I need advice...(long-distance relationship)?

i need help. i am currently in love with a guy who lives thousands of miles away from me, but the thing is, i don't even know if we are going out. it's so crazy because i can't go a day without thinking of him. i keep telling myself that i'm already taken by an amazing guy, but i'm not even sure if we are together or not. i can't have crushes on other guys because i love HIM too much. i haven't seen him since the summer of 2007, but i'm seeing him this summer and i need advice on what to say to him because i am so confused about our relationship. he probably doesn't even love me, and i've been worrying about him all the time without even thinking about the consequences. and the thing is, whenever we're together...it's, i don't know. i think we connect on so many levels. but it's difficult because i'm so quiet and shy around him, and he complains about that. he says stuff like, ';why don't you ever talk? you can never strike a conversation up with me'; and it's so frustrating to him, you know. so, yeah. i need advice on how to open up a little bit more once i see him again, and how i could inform him about my confused feelings with our relationship.I need advice...(long-distance relationship)?
He is your friend and the relationship isn't going any further,so find someone locally and forget him.