Is she cheating on me? I need advice...(long distance relationship)?

We have been together for about a year...and we see each other every other weekend. I love her more then i have anyone else and she says she loves me...but lately things sem wierd...she goes out a lot with her friends, which is cool, but there is one guy that i dont trust. She says shes known him forever, but the disturbing part is she told me he admitted to being in love with her...and the odd time they go places together like for drives to take pics and that, just him and her...which bugs me...but most of the time its a group thing. What bugs me the most is when she does go out she insists that i do NOT call or text her, to wait till I hear from her...and even the odd time i text her just to say ';i love you'; she either doesnt reply at all, or responds back with a snappy ';ok i told you to wait to hear from me!....'; which bothers me...also when i spend tme with any of my girl ';friends';. she gets sulky and says ';i bet you slept with them.'; My friends think im being played..anyone agree?Is she cheating on me? I need advice...(long distance relationship)?
well there could be some indication there


but botton line we dont know





and if u ask her she will never admit it to you





so next time she is out with him


call her, dont be afraid to call her she s ur girl


u can call her anytime





so call her


and if she doesnt pick up


confront her about it





if she catches an attitude


u stop her on her tracks and tell her


listen, i was thinking about u and i decided to call cuz i wanted to hear ur beautiful voice





now if she is still angry after that


then u need to talk to her in person


and get this issue resolve and tell her how u feel insideIs she cheating on me? I need advice...(long distance relationship)?
ABSOLUTELY!
Damn straight you're being played....time to find yourself an honest woman who appreciates the nice 'i love you' texts and preferably someone that you can see more often than every other weekend....how do you know this chick isn't married?
im going to have to agree with the friends
If she doesn't have the patience to tell you what's going on between she and her friend, then you should probably move on.There are soooooooooo many nice girls out there.
The perks of being in an ';LDR'; is that you have the freedom to go do things without having to report to your significant other. However, if she's taking that to an extreme, it sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. There is obviously a lack of trust on your relationship, and do you want to be with someone who doesn't trust you, or that you don't trust? No. You may love her, but you can move on. You deserve better.
Sorry to say but i do so agree! She is playing you, be honest with her and if she doesn't tell you exactly then you'll know! Talk to her, shame and you seem like a nice guy! Good luck!
Dude, you need to pull your pants on, it sounds like she is making all the rules and calling all the shots. Don't call or don't text until you hear from me? I tell you what, you need to send her a text message next time that says, ';This is your Ex-boyfriend and I am just texting you while you are out screwing your other boyfriend to tell you to drop dead. Don't text me or call me until You hear from me, which will be close to NEVER!'; Man your friends are right, you are being played bigger than life. Send her a pic of you with your new girlfriend... DUMP Her!
Some girls like to be universal. Their sentiments, love and care is shared to all. Due to their such kind of character, we get depressed some time. Just tell her that ';Love all but give heart to one, Give cheek to all but lips to one';.
Here is my advice tell the girl that you want to trust her but her relationship with this guy is making it hard for you to do so. If she doesnt want to give up her life stlye its more important than staying with you.





You dont sound very happy , move on man she is playing you
i think the guy is trying to get on your nerves and he wants to get rid of you so he could have your girlfriend.
If you had to bet a million bucks on whether she's cheating or not how would you bet???





You see... you know the answer and you just wanted to hear it from someone else.
What do you think? Make up your own mind about your relationship.
Guy, if she really loves you she would always long to be with you not the other guy. Yes she is cheating on you, one would not be in love with you and at the sametime entertain other guys and restrict you from calling or texting when she goes out on the group thing. Wake up man, she is not yours, look for someone who will have all the time for you. By being sulky when you are with one of your girlfriends, she is try to protect herself from her own actions, you are being played, try ignoring her slowly and see how she will react.
I tend to agree with your friends.... However, the question is do you want a long time possible life time relationship with some one that treats you like that.... I sure wouldn't!!!
Long distance relationships are very difficult, especially without clear boundaries, and most importantly trust.


If she has admitted to you that this friend of hers has feelings for her, then she is open and honest with you...give her the benefit of the doubt, if she wanted to be with him then she would have broken it off with you and started a relationship with him.


As far as her not wanting you to call her while she is out, this might be because she probably doesn't want to seem as though she has a really ';jealous'; boyfriend...but this is something you might want to ask her upfront...tell her to mention exactly why she doesn't want you to call/write.


Honestly, first of all, you need to think about where exactly this relationship is going/your plans with her...it is obvious that you are jealous, and that she is as well...once you are clear about what you need and what you want, also think about what you can change to make her more comfortable and secure in the relationship...then talk to her about all of this.


If the two of you are serious about being together, then you need to set up certain boundaries...and they should be realistic expectations, each of the two of you need to understand, and respect what the other needs.


Also, you need to trust her when she says or does something, unless you have solid proof that she is cheating...without being honest and open with each other it is not going to last. All of these doubts and worries that you are having, are totally out of fear of losing her, and you need to let her know that.
Okay she is trying to make up her mind that whether she wants to be with you or not. You really love her and i would suggest that you should not call her up or message her. Be Cool and you'll see the difference. She is taking you for granted now which happnes in a relationship when one shows lot of care and love for other person. So BE COOL and keep yourself busy with other work. Don't pick up her calls for the first time she calling and let her wait and feel that she is missing something important in her life. But do call her at the time she is available.
Wake up she is playing you like a fiddle
Sorry to break it to you... but yhea she's cheating... and her snide remarks to you regarding your ';girl friends';... it's her on the defense. When someone is guilty they assume that everyone else is doing what they're doing and make you feel guilty instead. I would confront both him and her about how you feel and take it from there.
Agree. If you have to question your trust for her, its the first sign that the relationship is headed for disaster... I recomend to step back, look at whats important to you... Long distance relationships are hard, and she isn't trying as hard as you are... Sometimes we have to be selfsih with our hearts and feelings. I can't tell you to break up with her... But I will say that it doesn't look good. And that if you let her go, and let yourself mend the wound, the sooner you'll meet the loving woman you are meant to have... (now this woman could be someone completely different or it could be this girl you love now, but just down the road when she grows up a bit, and when she really knows what she wants....) Life is full of turns that we never see coming!
sorry but it does kinda sound like you are being played
i think so mate. or maybe theres some thing else wrong with her? he only way to know is to ask her, thats the only way you;re going to get a straight answer. you have to trust each other in a relationship and obviously she doesnt trust you. if you;re gut says tht theres something dodgy going on, there probably is... good luck
You're getting Burned Pal!#$%^
trust your instincts. your relationship stinks.
U are definitely being played .. and you already know this... the question is .. are you gonna 'man up' ..?





kick her into touch... or shut up and take it like a man ..








Dr Bad
wake up you are being played
yup sounds like it to me!
Love is a many splendorous thing, you can give to her until you cannot give any more taking into consideration that you in the way you do it she may take your liberty for granted,as a gentleman ,you must know when to yank the leash especially with the competition,if it makes you uneasy do what protects you and your standing with her.No playing games,she has to show a better form of respect for you or she will run you over and you will feel taken for a ride ,stand your ground.good luck
You are just her spare tyre!