I was in a long distance relationship for a long time, and I found that i treasured the time we had together much more. Try not calling everyday, but at least 3-4 times a week. There's not much to say and it's frustrating and odd to try and have a conversation when all you did was class, made dinner, watched tv, etc.. Meeting once every two months is quite difficult. I only had to deal with once a month for about 5 months. Try sending her a letter and ask her to write back. Things like that show that you care much more then just calling or sending an e-mail.
GregAny advice on long distance relationship?
I HAD A BOYFREIND WHO LIVES IN NEW YORK AND I LIVE IN WASHINGTON AND IT WORK OUT FOR A WHILE AFTER THAT HE WAS JELOUS ABOUT EVERYTHING BUT ANYWAYS GOOD LUCK FIGHT FOR HER TILL THE LAST MOMENT IF YOU DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER
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If there is anything lacking in a long distance relationship , it is the prescence and availability of the person involved. How can you say you love her, if you are not there for her?
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from my own experience I can tell you that without a long term commitment there is really no incentive to invest anyones time into a long-distance relationship.
so whats the question?, DO you love her? can you live without her in your life?, is she seeing andybody? if she is the girl of your life then try to make it work, but it sounds like your doing the caring since you asked for advice, so maybe she's just losing interest
';If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, its meant to be.'; Break up. If you are really meant to be together see where things are after grad school. It will make your relationship better later on if you do get back together anyway. Good luck!
i am in or was in the same relationship with a guy . And i kept traveling. every two week's. thinking he really loved me. But the more he stayed where he was at,the more closer he grew to other people. And I guess what i am trying to say. Is they still love you, but it hurts the most to see you go. And they won't tell you to come stay where-ever, they are. So it maker's them more happy, to be with the people they meet. Because these are the people they see everyday. But some-time's you have to let it go. And if they return i guess it was meant to be. and also if this is what you want, you have to sacrifice, and pray. Because there isn't anything to hard for God.
They dont always work i would say 1out of 12 work i had one its way hard and you never know what shes doing
I would have to say I am sorry you two are not going to do well on that you are losing the fellings that you used to have and well you have to move on cause you have got to do the thing and tell her that it wouldn't help if you call each other every minute but well if you really loved each other you would have felt some thing and that is not well then my good friend you are lossing her and she has already lost you
I would say seperate for know and if you two cant live without each other, than everything will fall into place.
Appreciate wat u hav now
sounds like some of those needs have been fulfilled elsewhere...guilt can really affect your love-life...
My husband and I live in different countries. It is trying and stressful but if you care for each other, it can work. It sounds, in your case, as though the fire is burning out- you may need to let nature run its course and allow the relationship to end or try to figure out a way to keep it going...
Long distance relationshipscan be difficult, and interest can fissle. Try to communicate more via e-mail or telephone. Find a way to stay close. Is it possible to relocate?
though miles may lay between you 2, youre never far apart, for love doesnt count the miles, its measured by the heart`
Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be
Contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they dont see it nearly enough..
I wish you 2 the best of luck...
Time to pony up. Is this serious and forever, or not really the one. If it is The One, you have to move. If it isn't, move on. It is one thing to go off to whatever college your High School sweetheart goes to, it is another thing entirely to pass on The One, because she went off to some other college. No relationship is easy, even with The One, but, if she is it, it is worth it.
Long distance relationships DON'T work. Trust me on this one. Atleast you two are still friends. Eventually the every two months meetings will grow to 3 or 4 or 5 months and eventually will stop all together. Unfortunately, that's the way it is.
Good luck.
You said it .....no intimacy and lost intrest! It's over big guy....later
just break it off, itrs not gunna work.
if u lost interrest find sum1 else. u don't need to be have a girlfrind a different state, shes not there and u need to find a true love who lives near you
why do it then? Either you don't like each other anymore or you've both gone gay!
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