Advice needed: long distance relationships?

I recently met a guy. he is cute and easy to talk to, we get along well and he makes me laugh. only, he lives in a nearby town and i dont see him much. can a relationship going to work under those circumstances?Advice needed: long distance relationships?
well first off here is my experience with long distance: i met a perfect woman in my hometown 3 weeks prior to us both leaving for college. we remained friends for our first semester, but were officially together after that. she went to a school 550 miles away, we only saw eachother on school breaks and an occasional weekend where i drove from sacramento to portland and back. however, it lasted 3 years. it was incredible because the longer we spent away the more we took advantage of the time we spent together. we did not have a problem with trusting eachother. we spoke every night even if only for a few minutes. it was the best relationship i have ever had. however 3 years was just too long, and although we almost got married... it eventually ended. so i guess here is my advice: if you can trust him and you are BOTH in the position to commit to eachother and are truly aware of the hardships of being away even for a week, then i say go for it. but if its going to be long distance for more than a year, dont do it, because no matter how strong you think you might be, the distance will take its effect. also be honest with yourself, if you are a needy person who constantly has to feel the safety of reassurance (or if he is that way) then beware... someone will cheat. not because they like the person they cheat with but to fill the void where you (or he) is supposed to be. personally i would give it a shot... try your best but realize that it will need a little more work and faith than the normal relationship. best of luck to you and yoursAdvice needed: long distance relationships?
i went out with a guy who used to live where i lived in l.a but he moved to fresno we talked everyday and it was working, during the whole time that we went out, 6 months we had never seen each other , we actually started our realtionship after he moved, but he broke up with me cuz i told him how i felt, that i didnt trust him (it was a kind of complicated relationship it would take me forever if i told u everythig that had happened) but he freaked out or something and he ended it, i still love him and miss him soososo much, and i just hope that one day we get to see each other again and if there that spark u no, like wen we used to talk. but it was idk if urs will work i think it like varies u no?
Yes! You can, successfully establish, maintain and enjoy a ( G%26gt;U%26gt;R)! Geographically undesireable relationship.as it is termed, in this age of quickness and speed of everything especcially communication.





The elements of accomplishinging this gur are as follows in order of importance;





1 Attitude is, essential and fundamental. Desire is dominate factor force 4 the pathway for the positive attitutdte





Along with these keys and elements need to be imbedded into some paranormal things such as a chemistry , you know the non-verbal beautiful things you teel about each other. Both parties must want this long distance love affair to stand the test of time, so therefore there must be an established mutual curious committiment, stated openingly to each other. (prefferablly in person eye 2 eye.





2. like you must say 2 one anoher that u are so far still curious about him or her. 2 continue on with learning about each other, enjoying the time spent together etc.





3 honesty! Be honest, it is refreshing when u can deal with an individual candidly! Why be coy at this stage? Lets face it not having the privledge of seeing this person daily or on a whim like u would be able to when u live within a 20mile radius...time is even more valueable when u r together so make good use of it. be kind





4.loyality focus and dedicate your time and thoughts for inventing some fun stlye and enjoying anecdotes , Music.flowers nature , movies,spectator sports and pro active folly. Ease yourself and your mate out of the mundane into the higher lighter side of life stay away from distraction of the opposite sex while u r on the curious trail. If at a point u find a chractor flaw that is hard for you to live with . relate this 2 you partner right away if possible, if u need 2 sleep on it ok , however if it is disturbing let it out and express yourself as clearly as u can and give that person an ultimatium. if they aqueace then great continue. If not call it a daay.





the distance is really not the unsurmountable hill It is the charactor of the parties involved .