Monday, December 21, 2009

Advice for long distance relationships?

Im 15 and so far its working out great


but any advice? thanks


xoxAdvice for long distance relationships?
Long distance relationship is very hard. But it can help both of you to be matured enough to understand and trust each other, it is just a matter of trust and agreement. I experience that too when i was 16 and until now our relationship still going strong.. despite of distance between us. Just hold on and trust unto the love that you have.Advice for long distance relationships?
k well i dated a girl in another city for 5 months and all was going strong but then i gave up because of all the temptations around.





so my advice is to talk to each other as much as possible and ask each other how they think all is going on and weather it is working out fine. caus its not good for 1 peson to think both are happ and the other to be hating everything about the relationship





good luck and hope all works out fine xxx
demand daily stripteases via webcam!
you don't have to be involved in a relationship at your age baby girl so, i will advise you to quit.
Hiya!! You are very young to be having a long distance relationship. But I do know how you feel.


I went out with someone who was from Sheffield and I am from Chester, it wasn't really a long distance relationship but I hardly saw him.


Anyway to cut a long story short, I were with him for 3 years and most of the time he treated me like dirt, and a paid for EVERYTHING!


Soon after I had enough and dumped him, he wasn't even bothered!! Then after, I found out that the 3 years I was with him, he was cheating on me!! He swore that he never had and never would, and I believed him!!


BE VERY CAREFUL, and good luck :o) xxx
I had a long distance relationship when I was 15. I called her every day and it was really expensive. I spent 200 bucks one month and 700 bucks over five months. I had saved that money working hard at summer jobs. She dumped me when my money ran out.





That was over 25 years ago and I have never ever had a long distance relationship work out well.


Be honest with yourself... if you are a physical person at all... you should just end it until you can be together again. Life is too short.
make sure ,u love him. not the IDEA of him.


ive had a long distance reltionship before, and when i saw him after long periods of time i was dissapointed because id made him out to be prince charming in my head. and he wasnt.


just remember, when talking on phone or msn, that its very different from face to face, its harder to know when they are lying and making s*** up.


also, ive moved house, and people change, sometimes for better and sometimes for worse. youll change and he'll change


so watch out for that and


be careful


and make sure u know the REAL them


so u wont be let down and have to deal with the fact theyre not the person you thought they were in your head.





if that makes any sence


lol


sorry


x
Okay then, so don't listen about ';those relationships never work out';.





If it's going great so far, than good for you. With both of you being 15, it is probably hard because obviously neither of you can drive. Maybe either of you have an option to safely take a bus or go with an older friend to visit each other throughout the summer.





The BEST thing for ANY relationship is HONESTY and communication. If one of you feel like you are going to cheat, just end it and move on, don't waste the time with the drama, there will be plenty more people to date. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.





Best of luck.
Never ever limit how often you call him. Call him everyday and ask how he's doing but don't be too naggy. Send him letters because sometimes the old fashion way is memorable if you guys are together for a very long time. He can even look at the when you are not around him. Good lulck
I have some advices here,





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>





I am sure it will help.





Good luck..
long distance never turns out!








srry! but not possible!
sigh.





don't get too attached


don't expect it to last, you're 15


don't be stupid





NOT DIFFICULT, FFS
heyy


dont listen to some of the people who say **** at you about this, there grumpy olds shits who having nothing better to do than insult others so ignore those people who say **** about you being 15 and that it wont work


im 16 and also have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, its gonna have its down sides but you gotta learn to get over that and just enjoy you have a good time when your together


make sure you keep in contact alot and that you try to see eachother as much as possible and its should continue to work out great.





i really hope it all works out well for you so good luck:)
If you guys truly have feelings for each other, make sure you talk a lot. With a long distance relationship, talking is basically all you have.. so if you don't talk, then what DO you have?





Find things and activities to do together, like watch movies with eachother over the internet and trade music and talk on the phone to hear their voice, and send lots of pictures back and forth. It has to feel as real as possible. In long distance relationships the ';little things'; matter a lot, so you can't skimp out on them. Talk about your day and stuff.


Talk about stuff you'd do together and places you'd wanna show them in your town and stuff.





But dont bother with long distance relationships unless you honestly, truly have feelings for the person, and you wanna see it through till the end and you wanna meet in person. If you don't feel that way, then you won't have the strength to make it last.


It is hard..


The more connected you get with each other, the more it hurts, but the more it feels good.. and the more it feels good the more painful it gets to be separated from each other.


It gets VERY bittersweet.. but the thought of meeting them powers you on through each day.





I know this stuff from experience.


I love a girl who lives in Hawaii, I live in California.





I wasn't looking for love, in fact i was afraid of it, and was blocking my feelings off for a long time (like 2+ years).. but she is really special and she broke down all my defenses.. and i just fell for her.


Really hard. We both did. And now we are in the whole long distance thing together.


Its tough.


Just remember to be strong and trust them and do things together.


(if you cant trust the person, then dont even bother).


Watching movies together is really nice.


Just find things you can both do together.





One night i recorded my heartbeat and sent it to her, so she could feel more like she could FEEL me and feel my presence you know?


She loved it.


It's the little things in a long distance relationship that mean the most sometimes.
get attached be special to one another and dont argue
yes, good luck!

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