Nedd advice on a long distance relationship?

I have known this man for 7 yrs now he lives in another country.


he claimed to love me and wanted to marry me%26gt; but like two weeks ago he just quit writing me after we had a chat session%26gt; after i told him i would not help him with geting a visa to the usa and i would not ask my family to help with this.


then he wrote to me again and somehow he had found a post where i had asked a question on yahoo. if anyone knew him%26gt; and he seen it and sent it to me.he then told me that was not his real name%26gt; he said think god you didnt know my real name.


i have tryed contacting him to just see if he would answer back


and he hasnt so for%26gt; i feel he has made a fool out of me after seven yrs%26gt; he has done this before and showed back up. and dum me let him by with it.i feel angery and hurt but%26gt; i feel like geting even with him%26gt; any advice would do on this please help?Nedd advice on a long distance relationship?
Many men from poor developing countries are anxious to get away from the poverty back home.





Consequently, they get online and find a girl that's anxious to find a man. They pretend to fall in love and say sweet stuff to her.





She grins from ear to ear. Never has anyone treated her with such amazing kindness!





Then they promise to marry her. And treat her like a woman deserves to be treated . . . like a queen.





She's ecstatic!





Once they have won her confidence, they begin to make demands.





One of the demands they will make is that she should get them a visa to the U.S. or the country of her residence so they can get married.





Once she does that and they get to the U.S., they disappear.





You're lucky to have decided not participate in the marriage fraud attempt by this guy.





Should you hurt him?





Sounds like a good idea on the outside. But in the long run, you will be hurting yourself because you will end up spending valuable time on scheming his demise.





That won't make you eternally happy.





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I am sorry to say it but long distance relationship usually dont work i know 1st hand. its tough but you have to let go.
Long distant relationships never work out. You never know what or who they are doing. Find someone local.
After seven years, you don't know his real name? x_X





I've heard of another incident where a woman left a man simply 'cause he wouldn't help her get a visa into the USA. =/





Getting even at him, won't do anything helpful. You might as well ask him if there's anything you can do to help him besides getting the visa. You must have a good reason to not help this man, right? Even if he said he wanted to marry you.
I'd leave it alone, and find someone new. LDR's are hard enough without there being ill-will on either side, especially if they have continued for 7 years.





Sounds like he was using you for a visa.





Find someone who wants you for you.