Monday, December 21, 2009

Should I dump her or stay with her? I need long distance relationship advice.?

Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 2 months now. We only see each other on weekends and live about 75 miles apart. She drives to see me or comes and picks me up and takes me to her house because I don't have a car. Lately she has been complaining about making the drive or complaining about gas with her doing that it has made me question the relationship and makes me think she don't want to see me. What should I do?Should I dump her or stay with her? I need long distance relationship advice.?
First off 75 miles, seeing each other every weekend isn't exactly a long distance relationship. I mean I know you can't see each other everyday, but when you live 14 hours from the person you want to be with 75 miles seems way more bearable :) Only 2 months? I can understand why after 2 months of driving and spending gas money she would be a little upset, I mean gas isn't exactly cheap, plus there's the wear she's putting on her car. She might feel like it's one sided, having to come to you all the time. Her complaining about gas and driving does not in no way mean she doesn't want to see you and it's totally up to you whether you want to end it because of that or not. It just depends on how much you like her...after all remember even though she complains, she is the one driving to you %26lt;3Should I dump her or stay with her? I need long distance relationship advice.?
If you two are not willing to make it work, then perhaps it's not worth the trouble.

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