Ok I met this guy online and we met for the first time this weekend. There was no awkwardness when we met for the first time at the airport or anytime during which he was here. In fact, I felt like I had known him all my life and it was really nice to be around him. Anyway, so today we were talking and he wants me to transfer to a college up north so we can be closer together. Only problem is it will be freezing up there and I hate cold weather, oh and my tuition will be 3 times what it is now. He said if I don't do that he will do his best to transfer to a university down here. What should I do, transfer to a school up there or let him come down here?Long Distance/Online Relationship advice?
well me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and we have been going out for 2yrs and 4 months now and I tried living where he lived but it didnt work out so I came back home in my opinion its extremely hard to keep up w relationships like the one Im in but if u feel like u connect then go for it but think about things like getting a job over there cuz thats what Im doing right now so I can go and live w him now but its toughLong Distance/Online Relationship advice?
If it is easier for him to transfer to where you are, than it is for you to transfer to him, then i think you should let him go to your area....
IF he really likes you then he should respect your decision and he should come down to you.
let him come down there but heads up, it rarely works out. good luck.
it's better to let him to come to your place.
Explain to him about the cost - dont mention about the weather as hell feel that you cant be bothered - if the weathers too much trouble.....
Dont say either about liking your school as it shows you prefer yourt school to him.
Expplain about substantial reasons, cost, family support, He shouold move nearer to you if anything. But why not leave it for a while, youve only met once. leave it a year or so and grow a strong foundation to your relationship. Who knows, you may transfer to a school together if thats possible.
Let him transfer to your place.
Dont chase boy, let him chase you :D
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