Advice.... on long distance relationships...i need a little help please?

I Need some genuine advice please. i'm in love with this guy and he lives in a different country i want to know how to maintain my relationship with him. he's very nice and caring yet can get angry very quickly and well not much of a ladies man he doesnt shower me with gifts or remember my birthday but he's nice.





whenever i talk to him on the phone i end up feeling stressed afterwards i dunno why that is it could be that im frustrated that hes soo far away... i just dunno what to do :(Advice.... on long distance relationships...i need a little help please?
If you're in love with him you should tell hom how you feel, donn't tell him he needs to make more of an effort but make out you both need to give it an extra boost if you really want to make it work out, I know you're not the problem but it will give him more confidence to know you're both trying.


Good Luck xxAdvice.... on long distance relationships...i need a little help please?
ok, i'm in a long distance relationship and what you need is patience, and alot of trust. the way you speak about him doesnt convince me that you REALLY want to be with him and you must feel this for a long distance thing to work. you shouldnt be feeling stressed after talking to him. you should be slightly sad and feel pangs of missing him. not stressed. all you can do is keep in touch and remember one of you has to be prepared to move at some point or it isnt gonna be worth it.
You shouldn't end up feeling that way after you get off the phone with him..that's not a good sign. You need to either talk to him about the fact that he is so far away and see if you both can come up with a solution that satisfies both of you or break it off. I would sit down and think about all the reasons you are in love with him and figure out if it's worth it...Good Luck!
Listen to your instincts. You keep saying he's nice, but nice isn't enough to fall in love with. If you are feeling stressed after you have spoken to him then that's your intuition trying to tell you something. If a man makes you feel stressed over the phone, then he's going to make you feel stressed in person. When you find a man you truly love, he won't be 'nice', he'l be amazing, and you won't feel stressed, you'll feel warm and excited and loving. Look for the one who gives you butterflies, not a headache. Also this whole business about him forgetting birthdays obviously bothers you or you wouldn't mention it. He won't suddenly start remembering once you are together. What you see is pretty much what you will be getting, and you will end up being more and more frustrated and dissapointed as each birthday goes by and and he hasn't bothered to remember it. It's not a great sign of sensitivity and caring.
angry and relationships from afar mmm i think you are lucky he is far away think about it ! tell him to go away and be angry with someone else you know it makes sense is he only nice when he gets his own way?
Is this the first relationship you've ever been in? Bc is sounds like it. There's no excuse for not remembering someone's birthday. Sorry to break it to you, but it sounds like you care a lot more for him than he does for you. It's probably a good thing he's in another country; move on and find another partner.
my best mate is going out with a guy in another country.


and one day he turned round and said i think i might be bisexual.


if ur patient and trust him then keep it up but it would be alot easier to find someone in your own country =]


and he forgets ur bday! not good!!
It doesn't sound as if he's as into you as you are to him.I don't think it's the distance that's the problem, but his attitude towards you. You should reall rethink this relationship.
I've found the only way long distance relationships really work out is if it is known in the end that they will no longer be long distance. When dating my now husband who lived in another country it was very frustrating not being able to just go and visit him when either of us had a bad day. It worked for us because we knew we were planning on making it a long term relationship and kept very honest and open communication while apart.
yes i can harsh but true they honestly dont work





because your far away nd cant see eachother as often as youd like,





and then theres the fact - that one of you migth not trust the other like my ex didnt trust me so that made it rely hard on the relationship nd it put strain on us...
is it really worth the hassle? find yourself someone new who will treat you right and enjoy the rest of your life.





attention to detail...these little things you have mentioned may not be a big deal now but they will soon be..read between the lines my dear
it's an old saying that long distance relationships never work. There is a big possibility that he is going to get into a relationship with another girl, but if he really likes you, he might wait for you to go to him or the other way around. You sound to be impatient and maybe that's why you get stressed out when You talk to him. I know this is not what you probably want to hear, but it's best if you two take a break and see other people. You don't want to cross the line between friendship and love into hate beacuse of all the stress this relationship is producing. Good luck with that and try to think first in all his qualities and cool things he's done for you than in his mistakes.