Wednesday, April 28, 2010

I need advice about long distance relationship?

me and my bf have been together for one year and 7 months, he moved to LA on October from london where we live together, to work for one year. we decided to continue our relationship, but this past 3 weeks we've been arguing and disagreeing about certain things. i just want him to communicate with me more often and he doesn't seem to understand how i feel being here. and he's almost going out with his colluegues which i hate sometimes though i know he's not doing anything bad. what shall i do to make or relationship better? shall i just let him do what he wants, or in what way i can show better what i feel about our relationship. he keeps telling me that he missed me and he can't wait for me to come over on April, but i feel like there's something missing. please give me advice, i feel like giving up and almost break up with him last night... thanks....I need advice about long distance relationship?
brake up n kill urselfI need advice about long distance relationship?
Well this is how i feel you let him do what he want and you just do


you because he out having fun and you at home worrying about


his where abouts and what he's doing
I can understand why you feel less close to him you have gone from living together to being thousands of miles apart anyone that loves someone would feel the same and because you are upset you argue that's normal too. You love him i see that and you seem very sure he isn't cheating so try to worry less. I know it's hard but in the long run a year isn't forever and this is a huge test if you get through this you will get through anything. My boyfriend is in prison which is similar really although different i don't see him much and we sometimes argue its just frustration trust me
instead of feeling like breaking up with with yet u still ove him give urself a break, figure things and sort urself out.
well i'd go over and see him if i was yu or he shud phone yu everyday and just spk what yu feel i mean i live 89 miles away from my gf i live in wolverhampton and she lives in preston but we work out





so i dont realy no but good luck








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he may just find it too hard to talk to you. being apart from someone, and talking to them is the most difficult part. you hear them, and you catch up, and you wish you could do it in person...but you can't. everything about the person floods back and you miss them even more. that's one explanation. the other is that maybe he's just not feeling the chemistry as well as he did in person. tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he even wants to still date you. that's the best question to ask, to wake him up as to how what he's doing is making you feel. good luck!
maybe the fact yer apart is just getting extra frustrating now and thats why these arguments are happening - talk to him - tell him how frustrated you are and that you need him to be more understanding and sympathetic - its always harder on the one who stays behind - if after explaining this to him he continues to not contact you as much then maybe you do have a problem...


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i think you should go spend a week with him to connect again because to me it seems like y'all are losing communication and that and trust is the key to making any relationship work
If you can afford this -Fly to LA, suprise him and give the best sex ever. Get your hair done and get some sexy under wear :)





If not, take some hot pics of yourself and send him.

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