What do you think of long distance relationship? any advice?

I will be transferred to my office in another country for at least 3 yrs. While I have a boyfren here in s'pore whom i've bn with for almost 4yrs now.most ppl say tt long distance relationship is nt healthy, we wont last long n eventually break up.i really dunno what to do nw.as for him he seems ok with it.i need to give my boss an ans by monday 11/02/08.pls help me ppl.What do you think of long distance relationship? any advice?
It is all going to come down to the strength of your love . If you two are really and truly in love , you will make it work . It will be very hard , I can promise you that , and 3 years is a really long time ..For some it's works and others it does not . Good luck to you and I hope you make the right decision ..What do you think of long distance relationship? any advice?
Usually it doesnt workout becuz usually that person will end up being with someone else becuz yrs is a long time. U can have like a picture chat where u can see eachother and talk to eachother by that way.. but i dont know how well the long distance relationship is gonna work..








Good luck though!
I don't believe in them. Why doesn't he move with you or you stay here for him? Because you are not ready to commit. It's not going to last.
Relationships need a physical aspect involved. A long distance relationship might work for the time being, but in the long-run if you are not close; the relationship will end.
drop long distance, go for the BOSS
you can try it but i'll tell you now that you will both be curious of other people while your away from each other. unless you are the most loyal person on the planet and you borfriend is the second most loyal person, it probably wont work. and if he says he didnt cheat on while you were away, he might be right and i dont know if he really will but you should be able to tell if he's lieing or not. good luck with you boyfriend and your job.
I don't why people keep putting in their minds that long distance relationship can't work. A lot of people have their minds set that way and don't leave any space to be open to something new. I would not advise you to give up your relationship just because of time and distance, for time goes by faster than you may think, and you might really lose a love you will not find anywhere else. This is what I believe: If you really love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together, distance can't be a problem. It all depends on whether your relashionship has a solid basis. You need to might an efficient way to communicate and plan times to meet during the year.
IF you have a choice to not go, don't go. If you have to go Can your boyfriend come with ya? Have a discussion with your boyfriend does he want to marry you someday. If so, he will wait for ya. But, don't be suprised if some other girl comes along and might sweep him off his feet. Cuz when you are apart that long, you get lonely and wonder if the other person still feels the same way. IF a girl is there pursuing him and you are not, there is a chance it might throw a crowbar in to your relationship. Longdistance relationships can work but are hard. are you going to visit often, talk everyday on the phone?
yes they do work out if both of you work to maintain your relationship!!if you share true and deep feelings then being apart will be difficult but the relationship will survive - talk together and really commit to making it through, have him visit you and talk all the time,





i have been away from my guy over a year...we visit lots but our relationship is very strong and committed...it feels like he is always here with me :o) we will be married in april so we have made it and are very happy...its all about believing in what you share and wanting to make it work and overcome all obstacles...





take the job and look forward to an exiting oppertunity! good luck!
The main thing you need to have in a long distance relationship is trust. If you and your partner trust eachother completely, and maybe even moreso, you trust yourselves, things should be ok. But moving to another country? That probably means that there will be little chance to see each other? Thats going to be the tough part...





Either way, good luck!


~BB~
yea they work but it depends on u guys because if u guys ';love'; each other it wont end with a ';brack up'; though u should mabe try to visit him so he dosnt feal lonely but i kinda 50-50 belive in long distance relationships
Long distance relationships don't work in the long run
ahh go with what makes you happy


if that job makes you happy go..


dont wait around for a guy or put your


dreams on hold for a guy .. if it meant to be


it will happen.. there no rush if you do leave and


you break up you will find a guy when the time


is right .. %26lt;3 best of luck
if you can keep your job here, I would suggest you stayed. I've been in a few long distance relationships.


The shortest one lasted was one day.


The longest is 8 or 9 months. Can't remember.


But yeah, long distances usually turn bad at some point. Not always though.


Decide whats more important. The transfer or your boyfriend.
truthfully I've been in one it isn't really a good idea unless you can trust that person enough to do it.