I need advice, long distance relationship...?

I started a relationship with this guy, he moved to california. I really do love him, and he tells me he really does love me...





however, due to circumstances too weird to explain we cant see each other as often as we would like.. last time i saw him was about a month ago..





We talk everyday, and we really want to make it work, but we get so frustrated because we cant see each other, i can hear it in his voice...





please, tell me what to do... i really love him how do i calm myself and calm him and be a little bit less desperate and to keep our love alive...I need advice, long distance relationship...?
Life is about choices. First find out from each other what you want most out of life, for him and for you. Career or relationship.





If both of you want to be together so much, then both of you have to sit down and talk over what to take and what to give up, to resolve the present conflicting situation. It is a tough choice, career may be important to him and equally to you. If neither side can give way then both must trust and love each other enough to concentrate on what is at hand and try to agree and work out on a more long term plan to be together, keeping constant and frequent contact is important, though frustrating but at least you keep each other going, and try to be positive, this only buys both of you some time. Again a lot also depends on what kind of characters is he and you. Are you the patient type?





So think carefully, and choose what you believe is best. And try to ask him to do the same. Love or something else.





Good luck to both of you.I need advice, long distance relationship...?
its so hard. i know from experience. visit as often as u can, and talk even more...even if its just text or online. send him a card. have flowers delivered to him. write him a cheesy poem and send it to him. mine ended because the guy i was dating was in the army and went to iraq. he ended it. good luck! just be careful!!!
i'm sorry to break it to you but


long distance relationships don't work!!!!


i've been through too many of them..and just ended up getting my heart broken...





it CAN work...if you guys fully trust each other and don't mind seeing each other a lot...


but if you love someone..thats usually not the case.





good luck sweetie
is the distance only temporary? if youre both in love and want to make it work...someone will have to make the move. some people are worth it. you just have to decide if hes worth it or you simply just want a boyfriend.