself are you guys so much in a love not to go behind each other's back and lose that love?
Love is love. And it is not crazy to commit oneself to another over the distance. My love and I are 2500 miles apart, but we remain on the phone, and I can trust him with all my heart. Ironically, I'm talking with him and I practically do that everyday.
It's a matter of trust like you said, and it helps if you talk to him about stuff like that. I sure did and was relieved after some tears and all, but it was for the best in the end.
But despite all of that, good luck. ^_^
Human relationship is very complicated especially in the modern society. Everyone is very perplexed in dealing with this dilemma .
Yes, in the world, there are a lot of long distance relationship problems. But bear in mind, every breaking up may be just because of a small trivia. Here is my advices.
In summarizing the whole passage, you have pointed out two points.(maybe i miss some!) First, you do not know you should call him or not. Second, you are afraid of breaking up with him since u had suffered a hard time trusting people.
If i were u, i would call him as soon as possible. He is not others, he is your bf. You have a power to tell him that you need him, you love him, you miss him. He is the person you like most. Trust me, he indeed wanna miss u every time and everywhere , only if he loves you in heart, i supposed .
Before i give the solution on next concern, i really commiserate your situation. Having a hard time on trusting is very unhappy and upset.
i had a trauma before as like u. So, i totally understand the difficulties that u face now. However, i have already surmounted it. Yes, it is very hard for u to trust everyone , but u need to overcome it .
You need to step forward to open your mind to accept your friends' views. Trust me , you can , at least i can. If you do not mind, it is my pleasure to be one of your friend.
Generally speaking, i hope the mentioned above can help you ...Good luck, you can do it .... i hope you can maintain a good relationsip with him...
I think that women think a million times more than men about this type of thing. What women run through their mind over and over again doesn't even cross men's minds.
I also think that women often mirror relationships that were very formative to them in their young years in their dating years. That means that sometimes the people you date have similarities to your father or someone who was a father-figure. Conversely, if a father was absent or a poor parent, sometimes his daughter will learn a lesson from this and shy away from men who exhibit similar qualities. Unless you and your father had a really bad relationship, I would not be very concerned that the man has traits that your father has, too.
However, I would be concerned with how you're reacting. Stop right now and take a reality check. You think you were ';psycho'; to him? Yikes. Then you probably were. Go buy a nice card right now. Write a short (men don't want to read looooooonnnng drawn out messages) note to him. Something like ';I'm sorry I haven't treated you the way to deserve to be treated. I let the stress of school and the holidays get in the way. Now I see that I was wrong and I want you to know I miss you very much. I'm going to try my hardest to do better.'; Then send it to him ASAP.
From here on out, just look forward and be better. You may have been hurt in the past, but now you're letting the past be like an anchor holding you back. Sometimes you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.
Good luck.
Your over analyzing.
Its been a month you said? Chill out, get to know each other better.
My partner and I are much farther apart then you (I'm in Florida, my Partner is in Oklahoma) so we only get to see each other 1ce every 4 or 5 months.
We've been together 8 months.
Stop stressing. So he didnt call, BS. He was probably busy and wanted to call after 10, maybe he's mad he couldnt reach you?
If something is bothering you, talk about it. And stop stressing over the tiny things. Are the small things that go wrong worth losing the love of your life over?
relax. go have a beer. talk calmly. CHILL OUT =]
My advice is not to let past relationships affect the current one you are in. Just because people have treated you bad in the past doesnt mean every guy that comes along will do the same...Give him a chance....If he works and goes to school or leads a busy life then maybe something came up and he couldnt call...dont jump the gun cause that will just make him run....
Long distance relationships are hard but the key is to have good communication....you guys need to sit and talk about where you stand....are you exclusive? has that been made clear?
talk...that is the key to making a relationship work....
Well, everything has seemed to be perfect for us or so i think...but, i have kind of sensed something a little fishy. He told me about a week and a half ago not to worry that he would be there when i graduate and has talked ab us being together for a long time...but, i feel i must have done something.
i dont know what it was, maybe i was psycho twds him bc i have been a little stressed out taking 19 hrs but he has a very kind heart. only thing is is that he doesnt call me like i think he should. it just seems something is up...like last night i was suppose to get a call from him and he never called...i mean, am i over analyzing this?
ive had abussive relationships in the past and have a hard time trusting people...i shut my phone off at 10 last night so i could get my priorities straight--school. im just scared to death bc i want us to work out so bad and every little thing that goes wrong i dont know what to do so i go into hiding and act like nothings up...ugh..ur thoughts?Long distance relationship advice please?
You both are graduating and working full time. You are taking an overload of classes, approaching graduation and you still feel one or two missed calls is a big deal? That sounds like your baggage speaking. Just schedule a date in any mutual spare time. Text thinking of you messages (please limit to once a day if you don't want to be known as a clingy psycho chick,) and enjoy your busy life. He's busy too.
BTW: 2 hours drive is not a long distance relationship.Long distance relationship advice please?
Well i have had a lot of long distance relationships I think you just need to worry about school and work right now and spend as much time as possiable with him.It sounds like you do love him just be
careful. When you do spend time with him let him know you love him
and let him know your worried mabey you guys can work things out together.
Hes probably not quite sure how he feels after only a month. Maybe hes backing off a bit because of the distance thing or maybe he doesn't feel quite as strongly as you do. After all, a month is not a very long time to be dating someone before you can label them your ';soulmate';.
I am massively curious. You said ';i have kind of sensed something a little fishy'; and ';but, i feel i must have done something';. Really? what did you sense? and what is it you felt you did?
Come on, sweetie. Give us some detail.
Yes, you are over analyzing. Give him a break. Perhaps he was tired or something came up. Why do you expect him to call when you think he should? Doesn't he have a voice or mind of his own? Can't he call when he wants to?
Guys are just a little insensitive or girls are just a little over sensitive..You were waiting for his call while he probably thought you were busy and would call him when you're free..Not much you can do..Tel him to call when he says he's gonna call..and stop worrying so much!
Love distance relationships are hard. I think you should work on praying for another relationships.
If it don't come easy let it go.
u worry for no reasons...all is well n wil b fine between u n ur guy.....good luck....
Try and calm down, first of all. Second of all, I've learned that 1 - you need to talk to him, and 2- the more time you go without talking to him.. the more time you have to go NUTS. Your mind is scrambling and you're thinking a million things. Think about whats important to you.. and how this relationship has been making you feel. Maybe he forgot, fell asleep, got caught up in school - you guys are both really busy right now. Perhaps you have trust issues, and if he does make a little slip up.. it will be a big dramatic thing to you. You have to communicate with him. Communication is key.. its everything. Let him know how you feel.. maybe he doesn't notice he's been slipping. maybe he has to try harder..maybe this maybe that.. the list goes on and on.. just talk to him.
Thats one think you cant trust is a long distance relationship....You probably dont even hang out as much what u know what he does and what does he know what you do... think about it... ur 2 hours away from him u can be doing anything u want all day would he know specially if he doesnt call you.....
maybe he's playing hard to get....
u should maybe just date him but dont talke anything too far untill u get to know him a lil more ofthen...
i got an idea do u listen to WAR OF THE ROSES well make one of ur friends call him and protend they are some red roses ppl and they giving out free roses and ask him who would he like to send em to lol and see if he has u in mind....
Hmm...
Don't worry, I'm in the same situation, but I've gotten over it. And yes, it really is a trust issue. Both of you are in love, and you need to ask yourself are you guys so much in a love not to go behind each other's back and lose that love?
Love is love. And it is not crazy to commit oneself to another over the distance. My love and I are 2500 miles apart, but we remain on the phone, and I can trust him with all my heart. Ironically, I'm talking with him and I practically do that everyday.
It's a matter of trust like you said, and it helps if you talk to him about stuff like that. I sure did and was relieved after some tears and all, but it was for the best in the end.
But despite all of that, good luck. ^_^
Human relationship is very complicated especially in the modern society. Everyone is very perplexed in dealing with this dilemma .
Yes, in the world, there are a lot of long distance relationship problems. But bear in mind, every breaking up may be just because of a small trivia. Here is my advices.
In summarizing the whole passage, you have pointed out two points.(maybe i miss some!) First, you do not know you should call him or not. Second, you are afraid of breaking up with him since u had suffered a hard time trusting people.
If i were u, i would call him as soon as possible. He is not others, he is your bf. You have a power to tell him that you need him, you love him, you miss him. He is the person you like most. Trust me, he indeed wanna miss u every time and everywhere , only if he loves you in heart, i supposed .
Before i give the solution on next concern, i really commiserate your situation. Having a hard time on trusting is very unhappy and upset.
i had a trauma before as like u. So, i totally understand the difficulties that u face now. However, i have already surmounted it. Yes, it is very hard for u to trust everyone , but u need to overcome it .
You need to step forward to open your mind to accept your friends' views. Trust me , you can , at least i can. If you do not mind, it is my pleasure to be one of your friend.
Generally speaking, i hope the mentioned above can help you ...Good luck, you can do it .... i hope you can maintain a good relationsip with him...
I think that women think a million times more than men about this type of thing. What women run through their mind over and over again doesn't even cross men's minds.
I also think that women often mirror relationships that were very formative to them in their young years in their dating years. That means that sometimes the people you date have similarities to your father or someone who was a father-figure. Conversely, if a father was absent or a poor parent, sometimes his daughter will learn a lesson from this and shy away from men who exhibit similar qualities. Unless you and your father had a really bad relationship, I would not be very concerned that the man has traits that your father has, too.
However, I would be concerned with how you're reacting. Stop right now and take a reality check. You think you were ';psycho'; to him? Yikes. Then you probably were. Go buy a nice card right now. Write a short (men don't want to read looooooonnnng drawn out messages) note to him. Something like ';I'm sorry I haven't treated you the way to deserve to be treated. I let the stress of school and the holidays get in the way. Now I see that I was wrong and I want you to know I miss you very much. I'm going to try my hardest to do better.'; Then send it to him ASAP.
From here on out, just look forward and be better. You may have been hurt in the past, but now you're letting the past be like an anchor holding you back. Sometimes you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.
Good luck.
Your over analyzing.
Its been a month you said? Chill out, get to know each other better.
My partner and I are much farther apart then you (I'm in Florida, my Partner is in Oklahoma) so we only get to see each other 1ce every 4 or 5 months.
We've been together 8 months.
Stop stressing. So he didnt call, BS. He was probably busy and wanted to call after 10, maybe he's mad he couldnt reach you?
If something is bothering you, talk about it. And stop stressing over the tiny things. Are the small things that go wrong worth losing the love of your life over?
relax. go have a beer. talk calmly. CHILL OUT =]
My advice is not to let past relationships affect the current one you are in. Just because people have treated you bad in the past doesnt mean every guy that comes along will do the same...Give him a chance....If he works and goes to school or leads a busy life then maybe something came up and he couldnt call...dont jump the gun cause that will just make him run....
Long distance relationships are hard but the key is to have good communication....you guys need to sit and talk about where you stand....are you exclusive? has that been made clear?
talk...that is the key to making a relationship work....
Long Distance Relationship Advice?
My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship. We have been going out for a year and a half, and are young (18 %26amp; 19) but have been through a lot. (My mom in the hospital during the holidays, me going away to college, and going through depression and anxiety) and have been there for each other through it all. Recently however, he went to college and is about 5 hours away from me. We talk everyday mainly through text messages, but sometimes it feels like we aren't even in a relationship.
Lately, we have both kind of lost the ';feelings'; of being in love. However, when i think about breaking up with him or him being with other people i get really upset, when we are together we do still get those happy feelings, and when i am around him i am typically just happy and comfortable. Is this normal that those feelings go away?
I am a very anxious person, so i worry a lot about this. I've talked to a lot of people and read a lot of things that assure me this is all normal, and that after a while those feelings do disappear and it turns into ';mature love';, where you are commited to each other, and love is a desicion to be with that person through it all, not just about those feelings. Anyone who has been in a long distance relationship or even in a long, committed relationship, do you agree? Is it normal to lose those feelings after a while, yet still be in love? Long Distance Relationship Advice?
whew. okay here goes. I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. We met at 16 in which during that time i lost my grandmother whom i was very close to. I also suffered from anxiety of being close to people. We worked through it and we were great.
Then after 9 months he had to return home. He lives in Germany and i'm in California. I hit depression when he had to leave, i thought about how i was losing my support system, my best friend. I wanted to break up before he hurt me. But he convinced me to give it a try and to not give up becuase of the distance.
so we worked at it. I hated being so far away from him. Every week i would cry because our communication relied on emails, nothing like the face to face communication we used to have. I started to think of how much easier it would be to date others, i thought a lot about breakinig up, but like you i could not imagine my life without him.
As time went on i got over my crying and realized how much he was trying to make it work so i stopped mopping, and i found ways to make it better. We got webcams so we could see on another online, that was great. We got Skype online so that we could talk online, could hear his voice now, that was better. I started to tell him about my day more, i kept him informed about everything, no matter how stupid i though it was to say. I told him random stories or asked him random questions just to make the conversation interesting. And after 5 years we are still going strong, we get into a few ruts sometimes but we are happy.
so yes, over time the feeling will diminish. But it all has to do with you, and your BF. If you both really want it to work it can. communication is key, so think about more than just texting. I think i've written too much on here. Email me if you have more questions, i hope i helped:).
Lately, we have both kind of lost the ';feelings'; of being in love. However, when i think about breaking up with him or him being with other people i get really upset, when we are together we do still get those happy feelings, and when i am around him i am typically just happy and comfortable. Is this normal that those feelings go away?
I am a very anxious person, so i worry a lot about this. I've talked to a lot of people and read a lot of things that assure me this is all normal, and that after a while those feelings do disappear and it turns into ';mature love';, where you are commited to each other, and love is a desicion to be with that person through it all, not just about those feelings. Anyone who has been in a long distance relationship or even in a long, committed relationship, do you agree? Is it normal to lose those feelings after a while, yet still be in love? Long Distance Relationship Advice?
whew. okay here goes. I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. We met at 16 in which during that time i lost my grandmother whom i was very close to. I also suffered from anxiety of being close to people. We worked through it and we were great.
Then after 9 months he had to return home. He lives in Germany and i'm in California. I hit depression when he had to leave, i thought about how i was losing my support system, my best friend. I wanted to break up before he hurt me. But he convinced me to give it a try and to not give up becuase of the distance.
so we worked at it. I hated being so far away from him. Every week i would cry because our communication relied on emails, nothing like the face to face communication we used to have. I started to think of how much easier it would be to date others, i thought a lot about breakinig up, but like you i could not imagine my life without him.
As time went on i got over my crying and realized how much he was trying to make it work so i stopped mopping, and i found ways to make it better. We got webcams so we could see on another online, that was great. We got Skype online so that we could talk online, could hear his voice now, that was better. I started to tell him about my day more, i kept him informed about everything, no matter how stupid i though it was to say. I told him random stories or asked him random questions just to make the conversation interesting. And after 5 years we are still going strong, we get into a few ruts sometimes but we are happy.
so yes, over time the feeling will diminish. But it all has to do with you, and your BF. If you both really want it to work it can. communication is key, so think about more than just texting. I think i've written too much on here. Email me if you have more questions, i hope i helped:).
Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
well it started almost 5 years ago. I met an Indian boy online.. I've met many people online before and I only ever talked to them a few times.. but something was different about this guy.. we talked everyday for months and one day he told me he thought he was falling in love with me.. My reaction: I was angry.. (sound weird?) well I believed what everyone has always said about online dating.. that's its for weirdos and nerds which neither of us are... I told him it was impossible for him to have feelings for someone he's never met... but he insisted he was being honest.... well I wasn't the nicest person to him for a while.. it took me a LONG TIME to feel like I could trust him.. and then one day I realized I loved him too... now everyday my love grows stronger and stronger... never once has he doubted his love for me but I'm not as strong of a person as he is... anyway to make a very long story short.. My boyfriend and I are stuck... like I said earlier its been 5 years and I've not met him yet... i feel like we can't grow and move on as a couple.. i haven't even touched him or kissed him... seems so weird because I feel like I have in some ways... anyway many things hold us back from each other.. his job is very time consuming and requires a lot from him... and I'm working two jobs and neither of us have time for one another.. and i miss him so much.. I miss my best friend.... i can't tell u all the times I felt like I'd have a emotional break down... most of the time I feel like I can't go on... i'm so frustrated not having him here.... he hopes his job will give him enough experience to make it in another country... he's very intelligent i know he can go far... but there's just so much stopping us from getting to each other... has ANYONE OUT THERE EVER DEALT WITH THIS!? what do I do? how do I go on each day without him? How long were u separated from your loved one? Please I need some help... i feel like no one understands what I'm going through... thanks ~M.K.Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
I know exactly how you feel. I met my boyfriend online and we have a long distance relationship also. He lives in Florida, me in England. We didn't really expect much to go on at first, we just flirted and talked for months on end and then realised at some point we were falling in love. Even though we had never met each other, we knew each other inside out, we talked almost every night, and when we didn't we hated it. We shared everything with each other, all our feelings, childhood stories etc. We've known each other for 2 years now, and are inseparable. At some point we realised that what we had couldn't go on unless we had at least met each other in person. We knew we loved one another, but it was just sense to at least meet each other before we went any further. Why go along, putting your life on hold, when you don't know for certain (and by that I mean 100%) that it's real what you both share? Me and my boyfriend met just 3 weeks ago actually. He flew over to me, and the week we had together was the best we've ever had. We just belonged together, and we knew that once we met. But watching him go back home at the airport, was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I've never been so sad in all my life, I cried for days on end, but I knew for certain I was in love and that I'd do everything I could so we could end up together. We're both at college/university at the moment, studying. I'm currently looking up programs/courses to take up in Florida so I can study there either next year or the year after. In the meantime, we'll visit each other once or twice a year. It's hard, but we know once we're together we'll be happy.
Even though it works out for some people, and who's to say it could still go wrong for me (hope not), it doesn't work out for a lot more. Before you really do anything else, you should be certain you love each other. Then, make your choices in meeting one another. Smartly of course, when you meet make sure it's the usual safety matters..public place, take a friend/family member etc. Just in case, you never know. But, that one visit can determine your future. I think it's worth finding out if you belong with one another, for both your sakes.
And remember, if you really love each other, you will find a way to be together. Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
ill be honest, ive done this with a girl who moved a couple states away. and honestly, it doesnt work out. its hard enough keeping a relationship together when people are near. im sure you love him, but dont torture yourself
Why do you trust him? Has he ever put himself in danger for you or done some important sacrifice just for you with no hope of return? Did you conside that he might have dozens of women he is talking to like this? You have no way of knowing anyting about this man except to meet with him, and then live with him for a while. Otherwise your life will turn into a giant hallucination. WAKE UP!
why havent you tried to meet in 5 years? but, yeah i do understand.
i give up. i think i already had my nervous breakdown recently. but my relationship was much different than yours and he wont come here. and wouldnt meet me when i tried in the past. you dont know, maybe these guys are really married already and just mess with you cuz youre online while their at work. then go home to their wives or girlfriends. but, hey. good luck to you.
I believed i was in love with someone i, too, had never met. We went on for a while believing it was love... and it really was. He lived in northern florida and i in southern. it seems a lot father then you think. well now that we have met it is faded. we are as if we were married for many years. we have a strength in our relationship that has grown over the ages. when a long distance relationship finds its way to your front door... and suddenly it turns into a short one you will see if it was meant to be. But as for now when it comes down too it... if you really love him... really really love him... then you need to find that strength... and you also need to use it too hold on. For the people who say that you cant be in love with someone you never met i say that love is unpredictable. it comes when you least expect it... and under these hard conditions you face it is true that love will hold strong if love is there. Keep believing until believing fails... then once you firmly believe it is not working... and your heart has given out and there is not more strength to be strong with... let it go. and not for anything but yourself.
I know exactly how you feel. I met my boyfriend online and we have a long distance relationship also. He lives in Florida, me in England. We didn't really expect much to go on at first, we just flirted and talked for months on end and then realised at some point we were falling in love. Even though we had never met each other, we knew each other inside out, we talked almost every night, and when we didn't we hated it. We shared everything with each other, all our feelings, childhood stories etc. We've known each other for 2 years now, and are inseparable. At some point we realised that what we had couldn't go on unless we had at least met each other in person. We knew we loved one another, but it was just sense to at least meet each other before we went any further. Why go along, putting your life on hold, when you don't know for certain (and by that I mean 100%) that it's real what you both share? Me and my boyfriend met just 3 weeks ago actually. He flew over to me, and the week we had together was the best we've ever had. We just belonged together, and we knew that once we met. But watching him go back home at the airport, was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I've never been so sad in all my life, I cried for days on end, but I knew for certain I was in love and that I'd do everything I could so we could end up together. We're both at college/university at the moment, studying. I'm currently looking up programs/courses to take up in Florida so I can study there either next year or the year after. In the meantime, we'll visit each other once or twice a year. It's hard, but we know once we're together we'll be happy.
Even though it works out for some people, and who's to say it could still go wrong for me (hope not), it doesn't work out for a lot more. Before you really do anything else, you should be certain you love each other. Then, make your choices in meeting one another. Smartly of course, when you meet make sure it's the usual safety matters..public place, take a friend/family member etc. Just in case, you never know. But, that one visit can determine your future. I think it's worth finding out if you belong with one another, for both your sakes.
And remember, if you really love each other, you will find a way to be together. Long distance relationship advice please.. dating an Indian and I'm an American?
ill be honest, ive done this with a girl who moved a couple states away. and honestly, it doesnt work out. its hard enough keeping a relationship together when people are near. im sure you love him, but dont torture yourself
Why do you trust him? Has he ever put himself in danger for you or done some important sacrifice just for you with no hope of return? Did you conside that he might have dozens of women he is talking to like this? You have no way of knowing anyting about this man except to meet with him, and then live with him for a while. Otherwise your life will turn into a giant hallucination. WAKE UP!
why havent you tried to meet in 5 years? but, yeah i do understand.
i give up. i think i already had my nervous breakdown recently. but my relationship was much different than yours and he wont come here. and wouldnt meet me when i tried in the past. you dont know, maybe these guys are really married already and just mess with you cuz youre online while their at work. then go home to their wives or girlfriends. but, hey. good luck to you.
I believed i was in love with someone i, too, had never met. We went on for a while believing it was love... and it really was. He lived in northern florida and i in southern. it seems a lot father then you think. well now that we have met it is faded. we are as if we were married for many years. we have a strength in our relationship that has grown over the ages. when a long distance relationship finds its way to your front door... and suddenly it turns into a short one you will see if it was meant to be. But as for now when it comes down too it... if you really love him... really really love him... then you need to find that strength... and you also need to use it too hold on. For the people who say that you cant be in love with someone you never met i say that love is unpredictable. it comes when you least expect it... and under these hard conditions you face it is true that love will hold strong if love is there. Keep believing until believing fails... then once you firmly believe it is not working... and your heart has given out and there is not more strength to be strong with... let it go. and not for anything but yourself.
Long Distance Relationship Advice Please?
I've been seeing the same man for about a year and a half. He recently moved about 9 hours away from where I'm located, and I'll be lucky if I see him every 6 weeks or so. I'm afraid I am more willing to make it work than he is (which probably should answer my question on its own...) but I care about him a lot, and have never wanted a relationship to work as much as I do with this one.
I suppose my question is, should I give up and let him go? Long distance relationships don't usually work out very well, and I'm afraid I'm in a situation of damned if you do, damned if you don't. Should I end things now, or wait and see what happens?Long Distance Relationship Advice Please?
long distance dont work wellLong Distance Relationship Advice Please?
If you both really love each other, there will be a way for you both to be together forever...
one will have to move to be closer to each other...
9 hours.......
do what your heart tells you to do
considering the situation
the odds are against satisfactory results
not all long distance relationship will fail, just like short distance will fail too. that depends on how the two of you will work it out to make it a fruitful one in the future. if you really like this man and found that he is doing well to retain the relationship intact between the two of you, why not just wait for the result? who knows he will be your future.
It depends. If the move is permanent then it will be hard. I think you are right and it sounds like you have answered your own question which is a hard thing to accept. But remember, whilst you may feel about this man at the moment, in 1 years time, you may be head over heals in love with someone else. This has happened to me before so I do sympathise but now I ma with someone else who I love dearly. Good luck with whatever you decide.
well there is always hope you may get lucky and something may happen, he comes back or asks you to move out with him, but i would give it some time just to see what happens but if it keeps up that its just not looking like its going to work than its time to cut ties.
That's up to you. It takes a lot of work from BOTH parties to make a long distance relationship work. If you're giving more effort than he is, then it will probably not be worth it. You'll start to get irritated and start to feel unappreciated. I would sit down and talk with him and see how he feels about it. If he sounds unsure, then maybe it's best to end things now on good terms.eye makeup remover body cream
I suppose my question is, should I give up and let him go? Long distance relationships don't usually work out very well, and I'm afraid I'm in a situation of damned if you do, damned if you don't. Should I end things now, or wait and see what happens?Long Distance Relationship Advice Please?
long distance dont work wellLong Distance Relationship Advice Please?
If you both really love each other, there will be a way for you both to be together forever...
one will have to move to be closer to each other...
9 hours.......
do what your heart tells you to do
considering the situation
the odds are against satisfactory results
not all long distance relationship will fail, just like short distance will fail too. that depends on how the two of you will work it out to make it a fruitful one in the future. if you really like this man and found that he is doing well to retain the relationship intact between the two of you, why not just wait for the result? who knows he will be your future.
It depends. If the move is permanent then it will be hard. I think you are right and it sounds like you have answered your own question which is a hard thing to accept. But remember, whilst you may feel about this man at the moment, in 1 years time, you may be head over heals in love with someone else. This has happened to me before so I do sympathise but now I ma with someone else who I love dearly. Good luck with whatever you decide.
well there is always hope you may get lucky and something may happen, he comes back or asks you to move out with him, but i would give it some time just to see what happens but if it keeps up that its just not looking like its going to work than its time to cut ties.
That's up to you. It takes a lot of work from BOTH parties to make a long distance relationship work. If you're giving more effort than he is, then it will probably not be worth it. You'll start to get irritated and start to feel unappreciated. I would sit down and talk with him and see how he feels about it. If he sounds unsure, then maybe it's best to end things now on good terms.
Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
Okay Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend we have been together for almost two years now. He has recently moved away two months ago. He came up to visit last month and now in two weeks im going to visit for a week. But my problem is I am sexually frustrated now. I don't know what to do i'm in my mid twenties I have toys and have no problem pleasing myself but its not working. He thinks its funny I don't know what to do. Any advice are there any other things I can do to get my mind off of sex seriously I am going to see him in two weeks but it seems like its taking forever to get here..HELP!!Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
OK, you should start thinking if what you want is a partner or just someone to have sex with. A relation ship is much more than sex... in fcat its making love more than having sex, making love means a real conection. SO move and start working out. Me and my faince live in diferent countries and we deal very well on that. We know eachother very much because we take time to talk about us and what we can do together.Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
Why can't you move there with him. One solution. The only one I can think of.
Unless you cheat on him to satisfy your sexual frustration then you better stick to your toys and you hand.
Try to preoccupy yourself, cleaning house, going out with friends something!!
get a hobby.. i dont know... go jogging or something
Hmmmm...nice problem you have... sounds very temping for me to go to wherever you are and take care of this situation.But, I think i'm going to sit at my desk and offer some advice.. Have you tried reading a book.there are a lot of good book out there. or you can become a spiritual person.. reading and praying, meditating is always fun..
Phone sex, it might sound weird or stupid if you never done it, but it might help.
there are a lot of willing men around. find one in your neighborhood.
Relationships arent about sex its a bonus. To kill time, call him, and think about the things that you are going to do when you see him. Long Distance Relatiohships are hard because you cant see your partner all the time, but you have to be emotionally ready. I am dealing with the same thing, but we talk and talk and talk, and we have become a lot closer, so when we do meet up, it makes it all the more special and worth it.
just hold out. be faithful to him. my fiance (now x) cheated on me and it is very painful.
long distance relationships dont work specifically for that reason.
This is coming from the male perspective: End the relationship and find someone else closer. I know it's a bit harsh, but have you ever heard the term ';Absence makes the heart go wander?'; You're in your mid-20's, not your teens. If he moved away for some reason other than employment (and it better be for a heck of a lot more money), I'd be questioning his reasons for moving and not asking you to come with him if this relationship has any real stability.
OK, you should start thinking if what you want is a partner or just someone to have sex with. A relation ship is much more than sex... in fcat its making love more than having sex, making love means a real conection. SO move and start working out. Me and my faince live in diferent countries and we deal very well on that. We know eachother very much because we take time to talk about us and what we can do together.Long Distance Relationship? Advice!!!?
Why can't you move there with him. One solution. The only one I can think of.
Unless you cheat on him to satisfy your sexual frustration then you better stick to your toys and you hand.
Try to preoccupy yourself, cleaning house, going out with friends something!!
get a hobby.. i dont know... go jogging or something
Hmmmm...nice problem you have... sounds very temping for me to go to wherever you are and take care of this situation.But, I think i'm going to sit at my desk and offer some advice.. Have you tried reading a book.there are a lot of good book out there. or you can become a spiritual person.. reading and praying, meditating is always fun..
Phone sex, it might sound weird or stupid if you never done it, but it might help.
there are a lot of willing men around. find one in your neighborhood.
Relationships arent about sex its a bonus. To kill time, call him, and think about the things that you are going to do when you see him. Long Distance Relatiohships are hard because you cant see your partner all the time, but you have to be emotionally ready. I am dealing with the same thing, but we talk and talk and talk, and we have become a lot closer, so when we do meet up, it makes it all the more special and worth it.
just hold out. be faithful to him. my fiance (now x) cheated on me and it is very painful.
long distance relationships dont work specifically for that reason.
This is coming from the male perspective: End the relationship and find someone else closer. I know it's a bit harsh, but have you ever heard the term ';Absence makes the heart go wander?'; You're in your mid-20's, not your teens. If he moved away for some reason other than employment (and it better be for a heck of a lot more money), I'd be questioning his reasons for moving and not asking you to come with him if this relationship has any real stability.
Long Distance Relationship Advice... Please!?
I need some long distance relationship advice from someone who has been there and knows what I am going through, it's a really long story and I really need someone to talk to, and I don't want to post it on here and get people critisizing me, so if someone can please help me, it would be greated appreciated, please just e-mail me... bj9tallonl@yahoo.com.... thank youLong Distance Relationship Advice... Please!?
it hurts more than you gain usually..............maybe you are the exception..........
it hurts more than you gain usually..............maybe you are the exception..........
Long distance relationship advice?
My boyfriend and I live 3 hours apart. I was just up there for the weekend, and am back home but having a hard time. I feel on edge and anxious..as if I'm not going to see him again. I know that I will, but why do I feel like this? Any advice?Long distance relationship advice?
I know exactly how you feel, only me and my boyfriend are 4 hours apart. This month will actually be our 1 year anniversary. All I can say is sometimes those kinds of feelings never really go away. They die down a little bit, but they're still there. It will get better. Sometimes I feel like it is so much worse though. It's almost like it comes in waves. The more you love and trust him the better it will be; at least that's what I believe. We can't see each other every weekend though, because of GAS prices, so we're limited to every other weekend, if we're lucky. We both work and are in college and he's in the ARMY, so we take what we can get pretty much. What I do is think about how much better it will be in the long run because we're both doing what we can now to better ourselves before we take that next step. We want to have our feet under before we make our big, BIG plans. But, I know it's hard, not going to get much easier, but everything will be okay. If I can make it this long, anyone can do it. Oh Yeah, not to mention, the distance has helped me realize that I don't have to be dependent on him to always be there, because, of course, he can't. I used to actually be a very dependent person. Anyways, good luck with everything. I can only hope that y'all are as happy as we are.Long distance relationship advice?
My cousin went through the same situation. He had this gf who lived about 7 hours away. It didn't work out, it was too far. But everytime hed come to see her he felt like he would never see her again.
I know exactly how you feel, only me and my boyfriend are 4 hours apart. This month will actually be our 1 year anniversary. All I can say is sometimes those kinds of feelings never really go away. They die down a little bit, but they're still there. It will get better. Sometimes I feel like it is so much worse though. It's almost like it comes in waves. The more you love and trust him the better it will be; at least that's what I believe. We can't see each other every weekend though, because of GAS prices, so we're limited to every other weekend, if we're lucky. We both work and are in college and he's in the ARMY, so we take what we can get pretty much. What I do is think about how much better it will be in the long run because we're both doing what we can now to better ourselves before we take that next step. We want to have our feet under before we make our big, BIG plans. But, I know it's hard, not going to get much easier, but everything will be okay. If I can make it this long, anyone can do it. Oh Yeah, not to mention, the distance has helped me realize that I don't have to be dependent on him to always be there, because, of course, he can't. I used to actually be a very dependent person. Anyways, good luck with everything. I can only hope that y'all are as happy as we are.Long distance relationship advice?
My cousin went through the same situation. He had this gf who lived about 7 hours away. It didn't work out, it was too far. But everytime hed come to see her he felt like he would never see her again.
Long distance relationship advice?
I need some advice on keeping my long distance relationship alive.Long distance relationship advice?
Don't listen to the people who say it won't work. They're just bitter their cheesy relationships didn't work out.
Constant communication is so important. As it allows you two to feel closer. Knowing what is going on in each other's life every day helps to avoid feeling ';out of the loop'; and it builds trust (something very hard to keep in a l/d relationship sometimes). When my boyfriend and I were apart (1,500 miles) we talked on the phone as much as we could. We would call the other person every single morning and wake them up for work, call on lunch breaks, after work and talk literally until we went to bed that night. We also arranged to spend a few days together at least once a month, by flying out to see each other.
We were friends online for over 5 years and we have been dating for over 1.5 years. We are currently living together and happier than ever.
They CAN work out. With a lot of effort on both parts.Long distance relationship advice?
Lots of phone calls (my LD gf and I both have Vonage = no charge!), texts, IMs, the occasional card and/or letter, and as many visits as you can afford!
its not going to work..
Hunn..It don't work. sorry.
I had the mother of all long distance relationships. It lasted nearly 1.5 years! And no he didn't cheat on me. But only because he was gay and didn't want to act out on his homosexual tendencies. Yeah...but maybe we were more friends than anything anyway. We were happy with just talking. We were really close because we were totally dedicated to emailing each other and using Skype. We made lots of time to do all that and talk to each other about everything (except, as it turned out, for the whole gay thing. lol). Try not to get jealous about little things. Just stay open and very communicative with each other.
long distance relationships are hard.
im not saying they're impossible.
but you both have to be very commited for them to work.
just pick a time once or twice a week where you can IM or maybe talk on the phone. keep in touch always.
and keep the relationship growing.
talk as often as you can, and get to know eachother as best as you can.
hope i helped...
and i hope everything goes well for you two!
really there are two essential things you need
1) lots of love and trust
2) dedication
Just make sure you have enough trust to not get jealous, and make sure you guys talk on the phone and see each other on occasions, just keep the love alive. If you two truly love each other, it will work out. If not, it wasn't meant to be. I hope this helped.
I'm Stacksosaurus' boyfriend, so I can vouch for the accuracy of her statements :)
call eachother often
make sure you have full trust in eachother because that first seed of doubt will seriously kill a relationship
try webcams.
chat online often.
dude, foget about it, unless you wanna become an over jealous psycho piece of s#!t, forget about it. they dont work.
OKay, it depends on how long the distance is going to be and how often you are going to get to see each other..
i went away to school and my boyfriend and i made it work for about 3 months but then i decided to come home. ALSO my brother and his girlfriend are doing it and its only for about 8 months.
So i think as long as you get to see each other on a weekly or every other weekly basis it won't be too bad if its for a forever period of time but if its for a short period of time, just keep faith.
Also, presents, letters and care packages are awesome.
First things first..DO NOT listen to ANYONE who says that long distance relationships don't work. I live thousands of miles away from my boyfriend (he lives in Europe and I live in the US). He comes to the US for 5 months every year, and I go there for 3..but that means we are apart for 4 months at a time (right now...)
What you should do is download Skype for your computers. On skype, you can talk to each other for free when you are on the computer (which will help to keep phone bills down), and it also has games that you can play with each other (like battleships, bowling..etc etc.) I always love playing the games with my boyfriend, because it makes us laugh and have fun together, even though we can't be with each other.
I hope this helped.. :) Good luck. I wish you the best.
Just text alot and keep contact all the time...DONT LIE!
or all trust will be gone...
and suprise them once in awhile by going to see them!
thats always cute!
send romantic e mails
mail her a card
Send her a gift or flowers
Schedule a trip together..maybe you can both meet 1/2 way..
then theres the phone sex....?
well just have fun like on the internet and on the phone thats about the only thing I can say sorry for no help haha
long distance relationships do not work! it just ends in alot of heartache and sorrow! give up now before its years down the line tht you are waiting still for this person! ive been there and done it! trust me its just not worth it! (unless the person tht you are in a relationship with loves you enough to move near you anytime soon! i'd lose this person)!
Long distance relationship have some fun, and if you like it keep it with net or phone... you'll be first when is finished
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Don't listen to the people who say it won't work. They're just bitter their cheesy relationships didn't work out.
Constant communication is so important. As it allows you two to feel closer. Knowing what is going on in each other's life every day helps to avoid feeling ';out of the loop'; and it builds trust (something very hard to keep in a l/d relationship sometimes). When my boyfriend and I were apart (1,500 miles) we talked on the phone as much as we could. We would call the other person every single morning and wake them up for work, call on lunch breaks, after work and talk literally until we went to bed that night. We also arranged to spend a few days together at least once a month, by flying out to see each other.
We were friends online for over 5 years and we have been dating for over 1.5 years. We are currently living together and happier than ever.
They CAN work out. With a lot of effort on both parts.Long distance relationship advice?
Lots of phone calls (my LD gf and I both have Vonage = no charge!), texts, IMs, the occasional card and/or letter, and as many visits as you can afford!
its not going to work..
Hunn..It don't work. sorry.
I had the mother of all long distance relationships. It lasted nearly 1.5 years! And no he didn't cheat on me. But only because he was gay and didn't want to act out on his homosexual tendencies. Yeah...but maybe we were more friends than anything anyway. We were happy with just talking. We were really close because we were totally dedicated to emailing each other and using Skype. We made lots of time to do all that and talk to each other about everything (except, as it turned out, for the whole gay thing. lol). Try not to get jealous about little things. Just stay open and very communicative with each other.
long distance relationships are hard.
im not saying they're impossible.
but you both have to be very commited for them to work.
just pick a time once or twice a week where you can IM or maybe talk on the phone. keep in touch always.
and keep the relationship growing.
talk as often as you can, and get to know eachother as best as you can.
hope i helped...
and i hope everything goes well for you two!
really there are two essential things you need
1) lots of love and trust
2) dedication
Just make sure you have enough trust to not get jealous, and make sure you guys talk on the phone and see each other on occasions, just keep the love alive. If you two truly love each other, it will work out. If not, it wasn't meant to be. I hope this helped.
I'm Stacksosaurus' boyfriend, so I can vouch for the accuracy of her statements :)
call eachother often
make sure you have full trust in eachother because that first seed of doubt will seriously kill a relationship
try webcams.
chat online often.
dude, foget about it, unless you wanna become an over jealous psycho piece of s#!t, forget about it. they dont work.
OKay, it depends on how long the distance is going to be and how often you are going to get to see each other..
i went away to school and my boyfriend and i made it work for about 3 months but then i decided to come home. ALSO my brother and his girlfriend are doing it and its only for about 8 months.
So i think as long as you get to see each other on a weekly or every other weekly basis it won't be too bad if its for a forever period of time but if its for a short period of time, just keep faith.
Also, presents, letters and care packages are awesome.
First things first..DO NOT listen to ANYONE who says that long distance relationships don't work. I live thousands of miles away from my boyfriend (he lives in Europe and I live in the US). He comes to the US for 5 months every year, and I go there for 3..but that means we are apart for 4 months at a time (right now...)
What you should do is download Skype for your computers. On skype, you can talk to each other for free when you are on the computer (which will help to keep phone bills down), and it also has games that you can play with each other (like battleships, bowling..etc etc.) I always love playing the games with my boyfriend, because it makes us laugh and have fun together, even though we can't be with each other.
I hope this helped.. :) Good luck. I wish you the best.
Just text alot and keep contact all the time...DONT LIE!
or all trust will be gone...
and suprise them once in awhile by going to see them!
thats always cute!
send romantic e mails
mail her a card
Send her a gift or flowers
Schedule a trip together..maybe you can both meet 1/2 way..
then theres the phone sex....?
well just have fun like on the internet and on the phone thats about the only thing I can say sorry for no help haha
long distance relationships do not work! it just ends in alot of heartache and sorrow! give up now before its years down the line tht you are waiting still for this person! ive been there and done it! trust me its just not worth it! (unless the person tht you are in a relationship with loves you enough to move near you anytime soon! i'd lose this person)!
Long distance relationship have some fun, and if you like it keep it with net or phone... you'll be first when is finished
Long distance relationship don't worm your bad !!
Long-distance relationship advice?
My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years moved away 3 months ago for a job. He says he loves me and we decided to do a long distance relationship with me possibly moving there to be with him next year. In the time he's been gone, I don't feel like I get to talk to him enough and it doesn't feel like he's in my life anymore (I was ok the first month but I feel like we talk less now). He sends me an email every couple of days and we IM once a week or so, but in the time since he left, he's only sent me maybe 25 texts and has only called me 2 or 3 times. It's always me calling him. It also makes it harder because there's an 11 hour time difference between us. We have plans to see each other over Christmas and New Years, but he won't commit to flight dates, says he's 'not a planner' (I wouldn't normally plan so far in advance, but it will be high season and neither of us can afford expensive flights). We got into an argument over the phone the other day when I told him I wished he wouldn't treat making plans to see me like a chore. He said it was a chore for him and I ended up hanging up on him. I haven't talked with him or heard from him in a couple of days now. I don't feel like he's putting any effort in and am starting to think about breaking it off. Obviously you don't know all the details of our relationship, but any opinions or suggestions?Long-distance relationship advice?
too bad he couldnt commit to flight plans. those could always be changed for a fee.
looks like he's not very helpful/committed...only making long distance harder on the relationship than it is already. if he's not going to try. you should give up.
too bad he couldnt commit to flight plans. those could always be changed for a fee.
looks like he's not very helpful/committed...only making long distance harder on the relationship than it is already. if he's not going to try. you should give up.
Long Distance Relationship, Advice Please!!?
me and my girlfriend are currently in a long distance relationship. we are both in love with each other but i miss her so much and it is inpractical to drive there. can you give me advice on how to keep the fire burning without a webcam?Long Distance Relationship, Advice Please!!?
I'm in a long distance relationship too, for more than two years now. It's really tough but if you really love each other, both of you should be willing to make it work. It takes two to tango. You should always communicate, thru emails, chatting, long distance call and even a text can help a lot to ease the longing. It's really hard and sometimes sucks but if you love the person it will take much patience to wait for the time you can be together. Gudluck.Long Distance Relationship, Advice Please!!?
is she going to college somewhere out of state?
how about meeting her for a weekend and celebrate valentnes day together and catch up on missed moments?
Try having a long-distance relationship across the globe... it was tough!
Personally, you'll tend to be more insecure... wondering what's he/she doing right now... so everything is all bout trust...
Unfortunately, though the trust was there for mine, he ended up sleeping with someone else cos the time apart gave him alot to think about... our difference in race and religion... he slept with someone else, to kinda ensure that there was no going back for him... that we were not to be together, period... or so he says!
To sum it all up, we made it through. But it ended scarring me for life... I can't seem to trust much anymore. The insecurity has settled comfortably in me and I can't help it. So, if he doesn't pick up my calls, my mind will go crazy. Sad.
Do you trust her? Totally?? Do you foresee any of you cheating? End the relationship if you do. On a positive note, not all long-distance relationship end up in the gutter! Take care and good luck!!!!
E-mail, phone calls, even write her a letter letting her know that you love and are forher. She'll be very surprised, and then she can keep the letter and read it any time she wants. Good luck
Dude...move on!eye makeup remover body cream
I'm in a long distance relationship too, for more than two years now. It's really tough but if you really love each other, both of you should be willing to make it work. It takes two to tango. You should always communicate, thru emails, chatting, long distance call and even a text can help a lot to ease the longing. It's really hard and sometimes sucks but if you love the person it will take much patience to wait for the time you can be together. Gudluck.Long Distance Relationship, Advice Please!!?
is she going to college somewhere out of state?
how about meeting her for a weekend and celebrate valentnes day together and catch up on missed moments?
Try having a long-distance relationship across the globe... it was tough!
Personally, you'll tend to be more insecure... wondering what's he/she doing right now... so everything is all bout trust...
Unfortunately, though the trust was there for mine, he ended up sleeping with someone else cos the time apart gave him alot to think about... our difference in race and religion... he slept with someone else, to kinda ensure that there was no going back for him... that we were not to be together, period... or so he says!
To sum it all up, we made it through. But it ended scarring me for life... I can't seem to trust much anymore. The insecurity has settled comfortably in me and I can't help it. So, if he doesn't pick up my calls, my mind will go crazy. Sad.
Do you trust her? Totally?? Do you foresee any of you cheating? End the relationship if you do. On a positive note, not all long-distance relationship end up in the gutter! Take care and good luck!!!!
E-mail, phone calls, even write her a letter letting her know that you love and are forher. She'll be very surprised, and then she can keep the letter and read it any time she wants. Good luck
Dude...move on!
Long distance relationship advice?
how can i convince her to start a long distance relationship? we both have feelings for each other, but she is insecure...how can i stay in contact with her without losing our bond? we barely know each other, we just spent a month of vacation together, and we already talked about this but didn't start a relationship...she lives very far away, i'm in the u.s and she's in sp ainLong distance relationship advice?
Don't try to cling to her. Relax and just try to have simple communications open. Just be a friend. If you both love each other enough to be together the friendship will grow and you will be reunited.
If you try to hold on to her, you will push her away and be hurt. Just be friends. Long distance relationships do work but they are mostly found successful in dreams. Take care.Long distance relationship advice?
Sorry man, but long distance never work. There's too much temptations out there, and I'm sure you and her will fall if you're apart for too long. Its just the way it is, I wish I had positive words for you but due to experience and looking at ppl I know who have tried, they NE:V:ER work. But good luck all the same
let it go dude, it will not work if your not a patient person. and technically you will be single still because you will never see each other only in pictures and web chats and if you like intimacy you wont be getting of that., sorry if it was mean hope i helped
love you bye
Not gonna work, only way is if one of you move to be closer to the other. Other than that chalk it up as a nice time in your life.
Best Wishes
the only way these work is if you pay alot of attention to her while she is away and then have a chick on the side when she is not around
that distance sounds to great of a distance to me
Don't try to cling to her. Relax and just try to have simple communications open. Just be a friend. If you both love each other enough to be together the friendship will grow and you will be reunited.
If you try to hold on to her, you will push her away and be hurt. Just be friends. Long distance relationships do work but they are mostly found successful in dreams. Take care.Long distance relationship advice?
Sorry man, but long distance never work. There's too much temptations out there, and I'm sure you and her will fall if you're apart for too long. Its just the way it is, I wish I had positive words for you but due to experience and looking at ppl I know who have tried, they NE:V:ER work. But good luck all the same
let it go dude, it will not work if your not a patient person. and technically you will be single still because you will never see each other only in pictures and web chats and if you like intimacy you wont be getting of that., sorry if it was mean hope i helped
love you bye
Not gonna work, only way is if one of you move to be closer to the other. Other than that chalk it up as a nice time in your life.
Best Wishes
the only way these work is if you pay alot of attention to her while she is away and then have a chick on the side when she is not around
that distance sounds to great of a distance to me
Any advice for long distance relationships?
My boyfriend and I have been together for what's going on 2 years.
He's going away to college next year, and I'll be a senior in high school.
We've decided to stay together, and he'll come home over breaks.
I think we can make it work, but the thought scares me.
He'll only be two hours away, so I could visit him sometimes.
People tell me long distant relationships are doomed to fail, especially when it comes to college.
I'm really just looking for advice or shared experiences for how I can deal with being alone for long periods of time and how to get through it.Any advice for long distance relationships?
I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for over two years and if anything it makes us stronger because we appreciate each other more when we see each other.
If you love each other, you will make it work out, trust me. :)Any advice for long distance relationships?
Hey girl!
Okay, this is one i can answer finally:) I'm in a long distance relationship myself, only my boyfriend is about a state and a half away. And I can't drive:'( (I'm 13).
It takes some work, but you can do it trust me. It's hard, but true love waits:)
Man, sorry to say but long distance relationships are extremely hard to hold. The physical need for your significant other becomes extremely overwhelming. Im speaking from experience. I kept it up for a few months but ultimately failed. Good luck
He's going away to college next year, and I'll be a senior in high school.
We've decided to stay together, and he'll come home over breaks.
I think we can make it work, but the thought scares me.
He'll only be two hours away, so I could visit him sometimes.
People tell me long distant relationships are doomed to fail, especially when it comes to college.
I'm really just looking for advice or shared experiences for how I can deal with being alone for long periods of time and how to get through it.Any advice for long distance relationships?
I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for over two years and if anything it makes us stronger because we appreciate each other more when we see each other.
If you love each other, you will make it work out, trust me. :)Any advice for long distance relationships?
Hey girl!
Okay, this is one i can answer finally:) I'm in a long distance relationship myself, only my boyfriend is about a state and a half away. And I can't drive:'( (I'm 13).
It takes some work, but you can do it trust me. It's hard, but true love waits:)
Man, sorry to say but long distance relationships are extremely hard to hold. The physical need for your significant other becomes extremely overwhelming. Im speaking from experience. I kept it up for a few months but ultimately failed. Good luck
I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
im 15...and a female...i live in new york and my boyfriend lives in floridaI was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
Just keep faith in you, in your boyfriend , and in your relationship.I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
leave his *** and have a long distace relationship with me
no? ok. anyway, just email him and if needed talk a little dirty on the phone or IM with him
iM SORRY,
thats all I can say, for me they never work but hey Im gay
Honestly, I don't really know how a teenager's long distance affair would turn out. I haven't been a teenager since...well since I was a teenager. In this day and age with email and cell phones, you can communicate a lot quicker, but seeing each other is expensive and a little much to expect. I would probably say keep your options for a new love open. You're young and in time, even though you may not forget him, you'll move on.
Yes I do...don't even think about it. It will not work out to your benefit. It just goes against human nature, and you are far too young to be sitting home waiting for someone who may or may not come back...probably will not come back.
You're only fifteen? Keep him in Florida and stay in New York. Get a cell phone plan with LOTS of free minutes. And snail mail still works.
LOL, it's apparent I'm a parent.
Long distance relationships can be successful but they require a lot of trust, understanding, and maturity. It's very challenging to be involved with someone who is hours away and not able to be by your side when you need him. Both parties have to be in agreement about how the relationship is going to progress i.e phone calls, exclusivity, visits, etc. Don't assume that you are exclusive if this has not been discussed. Once you and he are on the same page there are little things you can do to stay connected. Talk to each other daily, arrange movie dates ( you both rent the same movie and watch it together), make sure you talk to each other about what you are doing in your life,even the mundane things. Relationships require work and patience and long distance relationships even moreso.
Easy. Long distance relationships can work if you want them to.
You really need to only focus on the task at hand. If you are serious about each other, then only focus on each other and your relationship.
You're really only seperated for possible, a short time. Then you'll be together.
If this seperation is job/school related, just focus on that, and then after, focus on each other through the phone, email, planning to see each other, etc.
They work if you want them to.
Keep in touch by letter writing and emails. Do not be afraid to date others. You are young and should think carefully about a commitment with someone long distance
there is no advice..THEY don't work, especially at your age, he will find a new flavor of the week soon and you will too.
Just keep faith in you, in your boyfriend , and in your relationship.I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
leave his *** and have a long distace relationship with me
no? ok. anyway, just email him and if needed talk a little dirty on the phone or IM with him
iM SORRY,
thats all I can say, for me they never work but hey Im gay
Honestly, I don't really know how a teenager's long distance affair would turn out. I haven't been a teenager since...well since I was a teenager. In this day and age with email and cell phones, you can communicate a lot quicker, but seeing each other is expensive and a little much to expect. I would probably say keep your options for a new love open. You're young and in time, even though you may not forget him, you'll move on.
Yes I do...don't even think about it. It will not work out to your benefit. It just goes against human nature, and you are far too young to be sitting home waiting for someone who may or may not come back...probably will not come back.
You're only fifteen? Keep him in Florida and stay in New York. Get a cell phone plan with LOTS of free minutes. And snail mail still works.
LOL, it's apparent I'm a parent.
Long distance relationships can be successful but they require a lot of trust, understanding, and maturity. It's very challenging to be involved with someone who is hours away and not able to be by your side when you need him. Both parties have to be in agreement about how the relationship is going to progress i.e phone calls, exclusivity, visits, etc. Don't assume that you are exclusive if this has not been discussed. Once you and he are on the same page there are little things you can do to stay connected. Talk to each other daily, arrange movie dates ( you both rent the same movie and watch it together), make sure you talk to each other about what you are doing in your life,even the mundane things. Relationships require work and patience and long distance relationships even moreso.
Easy. Long distance relationships can work if you want them to.
You really need to only focus on the task at hand. If you are serious about each other, then only focus on each other and your relationship.
You're really only seperated for possible, a short time. Then you'll be together.
If this seperation is job/school related, just focus on that, and then after, focus on each other through the phone, email, planning to see each other, etc.
They work if you want them to.
Keep in touch by letter writing and emails. Do not be afraid to date others. You are young and should think carefully about a commitment with someone long distance
there is no advice..THEY don't work, especially at your age, he will find a new flavor of the week soon and you will too.
Advice on long distance relationships?
After this year, my boyfriend is leaving for college.
We've decided we're going to stay together and keep on touch while he's gone.
He'll be about 2 1/2 to 3 hours away and will come home for holidays, but doesn't sound like he's going to visit home much otherwise.
I know he won't cheat on me, and I won't on him, but for the past year and a half that we've been together, he's lived in my neighborhood.
I think I'm going to have a hard time dealing with not seeing him, and I was wondering if you think it can last. I know I have the rest of this school year and the summer to spend with him, but I cannot stop thinking about it.
I'm really scared to see him leave and I was wondering if anyone had any advice?
We've been together a year and a half, and we have known each other for years. We're really close, and I know people say that people always find other girlfriends in college, but I don't think that will be much of a problem.Advice on long distance relationships?
Don't let anyone tell you whats right for you guys
But in my experience..which is 2 and half happy years with my love who lives over 9 hours away in another country. The main element in a long distance relationship is trust. It is gonna be hard i'd never say it isn't but think about the times you see him again.Treasure your time together and you will get through this
I am seeing mine in 44 days when he gets home from the army Yay!Advice on long distance relationships?
I am in a long distance relationship right now. I am in Minnesota and she lives in China. We met through the internet and have been communicating for some time. I am going to visit her for the first time next year. I believe when you have built a solid relationship that includes trust and honesty not much will get in the way of being apart from each other. If the relationship is meant to be you will find ways and means to see each other.
Long distance relationships don't work. Period.
Long distance relationships are difficult, not because people ';cheat';, but because you are both in different environments and you both change. This is a normal part of growing up. You will both meet new people and it is unrealistic to expect either of you not to go out for 4 years. You are not going to ';stay together'; because you will NOT be together. Since you are not married he cannot ';cheat'; on you per se, nor you him. Live your life and let happen what may happen. Of course it can last, but there can be no guarantee that he won't meet someone else or that you will not meet someone else.
rules for a Long Distance Relationship (LDR)
1. daily contact--phone, email, webcam, whatever. just have some sort of contact with each other on a daily basis.
2. clear ground rules for what your expectations with each other are while you are separated.
3. scheduled physical contact with each other during the separation. This one isn't about sex. It's about being in the same physical space and visiting and hanging out with each other. going on dates together, sharing a meal or watching a movie.
4. The Long Distance part of the relationship MUST be temporary (1 year, 2 years, 6 months, 5 years?). Have a specific set date when the long distance will end and the two of you will be in the same zip code again.
understand that change happens whether you want it to or not. The above rules don't guarantee that you or him won't meet someone else you'd rather be with or that the two of you won't grow apart anyway. They are just a guideline for how to have your relationship survive an extended time apart.
as in any relationship, both of you have to want the same things and have the same goals for your relationship to survive.
Good Luck.
We've decided we're going to stay together and keep on touch while he's gone.
He'll be about 2 1/2 to 3 hours away and will come home for holidays, but doesn't sound like he's going to visit home much otherwise.
I know he won't cheat on me, and I won't on him, but for the past year and a half that we've been together, he's lived in my neighborhood.
I think I'm going to have a hard time dealing with not seeing him, and I was wondering if you think it can last. I know I have the rest of this school year and the summer to spend with him, but I cannot stop thinking about it.
I'm really scared to see him leave and I was wondering if anyone had any advice?
We've been together a year and a half, and we have known each other for years. We're really close, and I know people say that people always find other girlfriends in college, but I don't think that will be much of a problem.Advice on long distance relationships?
Don't let anyone tell you whats right for you guys
But in my experience..which is 2 and half happy years with my love who lives over 9 hours away in another country. The main element in a long distance relationship is trust. It is gonna be hard i'd never say it isn't but think about the times you see him again.Treasure your time together and you will get through this
I am seeing mine in 44 days when he gets home from the army Yay!Advice on long distance relationships?
I am in a long distance relationship right now. I am in Minnesota and she lives in China. We met through the internet and have been communicating for some time. I am going to visit her for the first time next year. I believe when you have built a solid relationship that includes trust and honesty not much will get in the way of being apart from each other. If the relationship is meant to be you will find ways and means to see each other.
Long distance relationships don't work. Period.
Long distance relationships are difficult, not because people ';cheat';, but because you are both in different environments and you both change. This is a normal part of growing up. You will both meet new people and it is unrealistic to expect either of you not to go out for 4 years. You are not going to ';stay together'; because you will NOT be together. Since you are not married he cannot ';cheat'; on you per se, nor you him. Live your life and let happen what may happen. Of course it can last, but there can be no guarantee that he won't meet someone else or that you will not meet someone else.
rules for a Long Distance Relationship (LDR)
1. daily contact--phone, email, webcam, whatever. just have some sort of contact with each other on a daily basis.
2. clear ground rules for what your expectations with each other are while you are separated.
3. scheduled physical contact with each other during the separation. This one isn't about sex. It's about being in the same physical space and visiting and hanging out with each other. going on dates together, sharing a meal or watching a movie.
4. The Long Distance part of the relationship MUST be temporary (1 year, 2 years, 6 months, 5 years?). Have a specific set date when the long distance will end and the two of you will be in the same zip code again.
understand that change happens whether you want it to or not. The above rules don't guarantee that you or him won't meet someone else you'd rather be with or that the two of you won't grow apart anyway. They are just a guideline for how to have your relationship survive an extended time apart.
as in any relationship, both of you have to want the same things and have the same goals for your relationship to survive.
Good Luck.
Long distance relationship advice?
my boyfriend lives in a different state to me, but luckily it's on the same side of the country. i get to see him soon, but its in about 20 or so days. its getting really hard for both of us, but i love him so theres no way in hell im ending it.
does anyone have any ideas how we can survive the last few days, and the time after that?
my parents dont know yet, so he cant come stay or anything.....Long distance relationship advice?
being in the military, i've learned to do the long distance thing, as much as it sucks...
you gotta be realistic about it first of all... you can't expect too much and don't get your hopes up on your ';future'; with that person... just go with the flow. if it's meant to be, it'll happen.. with work of course, but that doesn't at all mean you have to force it.
contact every day, even if it's once a day really helps... webcam or phone where you can see each other or hear each other's voices. txts and emails in between are good too. (of course, in the military, that's not always possible)
it's also good for both of you to have something of each other or something meaningful to the relationship, or that simply reminds each of you of the other..
enjoy every second you have together and make the best of it always... try reeeeally hard not to fight, especially over the petty stuff, it's just not worth it. you want to have a good time so you have that to think about and the next visit to motivate you until the next one.
i think the biggest thing would be not to lose yourself and not to revolve your life around the calls and visits... keep busy between visits and focus on yourself. it helps time fly and it keeps you grounded, as well as satisfied with your life so that the other person is a bonus, and makes it better rather than BEING your life (and it being miserable when you're apart) it also makes it easier to let go once it's time, if that happens.Long distance relationship advice?
faith is everything and by the looks of it you have a lot of it. i just hope your boyfriend has the same. if you both love each other and keep in touch on the phone it will go well. you can also use this program skype.com which helps you talk to them and look at them at the same time. I been through a relationship like yours expect my girl was in Europe and it was much harder believe me. you have to trust and believe, and in time it will only get better.
My girlfriend's been in Hawaii over the holidays and we're both going CRAZY. We've been IMing for hours at a time every day but it's really not the same. I suggest that you both get a webcam. They're not expensive and you can download and use Skype for free video chat.
does anyone have any ideas how we can survive the last few days, and the time after that?
my parents dont know yet, so he cant come stay or anything.....Long distance relationship advice?
being in the military, i've learned to do the long distance thing, as much as it sucks...
you gotta be realistic about it first of all... you can't expect too much and don't get your hopes up on your ';future'; with that person... just go with the flow. if it's meant to be, it'll happen.. with work of course, but that doesn't at all mean you have to force it.
contact every day, even if it's once a day really helps... webcam or phone where you can see each other or hear each other's voices. txts and emails in between are good too. (of course, in the military, that's not always possible)
it's also good for both of you to have something of each other or something meaningful to the relationship, or that simply reminds each of you of the other..
enjoy every second you have together and make the best of it always... try reeeeally hard not to fight, especially over the petty stuff, it's just not worth it. you want to have a good time so you have that to think about and the next visit to motivate you until the next one.
i think the biggest thing would be not to lose yourself and not to revolve your life around the calls and visits... keep busy between visits and focus on yourself. it helps time fly and it keeps you grounded, as well as satisfied with your life so that the other person is a bonus, and makes it better rather than BEING your life (and it being miserable when you're apart) it also makes it easier to let go once it's time, if that happens.Long distance relationship advice?
faith is everything and by the looks of it you have a lot of it. i just hope your boyfriend has the same. if you both love each other and keep in touch on the phone it will go well. you can also use this program skype.com which helps you talk to them and look at them at the same time. I been through a relationship like yours expect my girl was in Europe and it was much harder believe me. you have to trust and believe, and in time it will only get better.
My girlfriend's been in Hawaii over the holidays and we're both going CRAZY. We've been IMing for hours at a time every day but it's really not the same. I suggest that you both get a webcam. They're not expensive and you can download and use Skype for free video chat.
Long distance relationship advice?
What is your opinion of trying to keep a long distance relationship with a boyfriend when we are at colleges a little over an hour away from each other?
We are currently at the same university, but I'm considering nursing, which would require me to transfer to a campus about an hour and twenty minutes away. We will both be juniors next year (when I would transfer).
My concern is that the distance would put quite a bit of stress on our relationship just from being apart and trying to see each other as often as possible. I'm not worried about unfaithfulness or anything.
Anyone who has tried something like this, do you have any advice?
We live six hours apart during the summer, and have already done the long distance thing during then.Long distance relationship advice?
well if yall already done the long distance before..then an hour and half away is nothin compared to 6 hrs. Long distance relationships are based on commitment trust and communication (huge part) those are the type of risk u have to take in the relationship because u never know it might not be as scary as u think. Alot of ppl might say hell no..its not gonna work..but theres many ppl that have long distance and its worked out for the best. The best thing yall can do is talk about how often yall can see each other..maybe every weekend. At my school alot of girls would spend every weekend or other weekend wit their bf or vice versaLong distance relationship advice?
I woulkd say an hour is doable, especially if you've done the 6 hour thing.
Plus you're a nurse, that's alaways hot for a guy, so he'll try harder :)eye makeup remover body cream
We are currently at the same university, but I'm considering nursing, which would require me to transfer to a campus about an hour and twenty minutes away. We will both be juniors next year (when I would transfer).
My concern is that the distance would put quite a bit of stress on our relationship just from being apart and trying to see each other as often as possible. I'm not worried about unfaithfulness or anything.
Anyone who has tried something like this, do you have any advice?
We live six hours apart during the summer, and have already done the long distance thing during then.Long distance relationship advice?
well if yall already done the long distance before..then an hour and half away is nothin compared to 6 hrs. Long distance relationships are based on commitment trust and communication (huge part) those are the type of risk u have to take in the relationship because u never know it might not be as scary as u think. Alot of ppl might say hell no..its not gonna work..but theres many ppl that have long distance and its worked out for the best. The best thing yall can do is talk about how often yall can see each other..maybe every weekend. At my school alot of girls would spend every weekend or other weekend wit their bf or vice versaLong distance relationship advice?
I woulkd say an hour is doable, especially if you've done the 6 hour thing.
Plus you're a nurse, that's alaways hot for a guy, so he'll try harder :)
Long distance relationship advice ?
well the thing is me and my bf have been togather about 8 months now
and its a long distance relationship.
we see each other as often as we can and we are always talking on the phone.
i love him soo much i cant describe how much he means to me when im with him he just makes me feel amazing and no one has ever done that before,but when he is away and i cant be with him it hurts soo much
do you think it is worth it?Long distance relationship advice ?
From personal experience:
I used to have a long-distance boyfriend (he used to go to school with me, then he moved)
but it was hard because I didn't get to see him often and I later realized that I was missing out on some great guys that I see everyday, because I was with him!
Hope that helped!Long distance relationship advice ?
stay with him. if you've been able to see each other despite the long distance then stay together. look at the pro's, you guys won't get sick of each other easily because your not with each other every second of the day. if you love him alot and he makes you feel like a princess then stay with him! you've got yourself a good catch.
if you think it's going somewhere.
then yes.
and its a long distance relationship.
we see each other as often as we can and we are always talking on the phone.
i love him soo much i cant describe how much he means to me when im with him he just makes me feel amazing and no one has ever done that before,but when he is away and i cant be with him it hurts soo much
do you think it is worth it?Long distance relationship advice ?
From personal experience:
I used to have a long-distance boyfriend (he used to go to school with me, then he moved)
but it was hard because I didn't get to see him often and I later realized that I was missing out on some great guys that I see everyday, because I was with him!
Hope that helped!Long distance relationship advice ?
stay with him. if you've been able to see each other despite the long distance then stay together. look at the pro's, you guys won't get sick of each other easily because your not with each other every second of the day. if you love him alot and he makes you feel like a princess then stay with him! you've got yourself a good catch.
if you think it's going somewhere.
then yes.
Long distance relationship advice?
Recently this girl I am talking to are considering a relationship. She lives like across the country, but she's scared of long distance relationships. She said she needs to sort things out and everything, and what I want to know is that if things ever work out, is it possible that we can work on the relationship without seeing each other in person? My parents are extremely over protective and would be tripping balls if they knew I was going for a girl this far. Thats why I plan on college in Miami or Rhode Island, she lives in Jersey. I just want to know what you thinkLong distance relationship advice?
hmm well im in a long distance realtionship,hes across the world .. and let me tell you i miss him alot, its sometimes hard you might feel alone but the thing is if you really like her you will stay with her you know, i mean it can work out if you guys plan everything and when you guys actually see each other it will be more special, itll be cute!! i mean you can give it a try, goodluck!! i wish yu the best =)Long distance relationship advice?
I've been in one. It was only two hours but it worked. lasted a year
just use skype a lot, have phone dates.
my friend lives like, four states away and they'd watch the same movie (they'd rent it) and watch it together over the phone etc
just be creative and make sure you both care about each other. %26lt;3
long distance can work out very nicely. it gives you two space and makes your trust strong. but, a long distance relationship where you don't ever see eachother is a little sketchy. maybe you could consider dating once you get into a college closer. but until then just wait it out. maybe something better will come along.
when you say recently i am assuming that this has been less than six months, get to know her more first because right now she is scared and even though you would be moving closer there is your parents and would you want to make a big move for a girl you just recently met.
long distance relationships are kinda hard. you think now that it'll work out but eventually you'll get sick of being with someone you never see and will want a gf you can do stuff with. i say you try to move on. thats what i did.
Long distance relationships only work if you see one another all the time. It's not going to work if you dont see one another or she has over protective parents.
eventually one of u will have to move closer to each other because long distance relationships only work for so long
long distance relationships never workk outt
bow and say goodbye
hmm well im in a long distance realtionship,hes across the world .. and let me tell you i miss him alot, its sometimes hard you might feel alone but the thing is if you really like her you will stay with her you know, i mean it can work out if you guys plan everything and when you guys actually see each other it will be more special, itll be cute!! i mean you can give it a try, goodluck!! i wish yu the best =)Long distance relationship advice?
I've been in one. It was only two hours but it worked. lasted a year
just use skype a lot, have phone dates.
my friend lives like, four states away and they'd watch the same movie (they'd rent it) and watch it together over the phone etc
just be creative and make sure you both care about each other. %26lt;3
long distance can work out very nicely. it gives you two space and makes your trust strong. but, a long distance relationship where you don't ever see eachother is a little sketchy. maybe you could consider dating once you get into a college closer. but until then just wait it out. maybe something better will come along.
when you say recently i am assuming that this has been less than six months, get to know her more first because right now she is scared and even though you would be moving closer there is your parents and would you want to make a big move for a girl you just recently met.
long distance relationships are kinda hard. you think now that it'll work out but eventually you'll get sick of being with someone you never see and will want a gf you can do stuff with. i say you try to move on. thats what i did.
Long distance relationships only work if you see one another all the time. It's not going to work if you dont see one another or she has over protective parents.
eventually one of u will have to move closer to each other because long distance relationships only work for so long
long distance relationships never workk outt
bow and say goodbye
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