Wednesday, April 28, 2010

I need advice on long distance relationship?

i had a boyfriend then started to see this other guy. i didnt cheat on my boyfriend but when i called it off with him me and this other guy realised that we really liked each other, like serioulsy. but he was going travelling for a year. so i held off telling him how strongly i felt coz it would have been too tough to deal with when he left. so i wrote him a letter explaining that he replied to telling me he felt exatly the same and had never loved anyone so much.





ok so hes on the other side of the world for an unknown amount of time, i do love him but how do we keep a relationship going that never really started in the first place, we were together as a couple for like 2 weeks if that. although we spent time together before. we both want it and want to be together when he gets back but how do you do it???I need advice on long distance relationship?
well im currently in a long distance relationship. we made it work we talk every night on the phone and are completely honest with each other about everything. once i kissed my ex and i felt so bad i had to tell him. believe me he wasnt happy but we got through it. we see each other every summer well he drives up and yeah we just get by. we have been together for 2 years and still live about 300 miles awayI need advice on long distance relationship?
Mostly you don't do it. You do not have any form of relationship at all apart from in your mind. As the guy was leaving the country he could safely say whatever he liked. 12 months or more apart when you have never been together (if that makes sense) is just unsustainable. He will meet lots of girls in his travels and i have never met a guy yet who was celibate when travelling.

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