Friday, January 8, 2010

If theres still a chance, I WANT IT! Advice?? (dont tell me long distance relationships never work, IDC!) HELP

Theres a guy I met over the internet. We talked for a few months and started going out, I LOVE HIM TO DEATH! But. a few weeks ago we got in a fight and broke up. Sometime later he asked to get back together and we did. 2 minutes later he breaks it off and that HURT! After he called me some names he left. After a while I tried to be friends at least, and I acted cheerful. But then he said he didnt want to talk to me for 3 months. I was sad at first but he got mad so I acted happy. He got sad then, so we said goodbye. Later we talk again and he ends up calling me names AGAIN. (He still makes a point that he loves me on his myspace/quizilla) He told me it was my fault. Again later we talked and he said it wasnt my fault. After a long while he said it was my fault because I was too down on myself. I have a rough past and he knew I couldnt handle a relationship but he said he could handle it. I trusted him. Now we havnt talked for a few weeks. Whats going on? Should I TRY and move on? How??If theres still a chance, I WANT IT! Advice?? (dont tell me long distance relationships never work, IDC!) HELP
WOW.... Too many games... You need your sanity back. You need a good guy. Move on.If theres still a chance, I WANT IT! Advice?? (dont tell me long distance relationships never work, IDC!) HELP
I have been in several LDRs over the past few years, and I am currently in one which I believe will be my last. I can tell you that they can work, but it takes effort on both sides to make them work. This guy you are interested in is not worth the effort. From what you say he does not know what he wants and does not seem to be capable of putting in the effort to make a LDR work. So forget him and move on. There are alot more guys out there who are willing to put in the effort to make things work. You just have to seem on looking till you find some one that is sane. Just give it time you will find the right guy for you.
Sorry, but this guy seems like a real jerk. How can he love you if he purposely hurts you so much? It looks like he's just messing wth you. Actions are louder than words; just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he really does. Anyway, in the slim chance that he's just extraordinarily confused and making tons of mistakes rather than doing everything on purpose as a jerk... Well, then he has things he has to work out anyway; you don't want to be in a relationship with that sort of guy.





This guy just keeps hurting you, so it's best to forget about it. He's not worth all the pain he's put you through. If he comes back, tell him that you're sorry, but that you can't put up with all the pain he's put you through anymore.





Also, try keeping yourself busy for a while so that you forget about him. Spend more time with your other friends. In time, you'll heal.

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