Im 16 ryt now. and i live here in Canada, Vancouver. About 1 year ago i met a guy named clyde..he's 17, he's so kind, lovable,carrying and most of all he respect all my decision even if it will hurt his feeling juz to make me happy. DaYz past dat he and his family have to move to Alberta, Calgary about 300 miles away from me.. datz y we became long distance..we texted everyday and sometimes if i have no load (cuz im not in plan) he'll sacrifice his time and energy to go to the mall and buy load for me. he's really a nice guy. There r dayz dat we talk online too. we fought many times and make up after dat cuz we really love each other. we even broke up twice and got back.
I really love him, and i know he loves me too. sometimes im talking 2 his sisters and dey said he really loves me.datz y im happy! He trusted me for everything im doing. but sometimes derz thing he can't...and i understand...he's an understanding person too. and sometimes jealousy guy..same as me..hehehe...wer still together ryt now and i dont know if dis is forever..or it will work. He said he's gonna come here dis comming summer. By the way my parents knows it..they juz told me its okey as long as i know wat im doing dey r juz der to support me from watz ryt to wrong. plz help me. I really love him and i dont want to lose him.I need advice for long distance relationship plz.?
Sounds to me you're not going to lose him.
Make sure you two have Trust, Loyalty, and Respect. Also be honest to each other.
P.S. I bet you know French. I can tell by your spelling.I need advice for long distance relationship plz.?
Keep communications going. Nothing works better than letters. Emails and phone calls are alright, but actually taking the time to write to someone shows how much someone is worth to you.
If you truly love someone, distance won't make a difference.
well if he really loves you he will stay with u but he must be feeling pretty lonely i would talk on the phone that is almost like meeting up and stay on CONTACT because if you don't you will lose it.
if you do make it work, make sure to call the history channel and tell them you are in the 1st successful long distance relationship
its very hard to make long distance work and u guys are really young....u can try it but i wouldnt suggest it...but do as ur heart tells u...any problems or mistakes and u will learn from them in the future
yeah they dont work
sorry i know this may hurt but end it now.
im sorry you really need to speak in english not jibberish for all of us to understand
learn to type i cant make out a word you just wrote
Having been in a long distance relationship this question hits pretty close to home for me.
I'll say this; me and my girlfriend couldn't do it. After about 2 months we decided to get a place together. Loving someone who is far away (New Jersey to Florida for me and my girlfriend) is no easy task. It requires a good balance of knowing how much time to give each other to talk and how much time to give to give to yourselves. If you can find that balance you'll probably be able to pull through this ok. Also, webcams will become your new best friend since they are the closest thing you'll have to being with your boyfriend in person.
Well, if it has been working well for all this time, it probably won't go wrong. Most long distant relationships don't work out, but, there is always that small % that do. Tell him that you don't won't to lose your relationship with him. Depending on your age, you could hang on to the thought that you could move to where he is living once you get old enough, or vica versa. Since you have kept in contact every day, you will probably stay in contact for a very long time yet.
Good luck
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
I need advice on long distance relationship please?
i really please need some advice on a long distance relationship please.
i have been talking to this guy on and off for a while now he says one minute he wants to be with me is in love with me the next pushes me away.and all that good stuff i met him right here on answers from what i been told by a mutual friend he also told her the same things he told me.he accused me of not trusting him and denied even having any kind of feelings for me with others.and when i confronted him on this he told me i should go and not bother wiht him.this is the second chance i have given him in less then a week.i feel he is telling me what i want to hear and for what i do not know.any advice please?? thank youI need advice on long distance relationship please?
find some one else.I need advice on long distance relationship please?
You need to dump this guy. And don't get back with him. He's just telling you what you want to hear. He told the same to your friend(and other girls) I bet.
Plus, how do you know he's who he says he is if you only know him online?
First of all, not all long distance relationships fail. I'm currently in one, and we are currently engaged.
To address your issues, he's only an internet fling. He obviously doesn't care to take things further, so cut him off completely. There are plenty other fish in the sea.
My advice is don't even try. It's going to fail, like all long distance relationships do.
Both of you are cheating on eachother already.
seriously hun if he told you to go on and not bother with him and denies having any feelings for you to friends then you should just let this relationship rest. The guy is obviously not worth your time.
He is not for real.
Forget him hon -- he is toying with U.coupons moon drops
i have been talking to this guy on and off for a while now he says one minute he wants to be with me is in love with me the next pushes me away.and all that good stuff i met him right here on answers from what i been told by a mutual friend he also told her the same things he told me.he accused me of not trusting him and denied even having any kind of feelings for me with others.and when i confronted him on this he told me i should go and not bother wiht him.this is the second chance i have given him in less then a week.i feel he is telling me what i want to hear and for what i do not know.any advice please?? thank youI need advice on long distance relationship please?
find some one else.I need advice on long distance relationship please?
You need to dump this guy. And don't get back with him. He's just telling you what you want to hear. He told the same to your friend(and other girls) I bet.
Plus, how do you know he's who he says he is if you only know him online?
First of all, not all long distance relationships fail. I'm currently in one, and we are currently engaged.
To address your issues, he's only an internet fling. He obviously doesn't care to take things further, so cut him off completely. There are plenty other fish in the sea.
My advice is don't even try. It's going to fail, like all long distance relationships do.
Both of you are cheating on eachother already.
seriously hun if he told you to go on and not bother with him and denies having any feelings for you to friends then you should just let this relationship rest. The guy is obviously not worth your time.
He is not for real.
Forget him hon -- he is toying with U.
Date ideas/advice? My long distance relationship is coming back in a few weeks and I have no idea what to do?
Last summer, I admitted my feelings to the boy I was interested in. He felt the same way, but he had to leave for Australia, so we never had a chance to be a real couple. We've kept in touch, and for the past month we've been talking for at least a few hours a day. I still want to be in a relationship with him, but haven't said it specifically. He's expressed that he does want to see me when he gets back, but I don't know what we should do. I don't want to pressure him into anything, so I don't want to do the classic movie ';date';. What should we do for our first meeting in a year? What should I expect relationship-wise?
Thanks!Date ideas/advice? My long distance relationship is coming back in a few weeks and I have no idea what to do?
take it slow and get to know each other all over againDate ideas/advice? My long distance relationship is coming back in a few weeks and I have no idea what to do?
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Thanks!Date ideas/advice? My long distance relationship is coming back in a few weeks and I have no idea what to do?
take it slow and get to know each other all over againDate ideas/advice? My long distance relationship is coming back in a few weeks and I have no idea what to do?
-Amusement park
-Carnival
-Waterpark
-Fair
-Pick-your-own fruit farm
-Hiking
-Ride bikes around town
-Make custom t-shirts
-Bowling
-Go karts
I need advice about long distance relationship?
me and my bf have been together for one year and 7 months, he moved to LA on October from london where we live together, to work for one year. we decided to continue our relationship, but this past 3 weeks we've been arguing and disagreeing about certain things. i just want him to communicate with me more often and he doesn't seem to understand how i feel being here. and he's almost going out with his colluegues which i hate sometimes though i know he's not doing anything bad. what shall i do to make or relationship better? shall i just let him do what he wants, or in what way i can show better what i feel about our relationship. he keeps telling me that he missed me and he can't wait for me to come over on April, but i feel like there's something missing. please give me advice, i feel like giving up and almost break up with him last night... thanks....I need advice about long distance relationship?
brake up n kill urselfI need advice about long distance relationship?
Well this is how i feel you let him do what he want and you just do
you because he out having fun and you at home worrying about
his where abouts and what he's doing
I can understand why you feel less close to him you have gone from living together to being thousands of miles apart anyone that loves someone would feel the same and because you are upset you argue that's normal too. You love him i see that and you seem very sure he isn't cheating so try to worry less. I know it's hard but in the long run a year isn't forever and this is a huge test if you get through this you will get through anything. My boyfriend is in prison which is similar really although different i don't see him much and we sometimes argue its just frustration trust me
instead of feeling like breaking up with with yet u still ove him give urself a break, figure things and sort urself out.
well i'd go over and see him if i was yu or he shud phone yu everyday and just spk what yu feel i mean i live 89 miles away from my gf i live in wolverhampton and she lives in preston but we work out
so i dont realy no but good luck
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he may just find it too hard to talk to you. being apart from someone, and talking to them is the most difficult part. you hear them, and you catch up, and you wish you could do it in person...but you can't. everything about the person floods back and you miss them even more. that's one explanation. the other is that maybe he's just not feeling the chemistry as well as he did in person. tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he even wants to still date you. that's the best question to ask, to wake him up as to how what he's doing is making you feel. good luck!
maybe the fact yer apart is just getting extra frustrating now and thats why these arguments are happening - talk to him - tell him how frustrated you are and that you need him to be more understanding and sympathetic - its always harder on the one who stays behind - if after explaining this to him he continues to not contact you as much then maybe you do have a problem...
xx
i think you should go spend a week with him to connect again because to me it seems like y'all are losing communication and that and trust is the key to making any relationship work
If you can afford this -Fly to LA, suprise him and give the best sex ever. Get your hair done and get some sexy under wear :)
If not, take some hot pics of yourself and send him.
brake up n kill urselfI need advice about long distance relationship?
Well this is how i feel you let him do what he want and you just do
you because he out having fun and you at home worrying about
his where abouts and what he's doing
I can understand why you feel less close to him you have gone from living together to being thousands of miles apart anyone that loves someone would feel the same and because you are upset you argue that's normal too. You love him i see that and you seem very sure he isn't cheating so try to worry less. I know it's hard but in the long run a year isn't forever and this is a huge test if you get through this you will get through anything. My boyfriend is in prison which is similar really although different i don't see him much and we sometimes argue its just frustration trust me
instead of feeling like breaking up with with yet u still ove him give urself a break, figure things and sort urself out.
well i'd go over and see him if i was yu or he shud phone yu everyday and just spk what yu feel i mean i live 89 miles away from my gf i live in wolverhampton and she lives in preston but we work out
so i dont realy no but good luck
=]=]
he may just find it too hard to talk to you. being apart from someone, and talking to them is the most difficult part. you hear them, and you catch up, and you wish you could do it in person...but you can't. everything about the person floods back and you miss them even more. that's one explanation. the other is that maybe he's just not feeling the chemistry as well as he did in person. tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he even wants to still date you. that's the best question to ask, to wake him up as to how what he's doing is making you feel. good luck!
maybe the fact yer apart is just getting extra frustrating now and thats why these arguments are happening - talk to him - tell him how frustrated you are and that you need him to be more understanding and sympathetic - its always harder on the one who stays behind - if after explaining this to him he continues to not contact you as much then maybe you do have a problem...
xx
i think you should go spend a week with him to connect again because to me it seems like y'all are losing communication and that and trust is the key to making any relationship work
If you can afford this -Fly to LA, suprise him and give the best sex ever. Get your hair done and get some sexy under wear :)
If not, take some hot pics of yourself and send him.
Need advice for long distance relationship!!!?
One lives in Sc the other in florida.We have only known each other about 2 months but have met in person twice and talk hours each day.His career is 28 years and has been established there he would not be able to move here.My son will not graduate highschool for 3 and half years and has very strong ties here family ,dad,friends.I will not move until he graduates from highschool.My son has never met him but we both know we want to get married and I would move there.Any advice or is it just wait it out ?We both know we were meant to be.Need advice for long distance relationship!!!?
I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years now and we are okay. Its definately hard but we know that right now its for the best. We are both in colllege and we want to fiinish our education before we move together. He lives in Germany and i live in the US so we dont get to see eachother a lot. It takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty. So if you two can do that then you are off to a good start. we look at the distance as a challenge. Webcams can help since you can see eachother online. If you feel like you can't wait then may be you should move but i just wanted to let know that 3 years is managable as long as you put the work into it. Email me if you have more questiosn or want more ideas of how to stay connected. Good luck :)Need advice for long distance relationship!!!?
Wait it out.
LDR are hard to do......
But i would not move, wait it out and just see what happens!!!!
Long distance relationship rarely work out. You need to spend more time with your NEW friend before making any kind of changes in your life. I would stay in Florida at this point. Your son should be prime in your thinking. After three years of getting to know your new friend, maybe he would be able to move by you or you would have the freedom to move by him.
Best of luck.
go for it
you know when its right
i gave up my whole life and moved myself and 3 kids from the uk to australia to be with the one i love and have never regreted a single second of it 5 years later its the best thing i have ever done
go for it if you feel its meant to be then take that chance
that's a long time to wait ...book some time between now and then for the three of you to vacation together and get to know each other better ... that will tell you a lot about what you want or need to do next ...
but have yall seen each other,if not both of yall dum and you probaly cheating
move in with him as soon as ur son graduates...u gotta w8 cuz thers nothin imp more thn his education n ur family...
u love ur guy dont ya ???? then everythin will work out fine.. :) all the best !
In three years your son will have forgotten Florida. I say move.
My LDR failed becase we didn't get enough time together. Three years is too long to wait. Your son will move on and make friends in SC. Most people sacrifice their lives completely for their kids. It should not e that way. We make sacrifices, but sometimes you have to sit them down and explain that you need to move on with your life aswell. Be honest with them. You need to make a decision fast because the longer you wait, the less of a chance you will have to make the relationship work. Either let him go or move!
Phone, email, visits and so on. Best wishes
I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years now and we are okay. Its definately hard but we know that right now its for the best. We are both in colllege and we want to fiinish our education before we move together. He lives in Germany and i live in the US so we dont get to see eachother a lot. It takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty. So if you two can do that then you are off to a good start. we look at the distance as a challenge. Webcams can help since you can see eachother online. If you feel like you can't wait then may be you should move but i just wanted to let know that 3 years is managable as long as you put the work into it. Email me if you have more questiosn or want more ideas of how to stay connected. Good luck :)Need advice for long distance relationship!!!?
Wait it out.
LDR are hard to do......
But i would not move, wait it out and just see what happens!!!!
Long distance relationship rarely work out. You need to spend more time with your NEW friend before making any kind of changes in your life. I would stay in Florida at this point. Your son should be prime in your thinking. After three years of getting to know your new friend, maybe he would be able to move by you or you would have the freedom to move by him.
Best of luck.
go for it
you know when its right
i gave up my whole life and moved myself and 3 kids from the uk to australia to be with the one i love and have never regreted a single second of it 5 years later its the best thing i have ever done
go for it if you feel its meant to be then take that chance
that's a long time to wait ...book some time between now and then for the three of you to vacation together and get to know each other better ... that will tell you a lot about what you want or need to do next ...
but have yall seen each other,if not both of yall dum and you probaly cheating
move in with him as soon as ur son graduates...u gotta w8 cuz thers nothin imp more thn his education n ur family...
u love ur guy dont ya ???? then everythin will work out fine.. :) all the best !
In three years your son will have forgotten Florida. I say move.
My LDR failed becase we didn't get enough time together. Three years is too long to wait. Your son will move on and make friends in SC. Most people sacrifice their lives completely for their kids. It should not e that way. We make sacrifices, but sometimes you have to sit them down and explain that you need to move on with your life aswell. Be honest with them. You need to make a decision fast because the longer you wait, the less of a chance you will have to make the relationship work. Either let him go or move!
Phone, email, visits and so on. Best wishes
Advice on Long Distance Relationship the clock is ticking?
I met Chase,22, on an Island where we were both stationed on while we were in the Navy. This was 15 months ago. We started dating things went great moved in together 6 months later. Now he is getting out of the military and he plans on moving to Texas where his mom and step dad just recently moved to. He wants to go to college and get a job as a police officer. Ive always been fully supportive on whatever he wants to do. He talked about marriage a few times but I am not ready, I want to wait plus i still have 2 years left in the Navy. He leaves in 6 days, and he has given me a promise ring. We promised we would do whatever it takes to make it work and after I am out of the service we would get married. I plan on going home in 2 months(California) to visit and he is set on meeting up with me so he can meet my parents.
I am nervous to start a long distance relationship, mainly because I truly believe we are meant for each other, but maybe we met a little too early. I am only 20, and I have no probable being faithful, and I trust him. Although, I am a very affectionate person and Ive always needed closeness. Now that we will be apart, what advice can you give me on staying close with him at heart even if we are miles apart?Advice on Long Distance Relationship the clock is ticking?
Just keep thinking of the 2 months (: and try and talk to him at least once a day and write letters and things xAdvice on Long Distance Relationship the clock is ticking?
i dont really know
but im in a long distance relationship
and i phone and txt my gf as much as i can
but as long as you trust him it should workk
help me?
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I am nervous to start a long distance relationship, mainly because I truly believe we are meant for each other, but maybe we met a little too early. I am only 20, and I have no probable being faithful, and I trust him. Although, I am a very affectionate person and Ive always needed closeness. Now that we will be apart, what advice can you give me on staying close with him at heart even if we are miles apart?Advice on Long Distance Relationship the clock is ticking?
Just keep thinking of the 2 months (: and try and talk to him at least once a day and write letters and things xAdvice on Long Distance Relationship the clock is ticking?
i dont really know
but im in a long distance relationship
and i phone and txt my gf as much as i can
but as long as you trust him it should workk
help me?
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Advice on long distance relationship please!?
We have been together for two years and my significant other has to move overseas for his career. He will be there for three years while I'll be here in the US. It's not practical for me to go with because of job stability, standard of living, etc.
He wants to do the long distance relationship and I'm kind of weary because of past failed LDRs who've cheated on me. I trust him completely, but I still have this fear that it will be another failed LDR for me. I know in my heart that I can remain faithful, but since this will be his first LDR, I'm afraid that he won't put as much effort and just give up at the end.
I feel like our relationship is taking steps backwards, instead of forward, but I understand that it's a career related move. It still hurts me that he could just up and leave without trying to get stationed somewhere where I can go with him. Do you think that I should still give the relationship a go or just keep in touch and just be friends and see if we still have feelings for each other after the three years?Advice on long distance relationship please!?
It sounds like he loves you....to not be able to be with you and still want to do a LDR, it doesn't sound like he would cheat. He sounds pretty sure of himself. Just think about what you said at the beginning, you've been together 2 years and just because past ones have failed....why throw someone like that into the past where guys didn't love you like he does? Just make sure he knows the effort he'll have to put in and how hard it is and I'm sure you both can do it. 3 years may seem like forever when you're apart, but it also gives you something to look forward to. It'll be something new, not a step backward. A chance to get to know each other in a way you wouldn't otherwise. No physical to get in the way, just love, communication and trust. It will make your relationship so much stronger....if you both will be strong for your relationship. If he wants to do it, I would definitely go for it. Why throw away 2 years of love, for friendship...when a long distance relationship is possible? Give it a try, if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out....at least you know you tried. I believe it will work though.
Good Luck %26lt;3Advice on long distance relationship please!?
my advice on long distance relationships, is they are always shaky and won't work unless the people move where the other one is, if not it is destined to fail and be very shaky.
I think its best that you keep in touch as friends and when he comes back you two can start from where you left off.
wow.....ummmm idk srry
first of all! you cannot base old relationships on ANYTHING you do in this relationship.
now about the LDR, you said he wants to try it. why dont you talk to him about what happens emotionally since you hae been in one, tell him that its harder than you thought possible.
you two also have to talk about how much u will see eachother and if it is worth the money and time to make extra visits! you also need to see if there will be a point you guys will be together again. will it be 2 years of this or ten?! and if it seems too long, or like it you wont be together soon, then maybe it wouldnt be the best idea.
those are all things you have to think about. hope this helps!coupons moon drops
He wants to do the long distance relationship and I'm kind of weary because of past failed LDRs who've cheated on me. I trust him completely, but I still have this fear that it will be another failed LDR for me. I know in my heart that I can remain faithful, but since this will be his first LDR, I'm afraid that he won't put as much effort and just give up at the end.
I feel like our relationship is taking steps backwards, instead of forward, but I understand that it's a career related move. It still hurts me that he could just up and leave without trying to get stationed somewhere where I can go with him. Do you think that I should still give the relationship a go or just keep in touch and just be friends and see if we still have feelings for each other after the three years?Advice on long distance relationship please!?
It sounds like he loves you....to not be able to be with you and still want to do a LDR, it doesn't sound like he would cheat. He sounds pretty sure of himself. Just think about what you said at the beginning, you've been together 2 years and just because past ones have failed....why throw someone like that into the past where guys didn't love you like he does? Just make sure he knows the effort he'll have to put in and how hard it is and I'm sure you both can do it. 3 years may seem like forever when you're apart, but it also gives you something to look forward to. It'll be something new, not a step backward. A chance to get to know each other in a way you wouldn't otherwise. No physical to get in the way, just love, communication and trust. It will make your relationship so much stronger....if you both will be strong for your relationship. If he wants to do it, I would definitely go for it. Why throw away 2 years of love, for friendship...when a long distance relationship is possible? Give it a try, if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out....at least you know you tried. I believe it will work though.
Good Luck %26lt;3Advice on long distance relationship please!?
my advice on long distance relationships, is they are always shaky and won't work unless the people move where the other one is, if not it is destined to fail and be very shaky.
I think its best that you keep in touch as friends and when he comes back you two can start from where you left off.
wow.....ummmm idk srry
first of all! you cannot base old relationships on ANYTHING you do in this relationship.
now about the LDR, you said he wants to try it. why dont you talk to him about what happens emotionally since you hae been in one, tell him that its harder than you thought possible.
you two also have to talk about how much u will see eachother and if it is worth the money and time to make extra visits! you also need to see if there will be a point you guys will be together again. will it be 2 years of this or ten?! and if it seems too long, or like it you wont be together soon, then maybe it wouldnt be the best idea.
those are all things you have to think about. hope this helps!
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