I really need advice .. long distance/online relationship problems?

i met this guy over facebook a few months ago, since then we've chatted online, on the phone, we sent each other little presents through mail. i really like him, and he tells me he really likes me too, he's told me he loves me even, and yet .. out of the hundreds of friends he has on his page about 3 of them aren't girls, lol. i realize no one likes a jealous partner in a relationship, i'm trying not to be, its just that always, in the back of my mind i'm like ';how many other girls does he say 'i love you' to?';, etc. it makes me feel bad that i'm not closer to him (he lives in a whole other country !!) and that some of these other girls are. does anyone have any advice on what i should do? maybe tell him how i feel or do something that gets his attention (like pics .. ?) or maybe just get over him and find someone more local? we have said how much we want to meet each other, but lately things have been hectic for the both of us, so we don't have a set date.I really need advice .. long distance/online relationship problems?
firstly, has he made his love for you clear in front of everyone else? Does he do this on facebook? E.g. send you love notes or update his relationship status to 'in a relationship?' If he does this that means he is declaring to all the other women on his friends list that he only wants you.





You are right to feel the way you are. You are only wanting to know 'where to from here?' If you guys do not mutually make the commitment to meet up in the future then there is no reason for this relationship to exist, since that's what you are wanting.





Tell him that your biggest wish is to meet up and that you are serious about it and see what he does. If he puts it off, he never will and then you can move on. If he does then cool!





Good luck :)





EDIT: If he doesn't announce things between you in front of other girls, then he has something to hide. When a guy is truly in love, he will shout it to the world. I say just ignore him from now on. He' s 28 and acting like an immature teenager. You need and deserve much better!!I really need advice .. long distance/online relationship problems?
Usually people from other countries forming relationships with people in the US means they want a greencard in the country. I don't know your situation, but my suggestion is to forget about him. It's too risky and he probably just wants to move to the US.
Ok. Wow... Do not, do not, date people over Facebook. You have no idea who this person really is. It's 2009, and the world is a messed up place. Quit talking to him, and stop it at that. I really suggest you should find someone local. Im sure theres someone local you like!





I hope this helps -cheers!
Talking on line as friends is ok,but you sure cannot expect to have a romance on line.You need to concentrate on someone you can hold and they will hold you.
This guys sounds suspicious. I say you talk with him calmly about how you feel...if he gives you anymore reasons to doubt him, go out and find somebody else. You're worth the most devoting and loving man in the world and you know that.
ok.


and what proof do you have that he is really a teenage boy.


see this why kids shouldnt have the internet.


you need to call it off and not do that anymore.
well if u really love him then try to set a date ask him to meet u n if u really can't then try to get over him ntry to forget him as early as possible
Get over him because long distance relationships are too much trouble. They give you too much limits.
Earth to Kate, Earth to Kate...





Time to return to reality.
Staight up, delete him from your page. Might be a petifile!!