Can long distance relationships work? i'm in a situation where i don't know if i want to go for it. advice ?

my best friend introduced me to one of her closest cousins a few months ago. since then, he and i have clicked. we talk about life, love, relationships, anything to make the conversation going. he even wrote a love song for me, which is a first timer for him because he has never wrote a love song for anyone, even his exes. it was mostly based on breakups. even my best friend told me he's telling the truth because they talked about it a few times. i received a msg from him, asying that he wants to ask me an important question that he hopes would make both of us happy. some i asked have said he may ask me out, but the thing is, he lives about 300 miles from me, though we live in the same state. i want to go for it, but i'm scared of the outcome, knowing that i have fallen for him already. any advice? i can surely need it at this point.Can long distance relationships work? i'm in a situation where i don't know if i want to go for it. advice ?
They can work, but they are really really hard. You both need to put 100% in it and fully realize that you need to trust each other. It is easy the first few months, but you wil lsee everyone around you with there partners and everything will remind you of him. It is going to make you bitter, mad, and jealous. The times you have together will be sweet, but going your seperate ways will be twice as hard.





If you love him and he loves you, then go for it. make it work for you.Can long distance relationships work? i'm in a situation where i don't know if i want to go for it. advice ?
on;y way it can work is if you both have the resources to travel back and forth to see each other. without the ability to do that,your visits tend to be rare and that does not make for a good relationship. in order to have a healthy relationship you need to know each other in person
If you are younger than 16 I would just keep this guy as a conversational friend and not try to persue any other kind of relationship. Long distance is hard enough on people with jobs and driver's licenses - and even then they usually don't work out. If you and this guy really have a connection, just stay in touch and wait - you never know what conditions may change. Tying yourself down to someone who is far away can severely mess up your social life, and may cause you to miss out on things you will regret missing later on.
鈾?I think that if you both want it to work then it can. I was in a long distance relationship with my fiace before I moved a state away to be with her. It was hard, especially when I was upset or something happened in my family... but we got through it. She visited me as often as she possibly could and we burned up our cell phone %26amp; txt messaging bills, etc. You both have to sit down %26amp; decide which risks you are both willing to take... it can work but only if ya'll want it to. Good Luck!
honestly hun, follow your heart,





it does not matter what is right or what is wrong ok all you remember is





what would happen if you never followed your heart would you regret it!!!! i think you would
well i think it depends on how many times you see or talk to each other. well in my opinion don't do it.
Ok -- I'll be honest, my boyfriend %26amp; I have been together for 5 monthes now, and we live 35minutes away from one another - even then it's hard to see each other w| school, and work.. We've managed right now, but sometimes we go all wk without seeing one another. Sooo....going 300 miles would be a lot!








GOOD LUCK!~
yea
give it a shot and if it doesnt work ........


well at least you'll know.
It only works if the time apart is for a short while. If there is not a serious discussion relatively soon as to who will move (either you to him, or him to you), then let it go. Others will tell you different, and I am sure there are some rare stories of prolonged seperations where everything ends up ';magical'; in the end - But that is very rare.





Also, it depends on your age, both chronologically and your true mental age. If you are real young -let it go. Either way, it will all work out in the end -one way or another. Good luck.
They can definately work out as long as both of you put everything into it. I was in a long distance relationship for a long time and she ended up moving in with me and now we are engaged set to be married next year. There just needs to be 100% from both of you and everything will work out fine. And, move closer to each other soon, Don't make it long distance forever.
first know if both of you are in the right age and fully understand what love is, for the outcome still rely on both of your understanding's, neither do i'am in your kind a situation, what we do is we always keep in touch through what ever gadgets we have and trust... though its hard, we always come up to a way where we can set a schedule for us to meet in a place, doesn't matter weather i go to a country where she was or the place where i am...
honestly NO i dont think so because you neva know what that person is doing and being honest with u
my cousin has been dating a guy 2yrs long distance. She is in new york and he is in maryland. Things are great she says u get 2 know each other on a different level, and u get more creative. U never knoww till u try.
yes they can work. My sister has been in college in Kentucky for 4 years, while her fiance has been here in missouri. And they are going to get married when she graduates this summer. Its stressful, but you can do it. It takes ALOT of hard work, trust, commitment, patience, and a million other things. It wont be easy, but if you love this guy, and think your meant for eachother, then go for it! Everything happens for a reason, and whether positive or negative things have a way of working themselves out for the better in the long run. Good luck!