Friday, January 8, 2010

Im in long distance relationship... need advice, please?

its always been long distance relationship since im in marines, and we usually have a lot to talk about, but lately it seems like we both are having a hard time finding conversation topics. in that event, i usually start telling her how much i miss her and all that, but those get old quick too.


any advice on how to start other conversations? she doesn't like talking about my days and stuff, cause she doesn't like that im in Marines. maybe some fun questions to ask, or sweet comments that she will like? any advice on how to keep the fire going, thanks so much.Im in long distance relationship... need advice, please?
The old I miss you, I love you does get rather boring after a while.





You obviously need a few good topics to discuss, so try and watch the same movies/tv programs and then phone each other after wards and discuss it.





You can get the same book and read it. It's not necessary to read it too each other over the phone, but go for it, if you like that. I just suggest you read it and then discuss what you liked/disliked about the book.





If you like stargazing, you can of course both get binoculars/telescopes and a good starguide and then try and find the same constellations. I'll admit I've never tried it before, but it's nice knowing that no matter how far apart you are, you're actually watching the same exact stars.





Discussing your next get-together is also a good topic. Decide when exactly it will be, where you will be going to, what you will be doing, etc.





Also, send her a few surprise packages from time to time, and maybe put a handwritten note inside it. That will surely lead to some conversation.Im in long distance relationship... need advice, please?
one way to converse is to share. think of, for example, holidays that you spent as a kid, what is your earliest memory, what foods? what toys? what silly or unusual things occurred? or eg: grade school experiences or books that you read or people that influenced you. memories of a special friend or family member or a special trip or the worst trip or about a pet, etc. how do you see yourself in the future as a dad and what would you be doing with your kids or what special moment have you always dreamed of. what special creative talents or athletic talents or what do you want to learn to do and why?


write down a list of memories by using 'one word' to recall the memory. you can ask her to do that too. you will have tons to talk about. pick a book and read to each other or listen to music together. you'll be alright. pick one topic for each time you speak together. good luck and peace
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